Hello Kat
I can understand how confusing this is. I still remember when I was teenager and couldn't understand why chores and clean room are so important. Sometimes even more important than happy peaceful household. There are so many better, more productive or enjoyable things to do. In the end, I just hid everything in the corner and made the room look cleaner.
Now when I look back, I think that parents wants us to show that we care about them and their wishes too. We're all different and have different things that make us happy and sometimes all it needs is a clean room.
I hope that this clears up things a little, I hope you're doing well considering your situation and wish that things will get better for you. Please take good care and feel free to share anything you need to
