Why do i keep trusting people

[Guest_672]

I dont know what section to write this in i am not with it today im super stressed and super tired. My dog has a lot of health issues and has an extensive vet history. I was told by a vet im on a black list with them. Ive always paid upront. Never ever have i been rude. I will however leave truthful negative reviews and if i disagree with there opinion i will politely say so. I will also go to another vet for a second opinion. My dog has never been aggressive with them. Ive had tests done where ive paid upfront and havnt got results. Thats just a taste of mistreatment from vets. Yet i keep going back. My dog has a mild rash and i immediately jump to a vet even though i know its a complete waste of money cause i never get any proper treatment. Im paying off centrlink loan for last visit where i was charged double consult and rash wasny even looked at, but because im the least threatning person they always get away with it. I booked another consult with a different vet that although ill pay i can in no way afford considering i know ill just get burned again like always. Why do i keep doing it too myself. Why do i keep putting trust in people who i shouldnt? Its like ive completely lost fath in my judgements i think

[white knight]

Hi www,

I think its best I direct you to a few threads.

Google the following-

beyondblue Topic fortress of survival

Beyondblue Topic fortress of survival part 2

Just read the first post of each.

I hope they help

TonyWK

[Guest_672]

Thankyou so much white knight THANKYOU! I just read your 2 posts and boy they hit the spot. Again THANKYOU your gonna help so many people with that you've written both so well. Im sorry about your mother, your grandmother sounds wonderful, i miss my nanna she understood me

[white knight]

Hi www

Well your appreciation has made my day.

As a super sensitive person I've learned the hard way to insulate myself from some people. But also, now I expect the worst reaction from strangers or business minded people that don't have my feelings at heart. This is a dog eat dog world unfortunately and only our closest friends or relatives are trusted. We cannot protect ourselves fully if we place blind faith in strangers.

Finally- people do silly things and make silly decisions. We don't realise their motivation as we are not walking in their shoes, don't think like them and don't have their nature. We should accept our nature as being ourselves- very important. For if we aren't being ourselves we rob ourselves of true contentment.

Beyondblue topic the frog and the scorpion

TonyWK