New here and wanting some help/advice

[NicoleWatts]

Hello. Im 26 and ive been having anxiety/derpession/adandoment issues for a few years now.
Its hurting my relationship. I feel like im always letting my hisband
And children down on a constant basis. Some days ill let the housework go
And the house will be messy. I loose my cool and get aggitated easily.
I dont like being touched. I just need help or even need to talk to someone. Please

[tranzcrybe]

Hi Nicole,

Wishing you a warm welcome to the bb forums - although I would recommend you change your post name to be less identifying as this is a public forum.

You will find many helpful members you can talk freely through your concerns, but just to kick off, I think it is perfectly natural to have the feelings you do. Have you asked how your husband feels or has he said anything to raise your concerns?

Having a conversation on these things may ease your fears of not living up to expectations.

Regards,

t.

[Suzie29]

Hi Nicole,

Welcome to the forum. If you are feeling lonely and in need of someone to talk to I would highly recommend the services Being https://being.org.au/ and efriend https://efriend.org.au/. The staff are kind and good at listening. Both services have helped me a lot.

[Petal22]

Hello,

Sorry you are feeling this way...

I understand anxiety can be very exhausting I had sever anxiety and have now recovered from it...

Have you spoken to your gp about how you are feeling? Your gp could do a mental health plan with you this will give you 10 free appointments with a phycologist...

i seeked professional help and I feel without their help I wouldn’t be the same person I am today 😊

here if you want to chat