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My mum has out of control anxiety.
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Hi everyone.
I’m at my wit’s end. I’m sure my Mum is suffering from PTSD. She’s in her 80 ‘S & she has had a life filled with sadness, abuse, grief & tragedy. Today, I believe as a result of going through life “ just getting on with it” she’s a complete mess.
She’s on medication for it & I have her and her sister seeing a Geriatrition psychiatrist. Nothing seems to help. Her hearing has deteriorated &, according to her, this is traumatic & makes her unable to be happy ever.
Please, can anyone here please help?
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Hey there
thanks for posting and welcome im So sorry to hear about what your going through
it’s good that she’s willing to get help but I have found medication is helpful but can’t help with Everything
Seeing a psychologist to talk things through can really help
i Would recommend to get her to see someone to really help her get through her struggle and psychologist treatment is different therapies that can help with a lot of things in ways that medication can’t
i hope this helps
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Dear Irish68~
I'm not going to repeat HappyHelper88's good advice
I thought maybe to talk about a physical thing, hearing.
I have PTSD and my hearing is failing slowly following one of the incidents that caused the hearing to degrade. It has been a very slow process and for many years I managed OK, now it's marginal.
Why do I talk about this? Because I suspect, if your mum is like I've been then that being in control of events and being alert to things (even imagined threats) is getting taken away, leaving her stranded.
This is quite apart from all the normal aspects of hearing lost, eg conversation, TV and so on.
May I suggest (and I apologize if you have already done so) that you get the latest and best hearing aids selected and configured by a professional audiologist, such as at the Government's Hearing Australia (134 432)
Their products have made a world of difference ot me and staved off the effects of deterioration for a very long time.
Hope this helps
Croix
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Croix, you’re discussion about her hearing is invaluable. She explains it to me as like her hearing aids just amplify any noises, making it uncomfortable with just going about her day. Like a constant white noise. Does that make sense?
Any future advice would be appreciated 💙
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Dear Irish68~
My hearing injury happened a long time ago, and was work-related so my hearing aids have been given to me ever since. Every tme new technology came along they were replaced. Now of course the deterioration is making things closer to the stage of real hassles a lot of the time.
Up until very recently -the last 4/5 years I think - the aids amplified all the wrong things, and if you turned up the volume then yes you got a real mess of sounds going in. You could hear an ant in sneakers 100 m behind you but the person in front was muffled and garbled. Cutlery generated white noise as did other things.
Now these new ones are out of sight better (just as well, I'd not longer gain a lot of benefit form the older type ones).
The aids have to be individually matched to your ears, which first tales a lot of testing with headphones & computer by a experience qualified (i.e.Uni) audiologist to get an accurate profile of what hearing is available, then aids are programmed to enhance and make best use of that remaining hearing. It even involves using a little tube along with the aid in the ear so the actual sound heard vie the aid is charted.
This is lengthy and very expensive, but I've been amazed at the results. Taken together with sensible steps like no noisy environment, back to a wall so nothing from behind, sound dead rooms, only conversing with those close by. It all makes a huge difference.
Accessories can be used so phone or TV can go straight into the aids wihtout cranking the TV volume up to window shattering levels.
As one's hearing changes, so the programming can be changed to match.
This is probably all rather more information than you need:)
Hope this helps, you Mum's life must be so limited (and maybe scary) at the moment.
Croix
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I'm so sorry your Mother is going through this. You have gotten her help which is a great start.
I think just staying with her as much as possible could help make her feel less afraid.
Have you seen if someone can help with her hearing?
