So last night my partner broke up with me.
We have been living together for 4 months, and together for over 18 months. I have noticed that they were unhappy in their job since moving to be closer to me, and talks about moving away for a better career had been on the table. At one point she said she never wanted to break up, and wanted to try distance but it would be hard. Eventually she said - She doesn't think that I can do distance, due to my anxiety levels, and thinks I don't trust her (sometimes I just send a text to check in on her).
Basically, she said that we should break up last night, and that this relationship isn't healthy because we fight constantly (which is news to me). I mean all couples have small tiffs maybe once a week right? We never had huge fights. She said that she isn't good for me, because she fuels my anxiety.
Come the morning, her opinion hasn't changed and she still wants us to break up.
I just don't understand how a person can tell you they love you & kiss you goodbye in the morning... and by the night they are breaking up with you and revealing all these new emotions and thoughts about the relationship.
Im lost, destroyed, and absolutely heart broken. I don't know what to do about our living situation... and I don't know if I fight for her ... is that desperate and unwanted?
I thought she was the one & I was the one for her. Now im questioning my happiness in this town, what I want to do for a career.. if I should up and change because I feel unhappy.
This thread really depicts my thought process right now - all over the shop!
