Are we really on the brink of WW3

eth93
Community Member

Maybe I'm an odd ball. But the current state of the world has me quietly pooping my pants. I won't lie this all started with Donald Trump being elected president. But ever since my whole outlook on life has just turned into one anxious mess.

No, I'm not putting the blame on Donald. I think possibly the media attention has just made me more aware of the going ons in the world. Russia/American relations, China/American relations, South China Sea, Russia/Nato, Syria, Ukraine, trade wars.

Its all just kind of overwhelmed me and to a point where it is controlling my life.

I realize no one can say with 100% certainty that war wont break out. But I know there are some extremely knowledgeable people on this forum, so just hearing your opinions might help.

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Hi Bookgirl and Bec

Thanks for being a part of the forums!

All of these global issues are a concern for sure. North Korea has been making some noise like a child throwing a tantrum...and yes its not good feeling no matter what country is saying

Bec...just a thought re China...they have always wanted to show off their global strength through the economy not through their military which they have done well. If you have an iphone its proudly made in China. Even my Sony Xperia Z5 is made in China unfortunately

There is too much money to be made to show a country's strength than using military force.

Its really how we perceive whats happening....as you mentioned the media have strong financial reasons for 'sensationalizing' what happening too.

As Bookgirl mentioned "nothing we say or do will have an effect" The chances of anything happening are remote

My health and well being (and my daughter and rescue dog) outweigh any of the 'chest thumping' from any of these small minded countries. Its happened before in the 1940's...1950's....1960's etc etc....

Just my 2cents 🙂

Thanks for being on the forums. If we didnt have people's thoughts/input the forums wouldn't exist

Paul x

Bec_98
Community Member

Nice to hear from you too Paul. What do you make of NK's latest threat of planning a strike on Guam in mid August? It can be hard to believe that leaders can make threats like this with no intention of actually going through with it, as much as we would like them to be empty threats.

It astounds me that we're still threatening, hating and attacking each other instead of focusing on our environment and working on climate change etc to help the planet, but that's a whole other story...

Hi Bec

Ive been following whats happening re North Korea. Kim Jong-un is still chest thumping. Just my opinion but its more like intimidation or stirring up the US.

Similar to the behavior shown by a bully...lots of noise...threats to show their prowess....when all they are doing mimics standard bullying behavior

It can be unsettling for sure but we cant let ourselves be bullied as its what they are trying to achieve

My kind thoughts

Paul

eth93
Community Member

Bec.98!... I read an amazing article on the most recent threat North Korea made against the US base on Guam.

I can't for the life of me find the article or else I would link you to it. But the big thing that stood out to me went something along the lines of.. If someone is going to shoot you on the street, how likely is it that they will pre warn you in advance? Say 'In two weeks time I am going to shoot you on the corner of such and such street'.. Very unlikely to go down like that, isn't it?..

So why would a country that has very little going for it military wise, other then numbers. Give a country, and not just any country, but the USA, a warning of a preemptive strike?...I just can't see it.

Like someone else said to me, from possibly on this forum. America could practically vaporize the whole Korean peninsula, hell the whole planet...Why would tubby risk his lavish lifestyle?

Bookgirl
Community Member
I did think this too but trump seems so out of control. I have been racked with anxiety over this for last 3 days. Not sleeping and terrified as things get worse. I have been to my doc but still can't get it out of my head. I can't see a future at moment and don't know how to handle it

Bec_98
Community Member

Bookgirl, I know exactly how you are feeling, up until the last couple of weeks I had spent a few months exactly the same, gripped by fear, terrified and crying most of the day and night, took to sleeping in my mum's bed, hardly left the house. It moved to other things too, like my health, climate change, general future possibilities and worries, death in general, the afterlife or lack thereof. I started seeing a psychologist for the first time in a few years, and went back on medication. As well as that, I tried my best to change my way of thinking about it all, with big help from these forums, this thread especially. Whenever I saw/heard a headline or the thoughts crossed my mind, I just told myself it's very unlikely that it will happen, but worrying is not going to change anything, and there's really nothing at all I can do. I even repeat to myself some of the things people have mentioned on this thread about why it's most likely not going to happen, and base my thoughts on logic, and disregard media. I avoided the news, blocked the Facebook trending, and just tried to stay positive and distract myself. That combined with the medication and help from my mum, boyfriend, everyone on here and my psych, I've come a long way. Even though things seem worse now, I am much better. My outlook on life has been so much better too, I've started exercising lots more, have lost weight, my motivation is heaps better, and I'm generally happier.

If you haven't already, read through all the replies on here and on my thread that I've done, hopefully it will help you as it has helped me 🙂 I hope you can feel better soon, I would hate for anyone to go through the months of torture as I did.

Paul, nice to read your opinion as always. As I'll mention below, threatening the US at all, with intended or false threats, seems really stupid, like they're digging their own grave. I suppose he is just trying to impress 'his people'.

Eth, yes, I read and thought the same. The only logical answer to that would be that it is just a misleading distraction for what they are actually secretly planning. Or, maybe they just really are not smart. I think the same, surely he knows that if he did make any act, he would be flattened by the US. He couldn't win against them. Why he's even bothering threatening someone who has that sort of power astounds me! Mustn't be much to do in NK.

Happy thoughts everyone 🙂 -Bec

Bookgirl
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Thank you so much bec. I saw your original post and what you say means so much to me. I want to climb out of this hole like you have done. I have done better this afternoon and managed to do some things. I grew up in the 80's and whenever there was trouble nobody ever comforted me and that is why i have such panic attacks. Thank you so much for responding. It means the world to me that someone understands what i am going through because i have felt so alone through all this. Will try do distract and get on with my life because i don't want to live this way.

Bookgirl
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With all the media that has been going on in the news again about nukes etc etc i have come back here. I have been doing my own investigations into coping with anxiety and realise that not only can i not do anything about this, but what is frightening me is more my own thoughts rather than what is actual. I am a control freak and i have always tried to control EVERYTHING - even the world. I was looking at something yesterday about how laughable it is to worry about what is God's business. I can't control stuff like that but still I DO and i beat myself up about that. I think about what will i do if/when it happens. I think about how will i cope. The truth is that i have coped before through 9/11 and the cold war and the Iraq war but i still believe that i can't. My dad and grandmother lived through the blitz in london and sometimes i like to beat myself up about not being as strong as them even though we think my nana got PTSD. I think its because i have always been the rescuer in my family and i still want to rescue when i can do exactly nothing. I believe everything everyone says in the media when it probably isn't true. But i am a work in progress. I am now analysing my thoughts and looking at the logic of it all. I have to accept that i can't change things. I am trying to live in the moment because this stuff has been making me miserable for about 40 years and i am OVER IT!

Bookgirl
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I am really struggling at the moment still. Going to see my psych this afternoon but dread waking up and seeing if something has happened, dread being at work and people talking about it, dread news breaks at night. I was thinking last night that when i die that i will look back and regret most how much time i wasted worrying about stuff i couldn't control but i just don't know how to detach. I am trying meditation. I am reading heaps on worry strategies etc. Still, any news headline will send me into a complete downward spiral. My husband just made a passing mention about guam this morning and i nearly didn't go to work today because i was so anxious. I just don't know why i am so scared because the worst that can happen is that i would die and when you die all your suffering is over. I have disconnected all my news feeds etc but somehow that makes it worse because then i feel like i am not prepared if something bad happens. I am just so exhausted from it all. My dr gave me a week off but i came back to work because i thought it would be better to do something rather than think rubbish all day. I don't know how people look forward at the moment and I feel stupid because i can't, because i am wasting my life on stuff i can't control. Just feel stupid.

Hey Bookgirl

Great to see you again

I used to have chronic anxiety back in my 20's and used to worry about everything...ALL the time..and I remember how draining is was.

It took me over 10 years to realise that I wasnt getting any better and I started getting weekly counseling. It was the best move I ever made. Did it for 7 months with a community mental health care guy and he gave me my life back after all the years of overthinking and worrying.

Its good that you are proactive and taking some steps to heal and good on you!

Having a great GP or a therapist can be a huge bonus as venting is crucial to anyone that has a racing mind or any anxiety for that matter.

I hope today turns out better for you BG

my kind thoughts

Paul