I have always been anxious and an extreme overthinker as well as having fear over making wrong decisions.
recently my fear and anxiety have been over choosing schools for my child. Im deciding between 2 schools that he got offers for. They are similar but also different in some ways. One day i sway more toward one and then next day the other and one day im in between. U keep thinking which would be a better fit, where would he be happier etc. then i worry about him finding nice friends, fitting in, what if he gets bullied for some readon, will he like/not like school and how to tackle that etc. also he may need to do afterschool care for few days a week and im worried that will be too much to handle.
i am so worried as the wrong choice can have an impact on him and his future.
i just wish someone could tell me which is best for him but no one can, as we cant predict future.
i think my anxiety stems from my school experience. I had to change 3 primary schools due to parents moving. i found it difficult to find friends as i was shy and socially awkward. I was also bullied at some points. Now all of this is surfacing and i so dont want my child to experience the same.
i just dont know what to do, how to overcome this, stop overthinking and decide.
