Anxiety question

[jakewillo]

Hi,

I believe my son has anxiety he is 9 years old. He sleeps in the same room as me as hes scared on his own. He recently started having nightmares. He asks me sometimes if hes in a dream. He came home from school today as i think he had anxiety. He said he asked his friend if he was in a dream, he said yes and his tummy started hurting. I have looked online and i think this may be derealization although i am not entirely sure. I think its defo a form of anxiety?? Any tips would be helpful.

[Willow Jude]

Hi jakewillo, and welcome to the forums.

I understand this must be something that you're worried about, and you've done a great job in reaching out and wanting to help your son.

I don't have much personal experience with derealisation so I am not really any help with that specifically, but hopefully one of our other members will be able to offer some more insight in that area. Forum members aren't able to diagnose and generally don't speculate on diagnoses, but I'm sure they will be able to provide some support and guidance.

In general, I suggest raising your concerns with your GP as a great first step. They should be able to offer you some information about what your son may be experiencing, and guide you in how to help him.

Again, it's excellent that you've reached out for some support and guidance on the forums, and feel free to continue posting to let us know how things are going.

-WJ

[Lucyyy]

Hi Jake!
I personally deal with derealisation and depersonalisation. What you’re explaining is almost exactly how I do explain how I’m feeling. It can feel like you’re in a dream and you may feel disconnected from your body. I find mine arises from high stress situations, having recurring nightmares may be an indicator of stress as well! Is your son currently going through any stresses within family life or school??? The stomach hurting could be a sign of anxiety, i personally get stomach pains when hit with anxiety too. I also find I get these within panic attacks! But thankfully these are nothing to fear!
The best thing you can do for him is sit him down and talk with him, let him tell you his feelings and discuss seeing a gp or psychologist with him. I hope you and your son can ease the anxiety and find a solution!