Strange dreams

Keira
Community Member
Does anyone know why I keep having strange dreams...I keep waking up and seeing people and then trying to talk to them but they disappear when I realise their not real. I have dreams that I'm falling or that I'm talking to someone and they're trying to tell me something but I cant her what they are saying and I wake up sweating and in a kind of trance. I have dreams of people I've never seen before but I feel like I know them somehow. When I wake up I feel sure that they are memories but I cant be sure and sometimes I wake up in a different room. Am I going mad? Does anyone have any advice...
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white knight
Community Champion
Community Champion

Hi keira, welcome

you arent going mad. Dreams are the brains dumping ground so some experts claim. Whatever they are they are unrealistic and I believe the best habit is to discount them quickly.

the mind acts in mysterious ways.

Tony WK

MsPurple
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Hi Keira. Sounds like you are having quite vivid dreams? Are your dreams disturbing? For myself I can sometimes remember my strange dreams for a few days (Sometimes even weeks). Even within dreams I remember past dreams and add to them. It can be really weird. I find when my vivid dreams become almost a little disturbing when my anxiety is getting worse. As Tony WK dreams are just the brains dumping ground, however for me if the dreams get disturbing it is a sign I need to manage my anxiety better

Forest_Critter
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Keira, welcome to the forum 🙂

Just a couple of questions to clarify: do you wake up multiple times during the night, and see the images from your dreams each time you wake up? And: how long (roughly) does it take to realise you're not in the dream anymore (when the images from the dream fade)?

Vivid dreams, like MsPurple and WK have said, can be nothing more than an expression of the mind. Often when we are stressed, and pay a lot of attention to the tasks at hand, we pay little attention to the imaginative or creative functions in our brain. This may be an explanation for why the dreams you are having are recurring and vivid.

If the dreams are making you feel worried or stressed, I recommend: before you go to bed / sleep, write down an idea for a dream you would like to have (it can be anything). When you wake up, check what you wrote the night before, and try and see how similar the dream was to what you wanted. In time, you may find your dreams become more and more similar to what you wanted them to be about.

The reason I asked if you wake up multiple times per night is because there are stages of sleep where our brains are prone to having more vivid and illuminating dreams (like when you see someone's eye rolling under their eyelids while they sleep). If a person wakes up during this time (and interrupt the dream), the images from that dream can resonate quite realistically when they wake up. This is because of the state that the brain is still in, even though we have woken up.

You are definitely not going mad. Lots of people experience similar things to what you described.

Don't stress answering those questions if you're not comfortable! Glad you've shared with us, hope I was able to help.

Best,

- FC