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Introverted person with a cloudy mind

PC9
Community Member

Hi I'm PC9 ,

I'm here because I have a problem even now I'm keeping my name hidden as I am constantly judged by people around me everywhere I go and feel sick of that feeling. I want help and want to help people around me who is suffering.

 Hoping I could connect with many people because right now I feel alone and no one understands me.

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white knight
Community Champion
Community Champion

Hi PC9, welcome to beyond blue forums

You are at the right place. This forum is exactly that.

However one should include in their lives an area of self reflection. If so many people judge you then are you being over sensitive. If so you are not alone there. I've never known anyone more sensitive then myself.

So, say you are over sensitive. We all have faults. I would like you to acknowledge this trait/part of your personality then work towards (not changing it) but moulding it to allow you to live a calm, relaxed life and able to blend into society better than you do now. Does that make sense?

We humans can only alter our course minutely, not substantially.

With major flaws in our persona, communication and ability to blend, we are like on an island alone. That isnt ideal for us. It is rarely sustainable long term.

Read up here on the thousands of posts others have written. We are all here as sufferers of various illnesses and we help each other.

Hope we can help you through your journey to some happiness.

Tony WK

Just a suggestion

take a step back from judgements. 

What is it you want to help those around you with? 

So many problems out there, can you generalize without specifics? 

Feeling alone is so big sometimes it is hard to see the light or when someone is trying to reach out to you. Could you right a list of what you want for you and another for those around you. Maybe then you may find an answer that will help. 

Wish you well

arialgk
Community Member
I sent reply to wrong person.