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Hello GwennieJane, I'm sorry no one has replied back to you, my apologies.
Your comment needs more time than I have at the moment, however, it involves alcohol and I will certainly reply when I get home in over an hour, I'm sorry, but your thread has been pushed back to page 1.
See you shortly.
Geoff.
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Hello GwennieJane, I'm sorry I had to leave but now I'm with you and again my sincere apologies for not having anyone respond back to you.
It's a difficult situation you are in and perhaps if I can say that I
It's OK to talk with someone in the early hours of the morning, only if something is gained, but it seems to be going around in circles, not achieving much at all and ends up criticising you, and that's where another problem begins, because what this does is make you anxious and depressed, and now you need help.
Taking time off work is not going to be any benefit unless you are living by yourself or with someone you trust and that's what I suggest because now you need to look after yourself, that's your first priority.
It's your partner who has to decide if and when he wants to stop drinking and being 'good' 1 to 3 days a week can be how an alcoholic drink, but certainly doesn't mean that he can control his drinking, he can't.
Consider separating but I'd like to hear back from you.
Geoff.
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Hi Geoff
I forgot to mention we have a six year old son, who adores him, at the stage he is not impacting on our son, so leaving is not really the answer at this stage. I was more wondering on how much should I be encouraging him to quit drinking, or am I better leaving it to him. He is really trying to help himself at the moment with exercise and seeing a psychologist. I am looking after myself, I am going to whorl and do things with our son with or without him.
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Hello GwennieJane, I'm sorry I'm a couple of days after you replied, but if you have an open relationship then you can encourage him to stop, just slowly and not every minute, but if you keep harping on it will only make him decide otherwise, let the psychologist do their work.
Please let me know how you are going.
Geoff.