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I've recently had some negative interactions with health professionals, mostly in the emergency department of the hospital, related to my mental health and specifically around SH. These have left me feeling quite traumatised. I am doing better now as I have spoken to my psychologist about these experiences but I am wondering if anyone else has had these experiences? It was quite upsetting because it took a lot of courage to seek help when I needed it and to be that vulnerable and then made to feel like a waste of time and space was hard.
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Hi feralchik,
Thank you again for your response. It sounds like you've had some varied experiences, some positive and some not so much.
It's hard knowing that if I get to the point where I don't feel safe that I will ultimately need to take myself back to the hospital where I end up feeling worse, but am at least safe. I'm hoping all the work I'm putting in with therapists will mean I don't end up feeling like that again!
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I've been hospital and in custody many times this year.
The front line have been absolutely amazing.
However in hospital I've been treated very poorly and belittled.
I accept it but please know the people treating you are humans, not robots.
Poor help is inevitable and I was told last time I'm "just a drink loser" yet I'm qualified in Law.
Try to focus on how you feel not how others think.
I'm no expert it simply helped me last few times in hospital.
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Hello Miiia,
Time fpr a mew GP? I would say so. It can be hard to find a GP who has a specific interest in the mental health of their patients, but they are out there. Many GP practices have their own websites, so you could google the practice name & often they also have a list of the GPs working there,& a little about each & what areas of medicine theyhave an interest in. That could steer you in the right direction.
People living near you may go to the same gP's practice & see other GPs. You could maybe talk to these people & find out how they are treated by their GPs, & get some sort of idea from that.
Mostly, you just have to keep trying until you find one who seems to care & who will have time for you. & hope they don't leave the practice!
I've had that happen before.
Finally I do think I've found a pretty good GP. It's been so long, I'd wondered if it's me that has the problem, but no, some of them really do have a problem when it comes to mental health issues.
mmMekitty
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Hello mmMeKitty,
Thanks for your reply. I only go to this GP because he does "walk ins" at 6.30am and due to my chronic anxiety & depression, I arrive at his surgery at 5.30am so I am his first patient. I hate being seen in public. I also have a disfiguring disease which I am so self conscious of & he is fully aware of this. He is fairly easy to get repeat scripts off so that's the main reason I go to him.
Where I live it is so hard to get in to see a new GP anyway. Better the devil you know and all that. I also never leave my home unless its at 7am for food for my little dog or the chemist at 8am for prescribed drugs otherwise I stay home, secluded from everyone. I never answer my front door if the doorbell rings or answer my phone unless I know who is calling.
Thank you for your reply and suggestions. Not sure I'll be around long enough to really be concerned about anything to do with life. My sister is calling my name. Hugs xxx
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Hello Chris_Tas, in all that's been said I to have been called 'just a drink loser' in those terms and many other sayings by both psych's and family/friends which only exemplifies the problem.
The trouble with this is when you are referred to as being like this no medication (AD) will be prescribed, so it's a catch-22.
Take care.
Geoff.
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Hello Miiia,
Given the last of your last sentence s post, "...Not sure I'll be around long enough to really be concerned about anything to do with life. My sister is calling my name.
...", I need to ask, are you at risk of harming yourself?
If you are at immediate ristk of harming yourself, you need to call 000.
Otherwise, would you call BB's own counselling service, on:
1300 22 46 36 please?
mmMekitty
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I read your entire post and I completely understand and sympathise.
Nurses are usually great imo but I've had a few who made my situation much (MUCH) worse with the "beds are for sick people not you".
I refuse now to listen to it and I encourage you to listen to better people only and do the same (if you can)
Chris
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I'm a very direct but person.
If you don't get the help you need, demand it.
Nurses and Drs just another day and couldn't care less.