I had a very tough domestic violence situation last year and was threatened with death threats and a break an enter when i was 11 weeks pregnant. My ex (residing in aus) was deported back to his birth country.
Now, being pregnant with all my hormones I decided I could forgive him when I was 16 weeks pregnant. Silly me.
He ends up in jail when I was 28 weeks pregnant. And now my son is 5 months old and his dad is being released a few weeks.
On the plus side, it is unlikely he's able to return but his father (babys grandad) resides in aus so the likelihood of abduction is also very high.
My problem is I've been very civil, sending photos to his mother and keeping the peace as know this is favored in a court setting. He wants me to go to his country with my son so they can meet. I think you can see my concern as to why I dont want to.
Should I literally just cut off contact with them all or stand my ground? I have extreme anxiety and OCD thoughts so you can see why I'm having a time letting this go.
He's on the birth cert becaise they managed to track him down and I didn't want my child growing up thinking he was fatherless.
I've been far too nice and lenient so how can I turn this around?
