Hi everyone, i feel totally stressed out, completely, trying to find the right support to actually get someone who Is going to listen. To me
I’m sick of paying professionals they claim to be kind hearted councillors saying they can support me but only to tell me they can’t any more because they’ve moved practice. I need ongoing regularity.
I thought mental health stigma was just a cliche thing like you can LIVE your life what ever way you want. That’s me. Thats how I see it. Now I know it doesn’t seem like I’m telling the truth or as if this is actually me. but I’m going through massive domestic violence at the moment and it’s quite severe the emotional and verbal bashing. I’ve already been through two lots of physical violence when I was in my 20s I’m now in my late 30s.
I’m sick of men telling me they’re not interested, only to not leaving me alone. I’m sick of having to call the police all the time and for charges to be put on laid because they assault me.
I don’t follow or dwell or chase any of these guys. In fact I blocked them generally. but then I get 50 emails a day once and I had 52 voicemails left on my phone in a week because I was simply getting on with my life. I’ve always lived by the beach. I’ve always worked/studied I could be a better professional. I feel like the life has been sucked out of me by some horrible men that I’ve come across on web chats.
I don’t trust a lot of people because I find a lot of other people get jealous of where I’ve lived, on my own, and whatever I’ve achieved because I refuse to accept anything less than what my dreams are. which then leaves me at a point where I can’t trust these people anymore.
I wanted to buy a property when I was 26. I had a three bedroom house when I was 25 six houses from the ocean. I had no support from anyone. And my plan was to travel to Brazil and just let loose focus on my weight loss and be happy. But guys would generally look at what I’ve looked after (property) and accumulated. And take it.
I was suppose to have kids when I was younger at 26 years of age too. And I was beaten thrown out of the car and told I was a horrible girlfriend and I’d be better as a parent than a girlfriend. 😞
when I confronted this guy verbally they ignore me by passed me and went straight to the police. Even though he was The one whoassaulted me.
my mothers abuse (verbal & emotional) with psychological harassment has been nothing short of really bad.
a lot of people from past have said her lack of support is something they havnt heard of. It’s apporant!!!
I broke up with first bf when I was 20. And she invited me back home only to kick me out Three weeks later, again. I have mental health support but I feel like everyone around me is not giving me the right advice.
recently from 2019 - 2025 She lies to me and asks me to take her down the shops because she doesn’t have a car due to losing her license drink driving and that she’ll buy me something. then she’ll control my driving, which is very dangerous. I nearly run a light once because she was provoking and intimidating me in the car. Making me do things I don’t want to do. so I pulled over.
I asked her what she was doing in the shops and she ignored my request to go to The bathroom and said she was buying all these little gifts and chocolates for the ladys at the counters. I said why not me mum she said well you’re not worth it
she deliberately plays on my mental health I just wish that she would just move away and leave everyone else alone. I don’t want to see her for the rest of my existence
I’ve moved into a brand new house only 7 months ago and I have a new established garden bed without landscaping. I don’t want her knowing where I live
