The right job for depression?

[NoOtherName]

Hey guys 👋🏼

I'm new here so it's nice to read about all your discussions.

Just needing some advice please. Currently looking for a job I can maintain and I just got offered a job as a case worker working with kids in foster situations with severe trauma and mental health issues. In one way, it sounds perfect as I love kids and helping people but I'm also worried that my depression isn't steady enough to go back to work as it does make me unreliable and especially in such an intense environment.

Have any of you had experience with this type of work or can you recommend any other work to me?

I've tried being self employed but it's hard to stay motivated for me and not get discouraged with the lack of money.

Thanks so much in advance ☺️

[BlueGrass]

Hi there no other name

Have you discussed the idea with your counsellor / therapist? (if you have one).

No , I've never worked in that field, but just a few thoughts. How would you handle the situation if a child presented with an issue that is a severe "trigger" for you?

If you build a 'trust' with clients, and then suddenly are not available, could this affect the client? (I know we all get sick, but picking up on you comment "unreliable" ).

I'm sure you will know in yourself how you would go, maybe if you could start with a couple of days a week?

Good luck 🙂

[NoOtherName]

Hey Blue Grass,

Thanks so much for your message. That's a good idea, I'll talk to her about it next week when I see her :).

I think you're right, as much as I would love this job, I think it may be best to put on the shelf for a bit until I'm stable and well. Last thing I want to do is make matters worse for anyone.

Thank you so much again, I so appreciate your response.

[PhilK]

I'm sure that would be a very rewarding field to get into. For me though I'd be concerned that I'd be too (negatively) affected by the types of trauma/abuse those kids have been through.

Definitely worth talking through with your support. I'm sure the right opportunity is out there for you and she may have some good ideas and contacts to point you at.

[BlueGrass]

Hi there NoN

Thanks 🙂 Also, write down all your ideas, so you don't forget, too (I know I forget )

I'm of the opinion that someone who has had issues, and sorted them out, and are now stable, have a special gift.

I think they make good therapists, because they have "been there, done that" and empathise with their clients. A very respected counsellor I had told me when he tried to quit smoking, he became depressed. It was that battle that gave him a totally new perspective on the issues his clients presented with.

Also, therapists are supported by other therapists, we are all continually learning and improving, no matter who we are. (No, I am definitely not a therapist, I am only commenting from the other side of the desk)

While you are becoming more stable, ask your therapist what sort of part-time off-campus TAFE or maybe uni courses would be worth pursuing. I'd suggest part-time if full time might be too stressful. It also would be easier if working (which I figure you are).

All the best hugs 🙂

[BlueGrass]

silly me, I just re-read your first post. You are looking for work. All the best