Leaving a toxic relationship, any ideas,

[Amz]

I need to get out of this relationship it's killing me, to the point It's ruining me as a person and a mother, he won't accept my wishes and puts the guilt trip on to me and things will change, no it won't I can see that now, how to I leave without becoming a problem, can I get an avo out on him, 

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Amz

Thanks for reaching out. 
I am in a similar situation with a. controlling partner but because of he is nearly  80 I hang in there. I think leaving before you feel stuck like me. 
Everyone thinks partner is wonderful snd he is to everyone else and no one would believe how he treats me.

Is your partner ok sine times and then mentally abusive  or are they toxic most of the time 

there is support there like RESPECT who can help   1800 737732

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