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a.username.thats.not.taken
Community Member
Hello people, 

 

I'm a male in my 30s from the greater Sydney metropolitan area.  

A touch under a decade ago I received a physical disability which greatly altered my general mobility, the activities I can participate in and has left me with quite serious chronic pain, from this I developed secondary depression which officially I was told was classified as a 'severe clinical depressive disorder' or some such. 

Being in such a position I cut myself off from friends and social contact for many years due to reasons a lot of people here could probably relate to however now I'm managing things a bit better but find myself with a desire to meet new people but no real method to do so. 

In some ways I feel like I have forgotten how to make friends.

In an effort to extend my social circle I took a trip to a local "Men's Shed" and whilst they were nice people and there's the ability to talk about common interests (DIY/etc) I found the generation gap immense (30s vs 60/70s).

I think one of my biggest obstacles at the moment is that I do literally nothing of a day and many of the things that I think would interest me (certain volunteer roles, etc) are unavailable due to my physical limitations.

In addition to the above I also suck at choosing usernames when signing up for websites. 

Well, yeah, I guess that's my rambling disjointed introduction. 

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geoff
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

dear Username, I can well and truly understand your lack of being able to physically perform any activities, as I am exactly the same.

I had a vehicle accident, which was my 2nd attempt, and broke my hip/knee etc, and now this has greatly limited me in what I can physically do, so it makes me feel like an old man, and sometimes it's just embarrassing.

I visited my son/wife and my little grand daughter on the weekend and there were so many jobs that I could have been able to do before the accident, but now there's no hope.

Can I ask you if you are suffering from PTSD. Geoff.