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Jeriava How do I talk to my doctor?
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I’ve been struggling with my life for the past 7-8 years but I finally made an appointment with a doctor. I feel really scared though because I don’t ever go to the doctor for anything, and I havent seen this doctor for so many years that I’m really ... View more

I’ve been struggling with my life for the past 7-8 years but I finally made an appointment with a doctor. I feel really scared though because I don’t ever go to the doctor for anything, and I havent seen this doctor for so many years that I’m really scared that they’ll judge me or won’t believe anything I say. I’m really anti social so I feel like I won’t be able to say what I wanna say or I’ll say the wrong thing causing them to just dismiss me and move me along without helping. I’m just tired of feeling alone, depressed and just worthless but I’m really scared to talk to them.

Chris_B Are you looking to support someone else with depression? PLEASE READ before posting
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This forum is for people seeking support for their own mental health issues. If you're posting on behalf of someone else with a mental health issue that you're concerned about, please have a look at this section of our forums: Supporting family and f... View more

This forum is for people seeking support for their own mental health issues. If you're posting on behalf of someone else with a mental health issue that you're concerned about, please have a look at this section of our forums: Supporting family and friends with a mental health condition It's full of threads from people who have family members and friends going through anxiety, depression or other related conditions. Have a read through the threads there, and feel free to take part in the discussions. Below are also some helpful beyondblue resources you might want to look through first as well: Supporting someone Have the conversation

AGrace SELF HELP TIPS FOR MANAGING DEPRESSION
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Hi Everyone, Here are some ideas you might like to try for managing symptoms of depression. Of course everyone's different, so let us know what works for you, and please feel free to add to the list... Mindfulness – through breathing or engaging the ... View more

Hi Everyone, Here are some ideas you might like to try for managing symptoms of depression. Of course everyone's different, so let us know what works for you, and please feel free to add to the list... Mindfulness – through breathing or engaging the 5 senses Distress Tolerance – Accepting Emotions and Self Soothing Distraction – Put the thoughts/feelings aside and come back to them when you are ready to deal with them Positive Affirmations – Have some affirmations written down repeat them to yourself daily Sleep/Exercise/Diet – All 3 aspects of our lifestyle can impact the way we think/feel Increasing Pleasurable Activities – Engage in at least one pleasurable activity per day

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luke_c had to resign from apprenticeship
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hi i've been in a pretty tough situation lately, had to resign from my apprenticeship this week due to a combination of things. i was almost in my 2nd year as a fitter. i wasn't meeting the training requirements of my trade since my employer didn't h... View more

hi i've been in a pretty tough situation lately, had to resign from my apprenticeship this week due to a combination of things. i was almost in my 2nd year as a fitter. i wasn't meeting the training requirements of my trade since my employer didn't have the resources in place to train me and i was always getting put on adhoc tasks which i never done before and had no idea what to do a lot of the time, i felt like i was being held back by my co workers and wasn't allowed to do many things even though i had 6 years experience as a trade assistant prior to this job. But I think the biggest things was that i was bullied and belittled by one of my co workers and he was like that ever since i started. i first complained to my manager 6 months ago since he was doing things that were against company policy, we had a meeting we shook hands and i thought we could move on. the manager asked us to communicate more, which after that i kept making an effort to have a conversation with him but he didn't want to. 3 months later, behind closed doors, he was belittling me and treating me as if i were a child, while almost yelling at me when i was doing a task. I knew something wasn't right because to everyone else who worked there he'd say hello to them every morning but he'd never say hi or talk to me. i brought this up with hr, they listened to my complaint, they then talked to him the next day. the day after that they took his side as obviously he was concealing the real truth and pretty told me to put up with it and take direction. i wasn't happy with the outcome so i spoke to one or two of the office staff in private and they said he has been abusive to them at times and done things that were against company policy. fast foward to early this week, i walk in the canteen at 5:50am in the morning and again, he didn't say hello or talk to me (even though i shook hands with him a few days earlier). at 6am work started we had our morning meeting, he then started belittling me again calling me "the apprentice", it's like he thinks he's above me. i thought ok, i'll let it slide, but i was then sent to dig holes all day by the manager and it was eating away at me since i felt really depressed working here. i then resigned later that morning because after 10 months, i couldn't tolerate it anymore. i was sleepless later that night and it's only this morning i'm starting to get over it, thinking about that guy makes me upset and he's the main reason i resigned.

Elephant86 The power of reading and gaining knowledge
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I think the best thing I did to help myself was reading as many books on different topics that i could. My favourites topics where history, science. The important thing is to question everything and be positivly curious you never stop learning and en... View more

I think the best thing I did to help myself was reading as many books on different topics that i could. My favourites topics where history, science. The important thing is to question everything and be positivly curious you never stop learning and enjoying the world of books. I beleive if you have the right infomation you can make the right decisions for your health. Always listen to professional advice where needed. The other powerful thing is playing sport to keep yourself fit and strong and focused on a positive outcomes. Beleive me at times I was terrified but by having the right knowledge I was able to build the right plan to help support my recovery. Mental health can be destructive but if you have the right tools you can face the adversity and have the right plan to step into a positive mindset. Remember you don't walk alone your support network is there to support you. You must not let your disability take your power you control your disability it doesn't control you. You walk into a dark dangerous forest but you think your not going to get out but there are good powerful creatures in the forest that guide and protect like the unicorn and the centuer they are your guides on your journey of your health. There is no need to fear when you have powerful guides to protect you from the eval around you. You must always beleive in the powerful good energy aand the healing magic. You know sometimes finding things that bring me back to peace and calm is important. Reading fantasy books is a good way of having fun while you read. I think I like harry potter to much. You must light a candle to lead you out of the dark and into the light. You must beleive in the power of positive thinking and I know there a mountain to climb. If you have seen the fellowship of the rings froddo had a team to beat the eval you must have a powerful support to help you on your perolious journey. You are powerful beyond measure and you have the power with in yourself to face your disability. You must see you disability in a positive light what gifts does it give me and what super powers do I posses. This is what you have to find out for yourself. You must be gratful for what you do have not what you don't have . The power of positive thinking is important and follow a positive light to good health The power is in your hands

Elephant86 The impact of mental health conditions on daily life
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The impact that my disabability has on me is immense and I must not only be the only person that is going through it. There must be many of us that experience mental health impact at one time or another. The impact that my condition has had on me is ... View more

The impact that my disabability has on me is immense and I must not only be the only person that is going through it. There must be many of us that experience mental health impact at one time or another. The impact that my condition has had on me is that I will never get my licence because of grand mal epilepsy . I also have a bipolar which makes me sick for a month at a time but I choose to not let my disability deny me of a happy life. I have sorting a healthy activity plan where I do reading, cycling, meditation, cooking, family, dog time. Everybodies health activity plan is different and you do what is good for you but these are the things that help me cope with my condition. We as human beings have difficulties but it is how we stand up to our difficulties that determine our strength with in . I found my strength in writing. You must find what you are good at and play to your strengths. disability is a word but you choose how you rise above your situation. I hope you have a wonderful day today

caysee Challenges
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I have been dealing with D and A and having some thoughts that scare me.... I'm not sure what to do.

I have been dealing with D and A and having some thoughts that scare me.... I'm not sure what to do.

Puddles1974 Lost partner suddenly to cancer
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I recently lost my partner suddenly to cancer. Multiple Myeloma. He was diagnosed July 2022. He was given 10-15 years to live. 7 months later he passed away. So unexpected and sudden. We weren't told it was aggressive or found in his blood until Dece... View more

I recently lost my partner suddenly to cancer. Multiple Myeloma. He was diagnosed July 2022. He was given 10-15 years to live. 7 months later he passed away. So unexpected and sudden. We weren't told it was aggressive or found in his blood until December. He did stem cell transplant, that failed. Tried another form of chemo. That too failed. Then did high pace chemo. He got pneumonia in hospital and passed away. Not coping at all. Depression has kicked in quite bad. I've suffered anxiety for the last few years but his death has really broken me.

mads675769879 suicide bully
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so I'm in grade 11 I'm struggling with a couple things i been bullied my whole life because of my parents because they were druggies and they abused me and my siblings a lot so i moved to sa because my dad got locked up and and we were put in dcp and... View more

so I'm in grade 11 I'm struggling with a couple things i been bullied my whole life because of my parents because they were druggies and they abused me and my siblings a lot so i moved to sa because my dad got locked up and and we were put in dcp and the only way my mum could get us back if we move sa and started living with my aunty in 2020 when covid just started and my mum stuffed it up and hurt me and my brothers so my aunty kicked out and my mum asked me and my sibling if we want to go with her she took my 3 youngers siblings with 3 years later im at school in year 11 im really struggling because im getting bullied real bad i got rumors spread about today i was yelling at a teacher and i addencty told i feel like a want to kill my self and im scared that they will tell my aunty and she put me in mental hospital lately so i started to yell at these girls that were bullying me and lately i been self harming really bad i really need help but i cant talk to my aunty because she will call me a attention seeker

Rya2345 DSP
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I got my divorce in 2019. I was a homemaker all my life. It was an unhealthy relationship. Ever since my divorce I have been trying to either study or stay into a job which I'm unable to. I get severely depressed and I live on my own. I have been on ... View more

I got my divorce in 2019. I was a homemaker all my life. It was an unhealthy relationship. Ever since my divorce I have been trying to either study or stay into a job which I'm unable to. I get severely depressed and I live on my own. I have been on the jobseeker. I get overwhelmed easily and currently on antidepressants. I have been given a 3 months medical exemption for the mutual obligations.I was wondering if I will be eligible for DSP.I don't have the energy to write more or even describe in details

renu Deperssion, anxiety
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Hello I’m Renu i have some mental health issue i need help with this. thanks

Hello I’m Renu i have some mental health issue i need help with this. thanks

H-c I don’t know what to feel or do anymore
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Well, I’m back once again. I thought after seeking professional help I’d feel better, feel whole once again but I’m back. Back to square one. I thought I’d only be diagnosed with one condition which I have learned to accept but then I got diagnosed w... View more

Well, I’m back once again. I thought after seeking professional help I’d feel better, feel whole once again but I’m back. Back to square one. I thought I’d only be diagnosed with one condition which I have learned to accept but then I got diagnosed with three. OCD, GAD and Major depressive

annoy I just want to let it all go
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I am a 23 year woman and first-generation immigrant. My parents and sister depend on my success, yet I am so undeserving of the place I am in. I wish I was never born in the first place, or that someone who is more capable was in my stead. I wish to ... View more

I am a 23 year woman and first-generation immigrant. My parents and sister depend on my success, yet I am so undeserving of the place I am in. I wish I was never born in the first place, or that someone who is more capable was in my stead. I wish to let it all go. But I can’t. I can’t do that to my parents. Never. I tell my friends of my issue, yet no matter what advice they give me, I can’t get better. It just feels so hopeless and pointless. Yet time is ticking and I’m losing opportunities because of the way I am. Why am I like this. I can’t live yet I can’t die. I am stuck in my own body.