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BeyondBlue Hi! Check out this post if you're not sure how to start
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Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are... View more

Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are really interested in what you might want to add to these conversations. We get it, having anxiety makes it hard to share in a public place. Remember, this is anonymous and the Beyond Blue team are here to help if you need it This section is for people who are experiencing anxiety in some form in their lives. This might be in social settings, at work, or just in the day to day. You don’t need a diagnosis to post here. If it feels like the right spot for your post, go right ahead! We know that feeling anxious can make it hard to reach out so we want you to know that getting this far is amazing and a great start. A few tips for getting the most out of this section: Get involved when you can! Posting and replying is the heartbeat of this community and you DO have something worthwhile to share (when you’re ready ) Every experience is different. There is no competition here. We know how challenging anxiety can be and how it comes in all shapes and sizes. What you are experiencing will be respected and supported here. Trust yourself! You are the expert in your experience. This community works because people like you share what has worked for you. Thank you for getting involved and taking a look. We can’t wait to hear from you! Beyond Blue

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Amy1234 Feeling anxious all the time
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I know I’ve suffered from generalised anxiety for a few years now (I get a sick feeling about things that make me uncomfortable) and have not been diagnosed by a doctor but lately have been feeling anxious about the smallest things. Feeling like I ca... View more

I know I’ve suffered from generalised anxiety for a few years now (I get a sick feeling about things that make me uncomfortable) and have not been diagnosed by a doctor but lately have been feeling anxious about the smallest things. Feeling like I can’t do anything right and that the decisions I do make are judged by my partner as the wrong decision. Feeling like I could cry if something seems difficult or doesn’t go my way and just a sense of not feeling happy. I feel like I have a lot to be thankful for in my life but I just seem to feel unhappy and like i can’t do anything right. I feel unsupported even though I have a lot of friends and family

Purple4 Digestive Issues caused by anxiety???
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Hello Everyone. I am having major digestive issues that my GP says are caused by stress and anxiety. After the birth of my first child over 21 years ago I was diagnosed with IBS. I have spent over 20 years being aware of what I eat and know my trigge... View more

Hello Everyone. I am having major digestive issues that my GP says are caused by stress and anxiety. After the birth of my first child over 21 years ago I was diagnosed with IBS. I have spent over 20 years being aware of what I eat and know my triggers. I have always had a 'podgy' lower tummy but have never experienced the bloating and distended tummy I now have. I seriously look pregnant. My tummy distends from my sternum, (right under breasts) and is tight and painful. Over the last 3 months or so it has become worse so I went back to my GP and was brushed aside by him saying its anxiety related. I expressed my fear of something serious wrong with me so he refered me to a surgeon for a gastroscopy and colonoscopy. Also ultra sound on kidneys and liver as I have pain in my left kidney. The specialist told me not to be too hopeful for answers which has left me feeling deflated. I'm having the procedures done a week before Xmas. Does anyone else suffer from this?? When I eat my tummy tightens and becomes painful. I have never been 'regular ' with going to toilet. Part of me feels like there is a blockage in my bowel. I am fed up with feeling fat and bloated and rarely leave my house.

BradDad Anxiety spikes when directly facing someone
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Does anyone else experience this? My anxiety levels are ok if I'm talking to someone and we're side on, or if I'm seated, but if we stand directly facing each other I start to go into fight or flight mode. I feel like I can't escape their gaze and I ... View more

Does anyone else experience this? My anxiety levels are ok if I'm talking to someone and we're side on, or if I'm seated, but if we stand directly facing each other I start to go into fight or flight mode. I feel like I can't escape their gaze and I don't know what to do with my body. The thought train starts 'they will see that I'm nervous and they will judge me etc...' and that makes my anxiety worse. This isn't a problem with some people whom I'm comfortable with but it is for a majority of situations, especially at work. I can be walking along side-by-side with a person and be fine. If we stop though and turn to face each other (as often happens) suddenly the anxiety spikes. I have started a new job which makes this all worse but it's always been a problem.

Simonecs89 New anxiety symptom is worrying me
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Hi everyone. About a month ago a new symptom popped up and my dr thinks it’s anxiety. I question myself whether it is as I often think the worst and think it could be more. It constantly feels like my throat is closing up, sometimes worse than others... View more

Hi everyone. About a month ago a new symptom popped up and my dr thinks it’s anxiety. I question myself whether it is as I often think the worst and think it could be more. It constantly feels like my throat is closing up, sometimes worse than others. It’s a hard feeling to explain. It would be very very comforting to know that others suffer from this anxiety inducing symptom too and that it can’t hurt me. If you do, is there anything to help you deal with it?

Dumbledore82 Where has this new bout of anxiety come from?
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Hi everyone This is my first post and I am a bit nervous around posting as I have self managed my anxiety for many years and I am only just starting to open up about my mental health to others around me. I have learnt some great management strategies... View more

Hi everyone This is my first post and I am a bit nervous around posting as I have self managed my anxiety for many years and I am only just starting to open up about my mental health to others around me. I have learnt some great management strategies that have allowed me for almost 15 years control my thoughts so that I can bring myself back to the present quickly and dismiss those awful what if and awful future thoughts that are there, however for the last few weeks I have all the physical symptoms - racing heart, shakes, exhaustion etc without the thoughts that normally come first. This means I am at a loss as to how to control and get myself out of my anxious state, in fact I have been highly anxious and all over the place almost constantly for the last few days, it's so tiring and I just don't know what to do. Has anyone else gone through this? I'm not sure on what my next steps should be? Thank you so much and I hope that makes sense to at least one person.

loki112000 Debilitating anxiety about work
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Hi all, I am writing here for the first time. I've been struggling with depression and anxiety for about 10-15 years now and although I've gotten better at times I have recently regressed making me realise that this may be a long term challenge for m... View more

Hi all, I am writing here for the first time. I've been struggling with depression and anxiety for about 10-15 years now and although I've gotten better at times I have recently regressed making me realise that this may be a long term challenge for me. My full story is that I had a very harsh father growing up who had anger management issues caused by his own lack of a father potentially. I also had a timid mother who became a gambling addict. I myself became a gambling addict and was able to beat that but couldn't save my mother. She has improved but still financially my parents struggle. The irony is that for the last 15 years of my career I worked in the gambling industry and climbed quite high in my startup company which became a global operation and was bought out. After discovering of my mother's relapse into gambling I decided to quit. During that time along the way I also burnt out at work. Recently I took a new job, and I've found it so hard to adjust to a new industry. I also took a role because I didn't get many offers on applying despite my depth of experience in management. I am really struggling now where I don't enjoy my work and I feel debilitated to wake up and get to work every day. My wife hears a lot of my angst, I see a counsellor and things have improved in my personal life. I am on meds, no longer suicidal which I was, but I still struggle to face work on a daily basis. I really don't know what to do and where to turn. I've tried a lot of techniques to overcome anxiety. But when I get into work I sit around not knowing what to do, listless, watching youtube and wasting time. Any advice would be great to help me feel more motivated and invigorated. I want to quit and try something else but I don't know what that is and also I'm scared to even face that possibility of being out there searching and not finding something. It's really pushing me back to depression again.

Gigi1234 Loneliness in year 12
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It has come to a point that it’s critical I need to focus on myself. Recently, I have been so emotional and feeling so lonely. It feels like the only way for me to be able to improve my mental health is to be single until I am strong enough to handle... View more

It has come to a point that it’s critical I need to focus on myself. Recently, I have been so emotional and feeling so lonely. It feels like the only way for me to be able to improve my mental health is to be single until I am strong enough to handle my emotions, because if something bad were to happen I know it would take a long time to lift myself up again (which would be a problem since I’m in year 12 this year). But I feel so lonely. And my loneliness is why I feel so sad. I have so many great friends, but they are always talking about their boyfriends or what boys they are interested in. Which makes me feel even more lonely, despite the fact that I’m the one who has chosen to remain single. I’m unsure on how to make myself feel better about myself by myself. My therapist hasn’t been able to make me feel better. Meditation and talking to family doesn’t make me feel less lonely either. What do I do? I’m so stuck

Gadzooks What can I do when I can’t sleep?
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Hi all, Couldn’t decide where to post this but since anxiety and meds are contributors to this figured I would try here. I can’t sleep, I try and try and yet despite being exhausted it doesn’t come for hours after I go to bed. I’ve had some issues wi... View more

Hi all, Couldn’t decide where to post this but since anxiety and meds are contributors to this figured I would try here. I can’t sleep, I try and try and yet despite being exhausted it doesn’t come for hours after I go to bed. I’ve had some issues with restless legs thanks you anxiety but going to gym has made it somewhat better. I know being on my phone at 1am isn’t helpful but I get so ‘bored’ and am more likely to think of or do bad things. I’m supposed to be on holidays and catching up! Any suggestions on getting to sleep? Starting to think I’m doomed to be anxious and exhausted forever. G

Dagony Anxiety about chosen one
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Hello I've got a bad history with anxiety and OCD and at the moment I have this big fear of not being able to use contraception with my wife because my child will be the chosen one It sounds ridiculous but it's effecting me greatly I've spoken to my ... View more

Hello I've got a bad history with anxiety and OCD and at the moment I have this big fear of not being able to use contraception with my wife because my child will be the chosen one It sounds ridiculous but it's effecting me greatly I've spoken to my parter about it and she says god wouldn't give me mental illness to make sure the child is born But then my mind says maybe it's out of god's hands? I believe in god but don't follow a religion and this fear is starting to seriously effect me

pumpkin97 How do I turn off the bad thoughts?
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Hi, I'm a 22 year old woman. I suffer from GAD and Depression and Ive been medicated for about four or five years. I've never experienced a very high level of anxiety, it's more like a side effect of my depression - but recently my anxiety has been s... View more

Hi, I'm a 22 year old woman. I suffer from GAD and Depression and Ive been medicated for about four or five years. I've never experienced a very high level of anxiety, it's more like a side effect of my depression - but recently my anxiety has been so awful. I can hardly stomach food, I throw up a lot (mostly mornings) because my stomach is so unsettled, and I feel like I can't turn my brain off. I'm constantly trying to block out negative and intrusive thoughts and it's just exhausting. My brain makes up the most ridiculous scenarios and won't let me stop fixating on them. I feel like I'm going to be trapped in my own mind forever and that it will cause me to loose the people I love and end up alone.

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