we were together for about 6 months. our relationship started very hot and heavy he told me he saw a future with me wanted to have a family with me and have a family with me. we went on a. 3 week trip to Europe and had such an amazing beautiful time. he met my father told him he was going to marry me and we were looking at what kinda wedding rings we would hypothetically want. when we got back home from our trip he became distant disappeared and completely left me in the dark. he told me 2 days ago he needs to be alone to better himself and love himself enough to be in a relationship with me and have the future we talked about. part of me doesn't believe this, ive realized he has extremely deep seeded dismissive avoidant attachments and as soon as we started getting really close and serious he ran away. what do I do. I feel so torn up inside. less than a month ago we were closer than ive ever been with anyone. now he says he needs "time" to become happy with himself. he pursued me but wasn't ready fro a relationship. he made me fall in love and then jumped ship the moment he felt vulnerable.
