Anxiety from job search due to ageism

[ThomasJakeLim]

Hi there I am in my mid forties and just finished my 8 year contract work. Now back in the job hunting mode and feeling overwhelmed by uncertainties due to age. I hear too often about age discrimination and it's really hitting me hard not knowing if employers or recruiters are actually discriminating me due to age. I fear for my future. Anyone had the same experience.

[Lillylane]

Hi ThomasJakeLim

I’m in my forties and I’ve felt similar fears about job searching. I was out of the workforce for a few years after having kids. I’d been the same job for the previous 9 years.

I’ve felt very overwhelmed about how to start all over again especially after such a gap. The industry I’m in tends to be full of young people.

I received a call out of the blue from a friend of an old workmate a couple of weeks ago. They were looking for someone on a casual basis. I had almost no time to prepare or get nervous for the interview as it all happened so quickly.

My first week at the job was very scary and I was sick with nerves but after another week I’m starting to feel better.

I’m sure there may be some ageism out there... but a good employer will look at the strengths you have and see you in a good light.

Sometimes putting the word out to people you know that you’re looking for work can help.

I hope you go ok. You’re not alone and you have support here. Hopefully others will come along and talk about their experiences.

Lillylane

[Cee123]

For me it's harder because ive been out of work for a long time. Suffering with these issues as a result of bullying in the last job i was in. I was even on disability for a while. Trying to get back into the work force at nearly 35 is a nightmare. I dont know what to do anymore. Im struggling from the stress, depression and anxiety of it all. But at the same time i don't want to be out of work for the rest of my life either. I dont know what to do. I'm upset because i feel like there's no hope.

[ThomasJakeLim]

Hi Cee thanks for sharing your story. Have faith your next job will be kinder and better. No one deserves to be bullied at work.

[ThomasJakeLim]

Hi Lily thanks for taking the time to share your experience and advice. Priceless, gives me hope.