My son is 17, as a child he was always a little bit challenging and 2
appointments with paediatricians at 5yo showed nothing out of the
ordinary. Mental health issues run throughout both sides of mine and
hubbys families. My mum and youngest brother ...
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My son is 17, as a child he was always a little bit challenging and 2
appointments with paediatricians at 5yo showed nothing out of the
ordinary. Mental health issues run throughout both sides of mine and
hubbys families. My mum and youngest brother committed suicide at 39 and
23. My sister suffers serious anxiety and depression and substance
abuse, My husbands mother is bi polar and a manic depressed lady, she
has had many stints in hospital to help stabilise her.we have a very
happy, busy and beautiful family that includes 4 children. My husband (
there dad) and I have always provided well for our children, they are
very fortunate and have very dedicated and doting parents, all 4 of them
are attractive, popular and athletic.2 years ago Corey started smoking
marijuana, we tried not to over react and remembered that back in our
youth we too also dabbled with it. However Corey's personality has
changed, he has dropped out of school, can not hold down a job, of which
he has had 3, and has given up on football, he was well known throughout
the club for being one of the best. He spends most days in his room and
has terrible outburst regularly. His younger brother and sister are
terrified of him and we all feel like we are treading on egg shells
around him. If he doesn't get what he wants all hell breaks loose. He
did initially see a dr ( at my work, I am a nurse) and he was very happy
to give medication a try, it made him feel sick and then he refused to
take it, he refuses to return for another consultation to try something
gentler and absolutely refuses to see any one else for support, he cries
a lot and has expressed the idea of suicide on many occasions, of course
this frightens me because I know from personal experience that this is a
very real probability. He is such a lovely boy, and is incredibly
thoughtful, I am at a stand still, where do I go from here, we have had
many conversations and he shuts any thought of help out immediately. He
will not give up marijuana as he believes this is the only happy place
he can go to and helps him to remain calm. Am I doing enough, I feel
like I am failing him, where did I go wrong and what on earth can I do
to fix this. His dad has got little patience left and has grown very
angry about the whole situation, it is beginning to put a lot of strain
on our 20 year marriage, which up until now has always been very happy.
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