Hello there, 3 months ago I was diagnosed a Complex PTSD, with symptoms
of bipolar and borderline personality disorder (and previously have been
diagnosed with an anxiety disorder). I've had a few months off work to
get my head together and a few wee...
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Hello there, 3 months ago I was diagnosed a Complex PTSD, with symptoms
of bipolar and borderline personality disorder (and previously have been
diagnosed with an anxiety disorder). I've had a few months off work to
get my head together and a few weeks ago, I started a new job in Federal
Government. Whilst I had time off work, it gave me time to reflect on my
life and have lovely conversations with my lovely and supportive house
mate. I don't think my life has been that easy. Whilst I try to be
optimistic and a silly sort of soul, deep down, there has always been
anxiety and some level or filter of distress. The Psychiatrist (first
time to see a Psychiatrist in my life this year) said that the matters I
am presenting with (and also agreed by my psychologist) issues that
relate to attachment and are from an early age.... I have always had
tremendous caring responsibilities for 2 of my 3 sisters that have
disabilities (from as early as 8yo). My father was absent emotionally,
which resulted in this situation. Both my parents have mental health
issues, it is suspected that my father is on the spectrum and my mother
has a hoarding and gambling addiction. Parents divorced and a very
complex history of court visits associated with the care of my 2
sisters. One parent declaring the other parent unfit. My father directs
his internal anger about his behaviour towards my sisters with
disabilities towards me. This has created a very insecure and fraught
relationship. Intermingled with all of that, I was a victim of
occupational violence in a workplace (over an 8 year period). I've also
been sexually assaulted by a masseuse and a boyfriend when younger. And
in a community role (over the last 9 months), I was significantly
assaulted 6 times ..... time to take better care of myself....I won't
mention the details because I don't want to trigger any readers..... I
naturally am drawn to a caring role, to points of very
unhealthy.....trying to have quiet time this year and working on
fundamentally changing my patterns (I hope). In reading about CPTSD, I
find the dialogue interesting about relationships where there is a power
imbalance (is what has brought it about). I am starting to notice that I
have this same trait in many friendships where I tend to put up with
things for too long from others. I am not blaming the other people (I am
responsible for my actions too)....just interesting to note how it all
works.
PTSD for Medical and First Responders
