ok i don't know where to start, ive never done anything like this before
but honestly im desperate. the last few years have been absolute hell. i
was sexually abused by a close male friend of mine. honestly? ive
suffered techically ""worse"" abuse. b...
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ok i don't know where to start, ive never done anything like this before
but honestly im desperate. the last few years have been absolute hell. i
was sexually abused by a close male friend of mine. honestly? ive
suffered techically ""worse"" abuse. but nothing has cut as deep into my
soul as the look in his eyes when he looked into my soul, saw only fear.
the twisted, sick, smile on his face. he feels nothing but pleasure and
anger. hes not a human. long story short ,after the initial assault i
grew desperately attached to him. within a few months i couldnt live
without him. hes like an addiction. i need him to make me feel okay. ive
tried to cut him off so many times, and it's just left me feeling
increasingly suicidal untill i reach back out for him for my own safety.
the sexual abuse continued. as i said, it wasnt the worse sexual abuse
ive encountered, he didnt rape me. ive had alot worse (when i was 14
someone else attempted to rape me) but nothing has stuck with me. the
emotional abuse started. he somehow drove into my soul with a dagger and
cut the cords connecting me to myself. i stopped going to school. i
didnt really talk to anyone except him. i didnt leave the house for
weeks at a time. i wasnt eating, i was up till 5am talking to him
because for a period of time he refused to talk to me at any other time,
probably as an abusive tactic so i obliged, doing anything to not lose
him. i didnt see him for months as he refused to leave the house, i
nearly killed myself over this. i couldn't deal with the pain, i started
self harming. i thought if i saw him again this torment would stop, it
didnt. it got worse. it all got worse. i moved schools because even
though he didnt attend anymore just being around where this stuff
happened was too hard. he continued to cut into my soul. and he still
is. because i cannot get rid of him. hes stuck inside my soul. i cant
explain the horrible feeling hes left inside me that makes me need him,
rely on him. after all the trauma hes caused me, why would i want to be
anywhere near him? my therapist has suggested trauma. bonding. i think
shes right, but i dont have any idea how to help it. how to get rid of
him. this is probably a far fetched attempt but, any help would be
appreciated. i neeed to get rid of him. even any similar experiences?
thankyou