Somethings about me, I am the foreigner which live in aus. I feel
getting worse of my depression. (High Score of the test) This is my
story: Our 1st baby came on December, and my mother in law was came to
help us. We had told her please help us for a...
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Somethings about me, I am the foreigner which live in aus. I feel
getting worse of my depression. (High Score of the test) This is my
story: Our 1st baby came on December, and my mother in law was came to
help us. We had told her please help us for a meal & some house work. On
the 1st week, everything goes fine. Me & my wife surely couldn’t have
much sleep or no sleep. When we back to home, everything was changed, my
in-law doesn’t help us much, she just cooked a meal for my wife, and I
need to cook my meal by myself, that’s fine , I can eat everything or
just have a takeaway food.since I back to work , working from 6am to 7
pm, and I back to home, my wife doesn’t have any dinner , I need to cook
for us. After dinner settle baby, leak of sleep. This is our 1 st one ,
I was committed with my wife I always give her a help, so when she woke
up, I woke up also. My in law just laying on the floor, and watching tv.
Whatever I do with the baby , my in law always blame me , said this’s
wrong, that’s wrong, You shouldn’t do that. I am a new dad, I learned
from internet&some course, I am fresh, I am trying. Finally we pay$1000
to send her back to home. I knew my wife had a depression too, so we
went to GP, and went to the Psychologist. I took an other week off to
help her to recover, finally she is fine now. I found I had a depression
on March, I try to speak to my friends, they just said,”it’s normal , it
will pass” I read a lot of article , I known nothing is 100%good, just
need good enough. I do sports twice a week, I can handle my baby ok. but
in this week, every word from my in law she was blamed me suddenly come
back to my mind. When my baby crying,I couldn’t settle her. Feel like
she don’t want me anymore.I am feeling I am worthless, useless, I am
feeling upset, helpless. I would like to tell someone but no one can
help. I don’t think the Psychologist can help me, because I think most
of them are forcing on women postpartum depression. Everyone asked me
how’s my baby, how’s my wife, my no one care about daddy’s also have a
postpartum depression. I don’t know where I can get some help specially
for the daddy’s postpartum depression? I need some help I need some
advice, I wondering if I can get help here? It’s a long story, I hope
someone can understand and Hopefully my English wasn’t too bad thanks