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Jeriava How do I talk to my doctor?
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I’ve been struggling with my life for the past 7-8 years but I finally made an appointment with a doctor. I feel really scared though because I don’t ever go to the doctor for anything, and I havent seen this doctor for so many years that I’m really ... View more

I’ve been struggling with my life for the past 7-8 years but I finally made an appointment with a doctor. I feel really scared though because I don’t ever go to the doctor for anything, and I havent seen this doctor for so many years that I’m really scared that they’ll judge me or won’t believe anything I say. I’m really anti social so I feel like I won’t be able to say what I wanna say or I’ll say the wrong thing causing them to just dismiss me and move me along without helping. I’m just tired of feeling alone, depressed and just worthless but I’m really scared to talk to them.

Chris_B Are you looking to support someone else with depression? PLEASE READ before posting
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This forum is for people seeking support for their own mental health issues. If you're posting on behalf of someone else with a mental health issue that you're concerned about, please have a look at this section of our forums: Supporting family and f... View more

This forum is for people seeking support for their own mental health issues. If you're posting on behalf of someone else with a mental health issue that you're concerned about, please have a look at this section of our forums: Supporting family and friends with a mental health condition It's full of threads from people who have family members and friends going through anxiety, depression or other related conditions. Have a read through the threads there, and feel free to take part in the discussions. Below are also some helpful beyondblue resources you might want to look through first as well: Supporting someone Have the conversation

AGrace SELF HELP TIPS FOR MANAGING DEPRESSION
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Hi Everyone, Here are some ideas you might like to try for managing symptoms of depression. Of course everyone's different, so let us know what works for you, and please feel free to add to the list... Mindfulness – through breathing or engaging the ... View more

Hi Everyone, Here are some ideas you might like to try for managing symptoms of depression. Of course everyone's different, so let us know what works for you, and please feel free to add to the list... Mindfulness – through breathing or engaging the 5 senses Distress Tolerance – Accepting Emotions and Self Soothing Distraction – Put the thoughts/feelings aside and come back to them when you are ready to deal with them Positive Affirmations – Have some affirmations written down repeat them to yourself daily Sleep/Exercise/Diet – All 3 aspects of our lifestyle can impact the way we think/feel Increasing Pleasurable Activities – Engage in at least one pleasurable activity per day

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poida1 getting better, staying positive... then- relapse
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Hi my name's Pete, I work as a seasonal adventure guide. My job lets me see the world and meet the amazing people that make it spin. It requires me to be outgoing, friendly, switched on and most importantly of all, happy! let me explain to you my sit... View more

Hi my name's Pete, I work as a seasonal adventure guide. My job lets me see the world and meet the amazing people that make it spin. It requires me to be outgoing, friendly, switched on and most importantly of all, happy! let me explain to you my situation. I've suffered from depression and anxiety for about 3 years now, it's been like roller coaster. One week I think I'm good, then the next I'm not. my way of dealing with it has been either to to block my negative thoughts out by taking my mind off of them (gym, hiking, general adventures), to move to the next place and job or, the worst of the options, resort to drugs and alcohol. These ways of dealing with my condition worked only temporarily and my depression and anxieties have since spiraled out of control and mutated into some kind of snarling beast. I have made the decision to take a full season off from work and return home to my parents place in Adelaide so I can face these problems head on instead of running away from them or ignoring them. It was not an easy decision to make as I have not lived at home or in Australia in 6 years, I had the opportunity to work as a guide in the tropics and continue my lifestyle. As much as I have been dreading settling back into 'normal life', I feel as if it was the right decision. No matter how good your current situation is, how happy people must think you are because of it; if you are depressed and anxious all the time, life just plain sucks. All you end up doing is perpetuating the cycle until it forms a life of its own, which is what ive done. I cannot believe i let it get so bad before I threw the towel in, it just goes to show how stubborn i am. Anyway, Since moving home a few weeks ago, I have thrown myself into the healthy lifestyle I had promised myself. I am at the gym everyday, eating and sleeping well, reading a lot, haven't had a drink in a month, am meditating everyday and am about to see a therapist starting this week. I was feeling GREAT until the weekend came along. It felt like all of my hard work just came unraveled so easily, I woke up feeling utterly depressed and hopeless.. How can I go from feeling so strong to so weak in 2 days? How can i remain hopeful when I relapse so easily? When will I ever start to feel good again? I know i have the strength to pick the pieces up and start again but not the motivation. I have been so emotionally beaten up over the years I just dont know how Im going to get up and keep going.. I feel exhausted

LittleA Ground collapsing beneath my feet
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Gods, I wonder sometimes what I did in this life or a past one, to earn my lot in life currently. I'm 24, diagnosed with major depression, anxiety, and chronic fatigue syndrome. I'm 20+ kg heavier than my 'usual' weight. I'm utterly broke and unable ... View more

Gods, I wonder sometimes what I did in this life or a past one, to earn my lot in life currently. I'm 24, diagnosed with major depression, anxiety, and chronic fatigue syndrome. I'm 20+ kg heavier than my 'usual' weight. I'm utterly broke and unable to work but knocked back by Centrelink. I could go on. It seems that every time I feel as if I've hit rock bottom, the ground collapses under me and I fall further. My partner used to be the kind of person who would hold me and fit all my pieces back together. Now I feel like he's standing there gaping at the volume of pieces shattering from me, struggling to cope himself with my issues. How long before I truly hit rock bottom and start ascending again? What must I endure before I'm permitted to recover my life? I don't recognise myself in the mirror. I don't feel like myself at all. I feel as if I'm watching myself in an out-of-body experience, I'm struggling that much to comprehend that this is actually my life. That this is all just a long and very bad dream I must surely waken from soon. All energy and passion for life is drained from me. Anything I've ever wanted or enjoyed doing continues to slip through my fingers. I'm an utter mess, and I don't know what to do anymore.

Willstar The best things in life no longer make me feel good anymore/single/lonely/no one to talk too/OVER IT
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Hi Everyone, I have found lately that the things that always made me feel good, no longer make me feel good anymore. I have been single for years now and I am finding not having someone to talk to or hang out with is making me feel, depressed, lonely... View more

Hi Everyone, I have found lately that the things that always made me feel good, no longer make me feel good anymore. I have been single for years now and I am finding not having someone to talk to or hang out with is making me feel, depressed, lonely, and worthless. I am finding that I don't have any friends I can hang out with these days, as I have made a huge lifestyle change. Which makes me feel like I am lonely. This then brings me right down and I start thinking stupid thoughts in my head. Personally I don't know how much I can take of feeling like this. I really wish I had a support of friends I could hang with on a regular basis, that understood my feeling.

Luna1729 feeling distanced and disassociated from society
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Hi, I have been struggling on and off with anxiety and depression for the last ten years, but recently (the last month or so) I've been experiencing disassociation more strongly than in the past. I feel as though I can't focus on what's going on arou... View more

Hi, I have been struggling on and off with anxiety and depression for the last ten years, but recently (the last month or so) I've been experiencing disassociation more strongly than in the past. I feel as though I can't focus on what's going on around me and quite often catch myself staring into space crying and not knowing why. I've also been feeling more and more unimportant and ghost like. It happens a lot that I'll start talking about something and will get cut off, or talked across. My boyfriend does it all the time, but so do people at work too. It makes me feel like what I have to and what I do doesn't matter. It makes me feel like I don't matter. I think my boyfriend is distancing himself from me too. He doesn't really talk to me anymore. He spend hours of the day playing computer games and hardly saying 2 words to me. I'm not too sure how to make myself feel better or how to get my boyfriend interested in me, rather than a computer. Please any help will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Busymum Depression/anxiety or bipolar?
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I am scared. I think I'm bi-polar. I've seen a psychologist for a few years now but honestly when I do see her I describe what I'm feeling at the time and I suffer anxiety and severe depression. But researching has me thinking I have bi-polar. My hus... View more

I am scared. I think I'm bi-polar. I've seen a psychologist for a few years now but honestly when I do see her I describe what I'm feeling at the time and I suffer anxiety and severe depression. But researching has me thinking I have bi-polar. My husband is a police officer and I feel like he doesn't get it. He deals with mental illness daily. I don't have anyone to talk to. How do you know if you are bipolar when it's a mixed bag of depression/anxiety?

Ebb_and_Flow Peeling Back The Layers- Major Depression/Anxiety
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Currently in week 5 after having a relapse of severe major depression/anxiety. On new medication and it has seemed to have taken the edge off a bit and am getting councelling. Basically living like a hermit and every time I try to get my life on trac... View more

Currently in week 5 after having a relapse of severe major depression/anxiety. On new medication and it has seemed to have taken the edge off a bit and am getting councelling. Basically living like a hermit and every time I try to get my life on track things go sour and the depression/anxiety amplify. My family don't understand what I'm going through and generally think I just don't want to work because over the years I can't keep a job and leave not long after starting it but the truth is my depression and anxiety gets so heavy that I fimd it hard to function. I deserately want to have a job and earn money to support myself and have a better quality of life. I just feel like I'm stuck in a loop. Ahhhh letting that out helped somewhat. I joined this forum to have some sort of a release by writing.

To_be_happy Feeling Nothing
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Hi All Just need to get this out of my head. I recently had my best friend end our friendship of many years. I was beside myself for the last 5 days but now I just feel nothing about anything. To the point where I feel I need to try anything to feel ... View more

Hi All Just need to get this out of my head. I recently had my best friend end our friendship of many years. I was beside myself for the last 5 days but now I just feel nothing about anything. To the point where I feel I need to try anything to feel a feeling besides this nothing. I know that I was very upset but now I just feel like a robot doing what needs to be done. I could care less if it gets done or not. Has anyone else experience this nothing feeling? What did you do?

cheeko100 Help
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hey guys, I'm new. My name is Dan and im 27, i have been suffering with deppression and anxiety for a long time. i just hate my life at the moment. Recently i got rear ended by a car so my car was at the repair shop.I got a rental car and accidently ... View more

hey guys, I'm new. My name is Dan and im 27, i have been suffering with deppression and anxiety for a long time. i just hate my life at the moment. Recently i got rear ended by a car so my car was at the repair shop.I got a rental car and accidently crashed it cause im a pizza delivery driver. the rental car company is going to charge me $3000 and i just cant afford it. Wtf is the point of this all? i hate myself and i keep struggling to keep going.

Pelayn Exhausted and lonely
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I suffer from depression. I don't hate myself. I dont hate my life. I have a supportive husband and i have friends. I am doing therapy. I'm on medication. I'm trying to keep 'doing' things like seeing friends. I've reached out to one closer friend fo... View more

I suffer from depression. I don't hate myself. I dont hate my life. I have a supportive husband and i have friends. I am doing therapy. I'm on medication. I'm trying to keep 'doing' things like seeing friends. I've reached out to one closer friend for support. Still I'm consumed with depression. I feel empty and lonely. I'm not close with family as that is where my depression stems from in the first place. Today was a day i could take a break from fighting it. Not have to put on the fake smile and pretend. Not have to get out of bed. But my husband accepted a last minute play date. I couldn't put on the brave face so i left the house while he had company. Tomorrow i will have to be strong again to get the kids to school and go to work. I'm mentally and physically exhausted. How do people keep finding the strength to push forward will little sign of improvement?

Seza Life at a stand still
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Hi im 29, my life is at a stand still.i suffer from both anxiety and depression and have done since i was 17. I havent actively sought help until lately because i couldn't see a way of getting through this night mare alone anymore. I think the fact t... View more

Hi im 29, my life is at a stand still.i suffer from both anxiety and depression and have done since i was 17. I havent actively sought help until lately because i couldn't see a way of getting through this night mare alone anymore. I think the fact that i have just come out of a controlling 8yr long relationship hasnt helped the situation nor coming into a new relationship that is heading toward turmoil. My partner to suffers from anxiety and iv been trying so hard to help him i feel iv left my only problems in the back ground. He pushes me away but i keep being they're for him and i have no body to support me i can't keep going like this iv had enough my life seems to have no purpose hope or meaning feeling lost