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Sophie_M Big Blue Table - Right here on the Forums!
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Hello to our wonderful forums community! We have decided to run an ongoing Big Blue Table thread ‘Forums Edition’ until the end of October! What is a Big Blue Table? Big Blue Table is Beyond Blue's signature event held during October, Mental Health M... View more

Hello to our wonderful forums community! We have decided to run an ongoing Big Blue Table thread ‘Forums Edition’ until the end of October! What is a Big Blue Table? Big Blue Table is Beyond Blue's signature event held during October, Mental Health Month. Big Blue Table encourages people host a meal with their friends, family or colleagues while fighting the stigma that surrounds mental health. So why are we running one here? The reason we are doing this is so people have an opportunity to connect with others and have the experience of sharing their thoughts and feelings over a meal, no matter where they are in Australia. We know Mental Health Month can be a vulnerable time for many and believe this thread could be a safe space for people to be heard and learn from others’ experiences. Our community champions will be here to support you along the way, and our moderation team will be around to answer any questions you may have, as well as to ensure the thread remains respectful and safe for everyone. We encourage you to choose from the following questions to start a conversation: What do you do to look after your mental health? Are you comfortable sharing your feelings and emotions? If not, why? What are you passionate about, and why? Who would be your dream Big Blue Table guest, and why? After you have shared your answers, we would love to hear about what you are eating or bringing to the table. You can even tell us a little bit about your setup and what you can see around you to really immerse us into your world. This is your opportunity to be as creative as you’d like! But remember, there is no pressure or ‘right’ response, whatever you bring to the table will be more than enough. We hope this thread allows you to feel connected, supported, and a part of the Big Blue Table initiative. Now… get cooking!

Sophie_M Welcome to the BB Social Zone - guidelines for posting in this section
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Hi everyone, This section of the forum is a little different to the others, as you may have noticed in looking around the threads. Elsewhere on the forums, we discuss some pretty heavy topics: mental health issues, thoughts of suicide, trauma, abuse,... View more

Hi everyone, This section of the forum is a little different to the others, as you may have noticed in looking around the threads. Elsewhere on the forums, we discuss some pretty heavy topics: mental health issues, thoughts of suicide, trauma, abuse, relationship breakdowns. Here is the place to come to get away from that and have a bit of fun. Distraction can be an important tool to draw on if you're finding yourself overwhelmed by distressing thoughts and feelings. As this is a section for respite from difficult topics, we will remove posts made in this section that attempt to discuss personal issues. Please use a support thread in the appropriate section for these discussions. Happy posting!

Kazzl The BB cafe
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The BB cafe is open for business! Welcome all to a new chill and chat place for everyone on the forum. The BB cafe is whatever you want it to be. There are comfy sofas, tables and chairs, coffee machines, a kitchen stocked with everything. There's a ... View more

The BB cafe is open for business! Welcome all to a new chill and chat place for everyone on the forum. The BB cafe is whatever you want it to be. There are comfy sofas, tables and chairs, coffee machines, a kitchen stocked with everything. There's a pool outside, a bbq area, an annexe with comfy beds for a quiet sleep, tv, dvd, books and whatever else you would like to have here. Most of all, it's a place to meet friends and fellow travellers for a bit of company. Talk over problems, tell jokes, share your day, escape into a world of your making. Grab a coffee and pull up a chair ... So, with a nod to the wonderful Carole King (Hard Rock Cafe) ... Now if you're feeling just a little bit lonely Don't sit at home just mopin' Come on down to where the friendship flows freely You know the door is always open At the BB cafe Come to the BB cafe They will help keep your blues at bay At the BB cafe Important Message from ModSupport: The main intention of the BB Cafe is to encourage light conversation. Please look after your fellow community members by nuturing the BB Cafe as a place to escape some of the more pressing issues in life and save those conversations for personal threads.

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startingnew Merry Christmas
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Morning Everyone I wanted to stop in and wish you beautiful people a Merry Christmas and a safe and happy 2019. Feel free to share your plans too

Morning Everyone I wanted to stop in and wish you beautiful people a Merry Christmas and a safe and happy 2019. Feel free to share your plans too

Jackson1994 2018 I learnt...
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To not let anyone treat you like shit. Do not let people stay in your life just because they are biologically related to you, sometimes you need to erase them from your life, even just for a little while, you’ll be much better for it. Also push for w... View more

To not let anyone treat you like shit. Do not let people stay in your life just because they are biologically related to you, sometimes you need to erase them from your life, even just for a little while, you’ll be much better for it. Also push for what you want, don’t listen to the haters.

StaticRose51 Hi All What was our favourite book through uni!?
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Just curious as I am about to finish off uni- Myself and am wondering what if any are your favorite books when you were at uni. FYI: This is actually my second time at uni and I don't need to be surrounded by drinking culture and wild things that hap... View more

Just curious as I am about to finish off uni- Myself and am wondering what if any are your favorite books when you were at uni. FYI: This is actually my second time at uni and I don't need to be surrounded by drinking culture and wild things that happen. I'm too old for that and I the added responiblity of aged parents to look after cook for and clean up after. Also what about things like sports games what are they like with the above people at that stage in life? Kind regards.

Rose_3 Christmas 2018: Plans, Traditions, Ideas
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Greetings All! Christmas is almost upon us again! So I thought I would start this thread to talk about everything festive! My favourite things about Christmas: Making cards Putting up decorations Wrapping presents The smell of pine needles Christmas ... View more

Greetings All! Christmas is almost upon us again! So I thought I would start this thread to talk about everything festive! My favourite things about Christmas: Making cards Putting up decorations Wrapping presents The smell of pine needles Christmas crackers (why are silly plastic toys so awesome when they come out of a cracker?) I would love to hear what your favourite things about Christmas are. And does anyone have a specific decoration that is a bit of a family tradition? It could be something that has been passed down through generations or just something that's makes everyone smile (or groan!) when it is gotten out of the box! We have a singing Santa which we use to wake each other up in the morning whether it is Christmas Day yet or not! I look forward to hearing your Christmas stories! All the Best, Rose

DanTheMan001 The BBQ
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Hey everyone! Barbecues are very popular in Australia, so I thought we could have one here, in the BB Social Zone! Rules: No offensive language - be nice This place is for chatting, similar to the BB Café. No stories about depression and stuff like t... View more

Hey everyone! Barbecues are very popular in Australia, so I thought we could have one here, in the BB Social Zone! Rules: No offensive language - be nice This place is for chatting, similar to the BB Café. No stories about depression and stuff like that except if you're joking about it. Everyone is welcome to have a snag whenever they want. Making heaps on snags for the BBQ's grand opening! Dan

lilly2016 I Am Here
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I started off gazing into the night air, then I found myself in this hypnotic stare, whilst I was there I will tell you what I saw, I saw broken girl, who wanted so much more. As the night grew on and my thoughts began to race, It was myself, I thoug... View more

I started off gazing into the night air, then I found myself in this hypnotic stare, whilst I was there I will tell you what I saw, I saw broken girl, who wanted so much more. As the night grew on and my thoughts began to race, It was myself, I thought I could not face. I quiver with fear every single day, if only I could find, another easy way. I try so hard to fight these long dark lonely days, but they seem to have caught me, in eternal haze. I'm no stranger to the wrath of this place, the demons around me and what I have to face. There's something after me and it's called "I am here" it's a dark side of the atmosphere. It circles around me and I bear not to look, it has me by a thread, it has me by it's hook. The Shadows that follow me, in my dark place, have a ugly side, have a ugly face, When I come up to breathe for some fresh air, "I am here" decides to share. It has no remorse or feeling of guilt, it takes you as you are and watches you wilt. Screaming out for help into the Abyss of life, "I am here"will take you as his wife. As I stare out further into the night air, I notice myself starting to care. I care about my future and the ones I love the most, not about "I am here" my most unlikely host. I take in my thoughts for which I'd like to share, I think about myself and what I think is fair. I want a life of peace, of clear thoughts and happy days, I do not want to be stuck, in this eternal Haze. I finally feel "I am here" is fading away, and I'm here, to face another day. The morning is here and I've survived another night, I have proven to myself I can truly fight. I celebrate my life and I shed a tear, now there is new meaning behind, I am here.

Adventure_girl Confused on what’s going on
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Anyone else feel like they don’t know what they’re doing with their life? Feels like all my friends have plans and things to look forward to with their careers and relationships and I’m stuck in a low paying job not using my qualifications. I recentl... View more

Anyone else feel like they don’t know what they’re doing with their life? Feels like all my friends have plans and things to look forward to with their careers and relationships and I’m stuck in a low paying job not using my qualifications. I recently moved away from my friends and family to be with my partner which was ok at first but it’s getting harder by the day as i don’t have any friends around me and am constantly staying home alone. It’s making me smoother her so much because she’s the only person I get attention from but it’s starting to take a toll and I feel her getting more distant from me. I feel worse and worse by the day and she doesn’t really understand she just tells me to go see someone about it which isn’t helpful. Can anyone relate or is it just me?

Sian_J 🎶
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MUSIC What music does everyone like? Artist? Songs? Bands? Genre?

MUSIC What music does everyone like? Artist? Songs? Bands? Genre?

DanTheMan001 Guess My Number!
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I am thinking of a number from 1-1000! Try to guess it! This is not a competition, just for fun. I chose 1-1000 so it won't go just for a few days, but a few weeks or months! I don't want it to be boring, just think of a number and see if it is right... View more

I am thinking of a number from 1-1000! Try to guess it! This is not a competition, just for fun. I chose 1-1000 so it won't go just for a few days, but a few weeks or months! I don't want it to be boring, just think of a number and see if it is right! Good luck! Dan

Overthelamebow_ Tv Shows You Enjoy
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Hello everyone! I don't know if anyone has made this yet, but I wanted to make a thread about TV shows. I know I'm obsessed with them and they help me bring me out of depression so I thought, how about everyone else? Well I'm going to get started and... View more

Hello everyone! I don't know if anyone has made this yet, but I wanted to make a thread about TV shows. I know I'm obsessed with them and they help me bring me out of depression so I thought, how about everyone else? Well I'm going to get started and name my top TV shows which are: 1. Doctor Who 2.Supernatural 3.Sherlock 4.Orange is the New Black 5.Once upon a Time And plenty more! So just put down you favourite TV shows down and we can talk... yea....