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BeyondBlue Hi! Check out this post if you're not sure how to start
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Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are... View more

Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are really interested in what you might want to add to these conversations. We get it, having anxiety makes it hard to share in a public place. Remember, this is anonymous and the Beyond Blue team are here to help if you need it This section is for people who are experiencing anxiety in some form in their lives. This might be in social settings, at work, or just in the day to day. You don’t need a diagnosis to post here. If it feels like the right spot for your post, go right ahead! We know that feeling anxious can make it hard to reach out so we want you to know that getting this far is amazing and a great start. A few tips for getting the most out of this section: Get involved when you can! Posting and replying is the heartbeat of this community and you DO have something worthwhile to share (when you’re ready ) Every experience is different. There is no competition here. We know how challenging anxiety can be and how it comes in all shapes and sizes. What you are experiencing will be respected and supported here. Trust yourself! You are the expert in your experience. This community works because people like you share what has worked for you. Thank you for getting involved and taking a look. We can’t wait to hear from you! Beyond Blue

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MacDonald I hate myself
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I hate myself. So much. I have realised recently that this is my main issue. My Dad has constantly reiterated to me that this has always been the problem, but it has really intensified recently. 2 years ago I left my hometown Brisbane and moved overs... View more

I hate myself. So much. I have realised recently that this is my main issue. My Dad has constantly reiterated to me that this has always been the problem, but it has really intensified recently. 2 years ago I left my hometown Brisbane and moved overseas. I was shocked how much happier I was when I left. When I was forced to come back 6 months ago to finish my degree I felt all my past issues hit me in the face and I feel like my insecurities about myself and resentment from the past is ruining my life and all my relationships. I hate myself so much that the 2 years that I was away I lied to everyone that I had finished my degree. It made me feel better. How was I going to explain that I was 22 and hadn’t accomplished anything with my life? I know no one really cares what they’re doing except for themselves, but it made me feel better pretending that I at least had a grasp on things. The lie caught up to me, I was stupid to think it wouldn’t, and it has made me feel ashamed and embarrassed and I regret nothing more than telling this lie that ironically ended up hurting me more than helping me. My mum, who I have always been really close with despite our relationship being extremely destructive, is out of my life. She drank too me, hit me, and when I called the Police on her she turned her whole side of the family against me, including her parents (my grandparents) who I had been living with. They sent an email to my entire family (including my Dads side) advising them to beware of me and that I was dangerous and a liar. I was left homeless in the UK with no money where my Dad helped me go back to Australia. I lost all my belongings as they were at my grandparents and my Mum had stolen the house. My parents are now going through a divorce where Mum is trying to take everything. I think this abandonment from my Mum is a big issue in the scheme of things. The boy I was dating in London when things with my mum went sour told me on the same day it all happened that he had cheated on me. I was so emotionally damaged I let him keep sleeping with me and I pretended that he really did care and I wasn’t his toy. I needed to feel loved even if it was pretend.

Misscarlie Terrible physical symptoms of anxiety?
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Hello im new here but have been diagnosed with Gad after under going every test possible health wise... i suffer from instant heart racing, feeling like fainting and nausea as soon as my body is waking up every morning and im scared!!! I also feel my... View more

Hello im new here but have been diagnosed with Gad after under going every test possible health wise... i suffer from instant heart racing, feeling like fainting and nausea as soon as my body is waking up every morning and im scared!!! I also feel my pulse through my entire body ontop of the symptoms above allll day i find it hard to accept as gad and keep thinking im dying does anyone else have these symptoms??? I feel like im dying every day i wake up i also have a heavy/ headache no pain all day... my health scares me so much i lost 7kgs in 3 months and i am so worried its something bad no matter what all tbe docs and tests say...

Lyddie Overwhelmed by Course Regret
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Hello, I hope this is the right place to post this I'm feeling massive regret over choosing to study a Cert 4 in Photography, which I have been studying since February. I have since been feeling overly anxious and depressed, and I have realized this ... View more

Hello, I hope this is the right place to post this I'm feeling massive regret over choosing to study a Cert 4 in Photography, which I have been studying since February. I have since been feeling overly anxious and depressed, and I have realized this isn't the right course for me, and it has been causing other problems besides Anxiety and depression. I've recently finished term 1 and am on school holidays. I'm dreading having to go back for term 2 and believe it would be best to drop out or switch courses. I regret not going into a Writing course instead, as I feel this is where my true passions lie. However, I'm really anxious now that if I switch courses, I'll end up disliking that too. Or that if I drop out altogether, I'll be a failure and won't get anywhere in life, despite trying to. I feel much regret over this study choice, and don't even know if schooling is for me anymore. This situation has been overwhelming and impacting my sleep. Anybody got any advice or been in a similar situation? Thanks for reading

Whistle17 Job causes anxiety
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I am literally having an anxiety/panic attack right now. Im working as a nurse in a hospital and Ive just come off work and it was so busy earlier. My mind keeps telling me that I may have done something wrong and i may have caused a harm to a patien... View more

I am literally having an anxiety/panic attack right now. Im working as a nurse in a hospital and Ive just come off work and it was so busy earlier. My mind keeps telling me that I may have done something wrong and i may have caused a harm to a patient. I just couldnt get rid of this thought at all even though i did checked off patient’s details before i gave the medications. Im so drained having to go thru this emotional rollercoaster everytime i come from work. Should i leave my job asap??

bluewater GAD and Health anxiety
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Just needing some advice, my anxiety is high once again and its due to some life situations so I know why, a relationship where I push the person away and Health anxiety over a small blood test that terrifies me! I genuinely know I'm overthinking! My... View more

Just needing some advice, my anxiety is high once again and its due to some life situations so I know why, a relationship where I push the person away and Health anxiety over a small blood test that terrifies me! I genuinely know I'm overthinking! My issue is I'm working hard with my psychologist but the minute I feel okay I stop going and end up at square one! I hate myself for it and its a cycle I've followed for 2 years and never finish things that could potentially make me feel better! I'm going to bed exhausted and the minute I wake I feel overwhelming dread and it takes an hour to subside, this went away and has now come back!! Better I'm a single parent so pull myself together for my daughter and I have a close family but feel I don't want to be open to them! Im independent but also wish I wasn't stubborn as its killing me. Everyone thinks I've got it together and that's how well I hide it. Thanks for the vent!!

HarlowWynter Panic Attacks @ work! Looking for help and others experiences.
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Hi, I am currently sitting at work worrying that i will have a panic attack any second. Last week i rushed to the hospital mid shift because i thought i was about to have a seizure, i had tunnel vision, felt like i was going to faint and felt sick in... View more

Hi, I am currently sitting at work worrying that i will have a panic attack any second. Last week i rushed to the hospital mid shift because i thought i was about to have a seizure, i had tunnel vision, felt like i was going to faint and felt sick in the stomach. I was sent for an MRI and it was all clear, since then i have been doing better with my health anxiety but i feel like since i stepped into the office it has all gotten worse again. Is it likely that because i had a panic attack here before that i have now created my mind to fear being at work? Has anyone else had this? How did you get through it?

Chrissap81 Meeting my Anxiety head on before my children arrive.
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Hi all, First of all I would like to say that reading this forum has been great for me as it is comforting to know that there is so much support out there to assist with all forms of Anxiety. I am knew to understanding really what Anxiety is but have... View more

Hi all, First of all I would like to say that reading this forum has been great for me as it is comforting to know that there is so much support out there to assist with all forms of Anxiety. I am knew to understanding really what Anxiety is but have been suffering since I had a panic attack 12/13 years ago. Since then I have had several instances where the panic attack has reared its ugly again but the most concerning is controlling my thoughts which tend to race from time to time and often tend to search for something wrong when in fact there is nothing wrong. In fact it is sometimes better for me to have something wrong to focus on as it takes away from the thoughts racing such as finances or work. I have always tried to meet the anxiety fears head and get on with it - but lately I have found myself withdrawing from these events - public speaking - work - social life and I recently had my first panic attack in some time which was triggered due to work performance amongst other things. Anyway I have just found out that I am going to be a Dad and this has sent my Anxiety into overdrive over the past week. I seem to be thinking of anything that can go wrong in the pregnancy and even accidents when the baby arrives - This is obviously compounded by the usual anxiety that I am sure goes along with anyone becoming a parent and I am sure there is elements of it that will pass - but with my history I want to make sure that I take steps to get this sorted over the next 8 months and beyond. I want to be a great Dad and don't think I can be with these types of thoughts/feelings going on in my head. It would be great to hear from anyone who has similar experiences and any ideas as far as first steps to take. thanks all.

bydde1607 How do I make people understand my anxiety?
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Hi all, I'm new to this site, and I just need some advice from people who have anxiety and understand what it is like to live with it. Since I was a teenager I have been struggling with anxiety and it has taken me years to figure out what I suffered ... View more

Hi all, I'm new to this site, and I just need some advice from people who have anxiety and understand what it is like to live with it. Since I was a teenager I have been struggling with anxiety and it has taken me years to figure out what I suffered from and why. I think alot of it is underlying issues from my dad never being there for me growing up. I still think about it all of the time, I feel like I've done something wrong for him to behave the way he does, even though I understand that it's not my fault but his.. I keep thinking everyone else is going to do the same thing and just abandon me like he has, so I find it hard to trust people. I also worry and overthink literally everything. I don't know how to stop, I'm just caught in a bad way of thinking and struggle to get out of these unhealthy thinking habits. People always come to me for advice and support and it’s so draining when I don’t receive the same back from them. Basically it's starting to get the best of me... I feel like I'm carrying around all of these thoughts and feelings and I don't know how to let it all out. I understand that I have to talk to somebody (a professional) about it but as a student I struggle to find the money for it... I feel like I can't talk to my friends and family about it because they don't understand what it's like to feel like this. I don't want to be a burden on them, which I constantly feel like I am if I talk about things. I just feel so alone in this, when is it going to be enough? How do you explain to someone who doesn't understand anxiety what it's like? I struggle to even get out of bed some days because my feelings are so overwhelming and it's just so hard. What can I do? x

Saltie Sickness Anxiety
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I have recognised anxiety in myself since my mid 20's. I most likely used drink and drugs to escape before realising it was a thing. I eventually learnt that good sleep, diet and meditation and yoga really helped maintain balance and have experienced... View more

I have recognised anxiety in myself since my mid 20's. I most likely used drink and drugs to escape before realising it was a thing. I eventually learnt that good sleep, diet and meditation and yoga really helped maintain balance and have experienced less panic attacks and been managing anxious thoughts well for over ten years, until recently.......It seems like out of nowhere (although most likely stress based) I have started to get bad panic attacks and anxious thoughts. My anxiety is based around the fear of vomiting and being ill (learnt behaviour from parent) but its like this is used as a mask for other anxiety as although I haven't vomited for years I think I would be able to cope. The anxiety is frustrating as the mind can quickly trigger anxiety about feeling ill (for example the rent is due - cue stomach churn) and if the trigger goes unnoticed it turns into a vicious mind game of am I actually ill or am I stressed. I feel frustrated as I eat and sleep well, don't drink alcohol or much caffeine but am still haunted by really uncomfortable anxiety. I do have a family, run my own small business and my kids although still innocent and lovely are turning into teenagers - so life is hectic. My daughter is similar to me (flighty and anxious) and has recently started stressing about being ill. (We had a bout of gastro in the house so its put her on edge and probably bought up old patterns for me) For the first time in years I feel like drinking to relax but know this would be a short term fix (never had alcohol issues just gave up slowly over time). Just run out of ideas. I think trying CBT and seeing a psychologist would help. Anyway its nice to be able to share thoughts here and know that other people go through the same thing

Tgirll Anxious about anxiety, depressed about depression
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Hi all. I have a tendency to type a lot and I may have to type 2 post a but I feel like I need to get this out so please bear with me background: I had been diagnosed with GAD in 2014. I wasn't surprised. I had always had some form of OCD or anxious ... View more

Hi all. I have a tendency to type a lot and I may have to type 2 post a but I feel like I need to get this out so please bear with me background: I had been diagnosed with GAD in 2014. I wasn't surprised. I had always had some form of OCD or anxious worrying through out my life (particularly around health) but as horrible as it was at times, I was still always quite optimistic, positive and it never completely consumed me.. Until 2014. I was ina stressful relationship and was partying and drinking more than I should have. Not saying I was an alcoholic but hangovers would always make my anxiety worse so i was doing it to an extent where it was bothering me. One day after a night of drinking I had very scary panic attack and from then on I was just stuck in a scary cycle of constant panic. My concentration was horrible, couldnt stop thinking about anxiety what was wrong what if i have brain damage, I was always scared I was going insane, i felt trapped, that dreamlike scary feeling you experienced during a panic attack lingered (derealisation. This symptom, although harmless and caused from panic really scares me and just triggered a vicious cycle of more panic). I have had moments of that derealised feeling when I was a kid and was in a new place or when i panicked at times but I just sort of thought ' this feeling is weird' but wasn't scared of it. My anxiety was made worse a few months later with a cancer scare. Thankfully it was benign. I was so greatful that I thought I could beat this anxiety and panic. It took time but I just got back out there and with time, life made sense and everything felt good again with lots of hard work. I vowed to myself that I would never let myself feel like that again. Last year in May I had the same operation. It was smoother sailing until after. I had a severe reaction where the emergency hospital team was involved (so scary) I had real bad pain as a side effect, infection, i couldnt breathe they thought i had a blood clot in my lung, a month later they thought I needed heart surgery, trouble at work trouble at uni. It was a stressful few months. I could feel it building. A few weeks after my surgery, I had a bad panic attack and a relapse happened. This was mid June. I was so frustrated and angry. I couldn't believe that after all that hard work I was back in that head space! But this time, for the first time in my life I had negative hopeless thoughts and then depression...

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