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Meet your community champions!

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Hi everyone, We wanted to share with you the way that our wonderful Community Champions are here to support you. You may have noticed that a few of our Forums members are labelled ‘Community Champion’. Community Champions are volunteers within the Beyond Blue Forums who: have the time, skills and empathy to support other members regularly; help to welcome new members; are actively engaged members that help set the tone of our community. Our Community Champions are regular contributors to many conversations across the forums. They are a consistent and friendly voice that have committed to sharing their experience and expertise with this community. They are not health care professionals or clinicians. Like you, they have an experience with a mental health challenge or diagnosis – either for themselves or someone they care for. This forum is for people who understand what it feels like and have a lived and living experience of mental health challenges. Our Community Champions help everyone feel comfortable and confident by demonstrating what excellent peer support is all about. Click here to find out more about how you can become a Community Champion! This incredible team are excited to introduce themselves below, and we are sure you’ll see them around the forums in conversations important to you.

HELP..Am I posting in the right section?

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Welcome to those who are considering posting for the very first time, welcome. Thought I would repost part of the words that Chris B posted awhile ago, (2014) as I can hear that people are unsure if they are posting in the right section or worried that they are posting "the wrong thing". 1.A good title makes the difference Just like a headline in a newspaper, when scanning the dozens of threads to click into, it’s only natural that people will choose the ones that resonate with them most. A title that entices the reader, or asks a question, is likely to get a better result than something non-descriptive like “Depression” or “I don't know what to do”. If you think you’re not good at choosing titles, leave it till last. Spend time writing your post, then perhaps choose a sentence from what you’ve written as the title. 2.Join in threads that have already been posted We all have our own unique stories, but part of the reason for joining a forum like this one is because you know that you will have a lot in common with others who are posting. Before starting a new thread, have a look through the current topics being discussed and see if there’s a conversation you can join in with. It can be quite common to have a handful of very similar threads happening at any one time, with members seemingly unaware that there are others right there who are going through the same thing. Talking to other members on their threads is a great way of getting yourself known so that when you post a thread of your own, people may respond quicker because they recognize your name. 3.Choose the most appropriate section for your post Many people browse the forums looking for stories specifically to do with pregnancy and parenting, employment, grief, loss, separation etc. Going straight for the “Depression” section may seem like the easiest option, but this section is often the busiest, so your post is more likely to get lost among the threads. Making good use of the different forum sections not only helps keep the forum relevant, but you’re more likely to find others who are going through the same experiences as you. Also, if you're wanting to discuss issues of trauma, abuse, suicidal thoughts or self-harm, it's really important you post in the designated section to avoid triggering others who may not wish to read about these topics. Mostly..just come and chat, we are here for you. Our amazing wizards in the background will see your message ends up in the right spot. Sarah

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Feeling Lost

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Hi. I’m new here and feeling lost at the moment. Last week I got terminated from my job of 7 years without warning and not sure what to do next. Just feel so overwhelmed thinking about having to restart my life in my 40s. Over the last couple of years work has been very stressful, especially coming out of the Pandemic. This resulted in me suffering from burnout and eventual depression as work didn’t seem to care about my situation and let things go even after I made them aware of my struggles. I eventually had a period off work, sought help and was diagnosed with depression and have been working with a therapist and on medication ever since. Start of August I had another depressive episode that lasted about 2 weeks and when I got back to work I got terminated a week later due to my time off. Due to the amount of time off over the last year, I used up all my sick and annual leave and most of it was time without pay. I used up a lot of my savings which also added a financial burned and more stress to the situation. To top it off, they used a clause in my termination so I didn’t get a separation payment. I’m at a complete lost and don’t know if I have the energy to start over.

Hello i guess

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Hello. It's been really hard for me the past months and kind of year. I find it fascinating when I realise when I had been 'normal', time flies outta nowhere and now when its getting hard, I struggle every single damn day. I've been dealing with existential thoughts and depression, because I hadn't realised that I was 'existing without a care'. Im trying to heal, I really am. Anyway this is probably too long lol. God bless.

First steps

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I am nearing retirement and have in the past few months found myself at the beginning of yet another cycle of depression/anxiety. Harder to deal with this time because it doesn't only involve the initial trigger but also a couple of extra curve balls to do with relationships and self-perception. I am trying this as a bit of a last-ditch effort -- I feel exhausted all the time -- years (50 actually) of acting have caught up with me and I am feeling like there is not really much point in even trying. It is soul-destroying after spending quite a few years of intense counselling and thinking that I had made great strides in progress/received many tools to help me to deal with things as they crop up to find myself back in the cycle and with less strength to deal with it. I am looking for genuine support and encouragement and think that I may also be of some help to others also. Thanks.

Holding tight

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Hello. I’m new here and unsure where to start. I’m a senior and struggling with it. I don’t feel like a senior sometimes 若

Hello. I’m new here and unsure where to start. I’m a senior and struggling with it. I don’t feel like a senior sometimes 🥴

New to the forum

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Hi, I don't feel like saying much, but I've joined so I'll start by saying hello. I have depression and its really bad at the moment.

Hi everyone, new member here who has severe depression and social anxiety

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Suffered from depression and anxiety for 8 years, and still do to this day. Hoping to be able to connect with others and find help and support

Lost my first full time corporate job

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Hey everyone I lost my first ever corporate job I had for six months after I graduated from university few days ago. I am feeling lost, shocked, and my confidence greatly impacted

New member here

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Hey everybody -- New member here. Not really sure what I'm seeking, maybe some likeminded or non-judgmental people to converse with.I moved to Australia a few years ago. Got married and had a baby, marriage has fallen apart, ended up in a women's shelter with my children for victims of DV recently for many horrendous reasons.It's been a real slog pulling myself together and starting again from scratch alone in a foreign country.Hoping to gain maybe a few online friends along my journey of healing.

New to the Forums

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Hi everyone, have just signed up and introducing myself. I am a woman in my 60's and have pretty much been through the works. I grew up in a dysfunctional family. Have been dealing with Dysthymic Disorder and Major Depression since my teenage years. Have lost 3 family members to cancer, one family member and a best friend in road accidents, and another best friend to a rare disease. Have been married, separated and divorced (no children). Have had and recovered from a rare cancer. Have one sibling left who is a narcissist and has resented me from the day I was born, needless to say when I moved, I gave no indication of where I was going. I was already struggling emotionally when I started caring for family members during their cancers, my father died first but when my mother died just 10 weeks after my brother, I felt completely broken (like humpty-dumpty). My Major Depression progressed to Chronic status and had suicidal ideation for the next few years. I moved more than 300kms away to leave it all behind but after 1 year found out I had cancer in 2016. I am glad to say that I am doing much better these days and would like to put my many years of experience into helping other people not make the same mistakes that I made.

Newbie on this forum

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Hello everyone - I haven’t been here before. Depression is my big issue and I’m hoping to both give and receive support

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