Staying well

Meditation, Manifesting, Gratitude & The Law of Attraction

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Hi everyone, Not sure where to start so hope I can express myself clearly and maybe with others' input we can expand on this. I'm interested in people's thoughts/ experience with meditation, manifesting, gratitude & the law of attraction. I've recent... View more

Hi everyone, Not sure where to start so hope I can express myself clearly and maybe with others' input we can expand on this. I'm interested in people's thoughts/ experience with meditation, manifesting, gratitude & the law of attraction. I've recently started using the Smiling Mind app to meditate when going to sleep and sometimes when feeling a little anxious, like tonight. It is something i thought i could never do as my mind rarely stops, however, with persistence, I find I enjoy it. I guess i tend to have a negative mindset which I am determined to change.I always felt uneasy about thinking positive things as i thought i would jinx myself, and that whenever I made a positive comment or felt happy it would go wrong or something negative would happen. So i refrained from allowing myself to be too happy, I guess to 'protect' myself. Recently i have been feeling happier, stronger, expressing gratitude and taking note of when things have come to me when i needed them. Coincidence, or answers to what i put out to the Universe? I like to think the latter. A work colleague one day told me to manifest something i wanted, put it out to the universe , so I'm trying. Example, recently we needed to measure the floor space at reception so we could calculate how many people we could have in at one time. I needed a tape measure, which i did not have. At that moment our handyman walked into the office. Guess what he had? I am getting into the habit of practising positive thinking instead of thinking/expecting negatives. If something 'negative' does crop up, it can be dealt with, it's not the end of the world. I look for the positive in every negative situation. I am becoming more aware of being grateful for little things, things like getting a good car park at work, a warn cosy bed, a tidy house. I feel when i am expressing gratitude I am putting positive thoughts out into the universe and I notice more positives instead of focusing on negatives. Late last week we had internet issues at work and a colleague i found a little annoying. I've been feeling very drained, agitated, negative for a few days. This morning things were not running smoothly for me. A result of my negative mind perhaps? Little things became a big deal, my morning was crap. If i look back, it wasn't really an issue, i just did things in a different order which gave me more relax time this evening. The Law of Attraction, positive thoughts, positive experiences. What are your thoughts? cmf x

Is this normal?

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Lately I’ve been feeling just unwell. I graduated high school 2 years ago and have travelled many places but since last August I came back to Australia and I couldn’t find a job or think of a single thing to do with my life. I’ve spent so long in my ... View more

Lately I’ve been feeling just unwell. I graduated high school 2 years ago and have travelled many places but since last August I came back to Australia and I couldn’t find a job or think of a single thing to do with my life. I’ve spent so long in my apartment and I know what everyone says “go outside, take care of yourself, find a job, study on the side, get your license, find a hobby” but they all feel impossible and uninteresting. Whenever I stand up I feel like breaking down and I can’t socialise like I used to. I get tired after spending 20 minutes with my family and I feel horrible about it since I love them so much but they think I’m uninterested in them and that I’m just lazy. I don’t want to be seen as lazy and just all round a horrible person. I’ve been getting angry at myself and taking it out on everyone around me even through I try so hard not to. I’m confused and scared since I’ve never felt like this before and it feels like no one ever takes it seriously or listens to me. If this has ever happened to you please help me I’m tired of being sick and scared. I’ve tried everything.

Driving

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Should I get a new driving instructor well im going for a test soon and this instructor has been really rude to me and had raised his voice at me and hasn’t been really been clear about explaining stuff to me so I was doing a reverse parallel parking... View more

Should I get a new driving instructor well im going for a test soon and this instructor has been really rude to me and had raised his voice at me and hasn’t been really been clear about explaining stuff to me so I was doing a reverse parallel parking and it came up to the full lock right which I didn’t know at the time because he explained it the way that I would not get and then when I said to him like which way do I have to turn the wheel on and then he said obviously it’s the right way like you said it to me like in like a very very rude tone and I asked him do I have to stop and break before I do do the full lock left for 45° angle and then he like touched my shoulder and I felt like so uncomfortable and he’s like an older man too. We can’t find any women around here. I just feel so uncomfortable and I just feel like that. I can’t do the driving lesson before the driving test with him because I just feel like I’m just gonna get yelled at if any advice please reply to this.

Reality Check

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If you are feeling anxious and depressed, perhaps the last thing you need to read is a book written by Emil Cioran. He was a Romanian writer/philosopher who wrote some of the most pessimistic books on the planet, including one entitled 'The Trouble w... View more

If you are feeling anxious and depressed, perhaps the last thing you need to read is a book written by Emil Cioran. He was a Romanian writer/philosopher who wrote some of the most pessimistic books on the planet, including one entitled 'The Trouble with Being Born'. However, the book is beautifully written, and it shows what other people have to endure during their lifetime. I am always interested in what other people have to go through although most of us wouldn't feel compelled to write about it. I could write a hundred books about my life in the hope that it would help other people. Unfortunately, I lack the motivation to accomplish such a task, so I come on to the BB forum to try to do it that way. Litle snippets of experience and knowledge that might just prove useful to someone who is undergoing a similar experience. Sometimes, when I outline something on here, I think afterwards that nobody would have done what I did anyway. For example, as a child I was convinced that my life was preordained in some way and that all I had to do was show up and everything would work out fine. Not so! In reality, you have to fight for everything you want while trying to assure people that you are worth their time. Naturally, other people have had a hand in my downfall because I was convinced that everyone had my back. Not so! We are in competition with every other person on the planet and they don't always have our best interests at heart. It would be nifty if we could transfer the history of our lives to a DVD and use them as training tools for the upcoming generation. Just an idea!amd1953

in between phase

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hello thank u 4 reading i wanted 2 post here bout my current situation. i am in what i call an in between phase where i have finished 5 years of study & i am seeing where i might end up living. where i live has been stressful & i realised 2day the ex... View more

hello thank u 4 reading i wanted 2 post here bout my current situation. i am in what i call an in between phase where i have finished 5 years of study & i am seeing where i might end up living. where i live has been stressful & i realised 2day the extent of it which is, that i had a mould infestation that started 2016 where they blamed me 4 it then they treated it but i chat with a lady 2day that said she had a mould thing & now has a disease & low immunity which made me think maybe this is same with me as ive had low immunity issue 4 a while eek with that i think will be approaching a dr. Anyway so thats that but the other thing i wanted 2 mention here is just having time 2 sit & let things settle far 2 much has been happening 4 me since 2019 which might post bout elsewhere. The wins are that i now have a dip counselling a cert mh & a 2nd dip & i volunteer at the Prayer helpline, anyway being that this thread is re staying well i will mention here that i am seeking the silver lining in my life & trying 2 reflect in thankfulness such as i have a home & food & live in a nice area. Also, i have realised with my chats here that self preservation is key we need to put self first if we r going to b of help 2 others i mentioned 2 my friends re that analogy think i heard re we need 2 put our oxygen mask on first in order 2 help others God Bless

10 Humbling Life Experiences

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1. An inheritance from a distant, unknown family member.2. The birth of my son.3. The realisation that I will not be here forever.4. The dissolution of my marriages.5. Staring up into the night sky and wishing I was a star.6. Seeing a rainbow and kno... View more

1. An inheritance from a distant, unknown family member.2. The birth of my son.3. The realisation that I will not be here forever.4. The dissolution of my marriages.5. Staring up into the night sky and wishing I was a star.6. Seeing a rainbow and knowing that someone else already found the gold.7. Being the last member of a forgotten family of misfits.8. Telling a silly joke and wishing I had not.9. Writing something on this forum and realising I should have remained silent.10. Knowing that tomorrow always presents a chance to be better than today.

10 wishes never realised

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1. I wish I had fought back against the bullies at school2. I wish I had run away from home when I had the chance.3. I wish I had accepted one job over another.4 I wish that I had never married.5. I wish that I had never joined the ADF.6. I wish I ha... View more

1. I wish I had fought back against the bullies at school2. I wish I had run away from home when I had the chance.3. I wish I had accepted one job over another.4 I wish that I had never married.5. I wish that I had never joined the ADF.6. I wish I had been born better looking than I am.7. I wish that I had been born smarter.8. I wish my parents had never met.9. I wish that I had not wasted so much time trying to fit in10. I wish that I could leave this world behind me and fly to another.

Im happy!

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I got an A on my math exam All my therapies and diets helped me to stay stress-free

Determining the cause- anxiety/depression

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I'm hoping to hear others stories, re how anxiety is determined (the cause). Or are there many out there who suffer with anxiety, and unclear what the true cause is?My understanding is there can be causes that go deeper than what appears on the surfa... View more

I'm hoping to hear others stories, re how anxiety is determined (the cause). Or are there many out there who suffer with anxiety, and unclear what the true cause is?My understanding is there can be causes that go deeper than what appears on the surface.I also don't refer to it as 'my anxiety' as that would indicate 'I own it' when I don't. I don't own it, yet I do need to understand the what, and how? (what is the underlying cause, and then understand how to 'fix')For some of us, triggers or fears can come from an early age, and only ever trying to find our way through life, whatever that entails. I believe it is fair to say that many of us find the only way we can navigate our way through life, is based on learnt survival skills from an early age. Survival skills we learnt, haven't always worked in life. I have a fair idea as to what has shaped my life, trauma from a young age. Then events through life became somewhat traumatic- traumatic in comparison to say someone who didn't come from a dysfunctional family. None of this is new to me, yet have to say that I've never learned to 'unlearn' thoughts, and learn new ones that are helpful. I’ve had major struggles with thought processes in life, resulting in anxiety and depression, even if just from time to time. I’ve seen many therapists through life, yet none who have been able to break it down, in a way that makes sense, or to create change. Never seeming to get to the root problem. Whether it is abandonment issues/fear, or whatever, to-date I’ve just not found the right help. I would be most interested to hear of others stories, even if still having challenges

Intermittent mental disability block

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I dont know about others here but I seem to have the above. My direct issue is that sometimes I cannot cope with minor details but that could be an old male thing. But I think its more serious than that. eg My mother figure passed last January. I'm e... View more

I dont know about others here but I seem to have the above. My direct issue is that sometimes I cannot cope with minor details but that could be an old male thing. But I think its more serious than that. eg My mother figure passed last January. I'm executor and have to do many tasks soon like empty out her house and huge garage that her husband (passed 2 years ago) filled with machinery and wood for carpentry work. It's a big task. So next month we plan to stay there 4 days and do it all. My problem isnt the workload ahead but my inability to focus on the details that my wife (bless her heart) sometimes brings up. Eg who are we going to give the glassware to?, the tools, etc maybe we should get the carpets shampooed, do you think we can pressure wash the paint ? and so on. These are normal questions but I shut down as I cant easily cope with thinking about these things. It's like only major things I can plan like boxes, pressure washer and garbage bags to take with us then wait till we get there and then think about how we go about the finer tasks. When I shut down I tell my wife I cant cope and now she understands but in the past it was too hard for her to comprehend. Another example is finances- I no longer have the ability to think deep while driving the car. If my wife asks me what I spent $98 on two weeks ago my bad memory wont tell me what. If a description isnt possible eg paypal then its anyones guess and if she said "was it for the car"? I begin to get frustrated. Memory loss is a buggar. One day we had $105 taken out of our account by a company we didnt know, we thought we were scammed. After an hour tracing it etc I recalled where I was at the time and it was at a service station for fuel. But we argued as the car couldnt take such an amount of fuel, so I had to think further. Turned out when you add the 3 pies, 2 sausage rolls, block of chocolate and thick shake it adds up eh. lol. Being eftpos there was only the company name (say Mercury Co) but not a fuel suppliers name eg BP. I'm convinced medication over the years is to blame but my dad also had depression and got stressed easily and left such tasks to my mother. Not my wifes fault BTW. Anyone understand? I cant write things down because I'd have to remember to do that. TonyWK

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