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BeyondBlue Hi! Check out this post if you're not sure how to start
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Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are... View more

Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are really interested in what you might want to add to these conversations. We get it, having anxiety makes it hard to share in a public place. Remeber, this is anonymous and the Beyond Blue team are here to help if you need it This section is for people who are experiencing anixiety in some form in their lives. This might be in social settings, at work, or just in the day to day. You don’t need a diagnosis to post here. If it feels like the right spot for you post, go right ahead! We know that feeling anxious can make it hard to reach out so we want you to know that getting this far is amazing and a great start. A few tips for getting the most out of this section: Get involved when you can! Posting and replying is the heartbeat of this community and you DO have something worthile to share (when you’re ready ) Every experience is different. There is no competition here. We know how challenging anxiety can be and how it comes in all shapes and sizes. What you are experiencing will be respected and supported here. Trust yourself! You are the expert in your experience. This community works because people like you share what has worked for you. Thank you for getting involved and taking a look. We can’t wait to hear from you! Beyond Blue

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Reinaa Anxiety
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Hi everyone, I've migrated to Sydney for about three years. It's hard for me to make friends at my school. I was diagnosed with anxiety, depression, OCD and other things that I don't remember. And sorry for my horrible grammar and tenses, I just want... View more

Hi everyone, I've migrated to Sydney for about three years. It's hard for me to make friends at my school. I was diagnosed with anxiety, depression, OCD and other things that I don't remember. And sorry for my horrible grammar and tenses, I just want to share my experiences. I was really shy at school and I hardly make any friends. I feel scared talking to people, even at rolecall when the teacher say my name. I'm having issues at home. My parents are arguing because of me all the time. They fight infront of me and my sister and it feels very bad. My father was a very traditional men who was sometimes selfish. I feel that my father don't like me since I was young, I don't know what should I do.

Aeneides Need advice dealing with anxiet/severe trust issue
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With getting lied to by consecutive previous relationships, I now find it incredibly difficult to trust people to the point where I didn't want romantic relationships anymore. Recently though, I started liking someone again and we talk everyday, but ... View more

With getting lied to by consecutive previous relationships, I now find it incredibly difficult to trust people to the point where I didn't want romantic relationships anymore. Recently though, I started liking someone again and we talk everyday, but since he's not ready for a relationship yet, I decided to sort of wait for him and just be a good friend right now. However, when someone starts acting sweet and flirty around him, I just start sort of breaking down internally because it feels like I'm going to get replaced again, for lack of a better word for it. I don't bother him about it because I know it's a pain to deal with this and since we're not a thing, having him also deal with this feels unfair to him..? Would anyone happen to have any advice how to deal with this trust issue/anxiety? I want to stop being this obsessive distrustful person who constantly checks if there are any signs I'm about to get replaced, ready to run away.

lila222222 How I’m feeling
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Hello, i feel as though no one cares and I don’t know where it’s coming from. I’m not normally like this but recently I’ve been picking up on times where people don’t care about my feelings and I just loose it and tell them to f--- off. At first it w... View more

Hello, i feel as though no one cares and I don’t know where it’s coming from. I’m not normally like this but recently I’ve been picking up on times where people don’t care about my feelings and I just loose it and tell them to f--- off. At first it was with my friends but now I see it with my family. I keep pushing people away but the one thing I want is someone to genuinely care and be there for me. Does anyone have any advice?

Pinkthomo Keeps it together
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I've been dealing with this anxiety for the first time in my life and really struggling to keep it to a minimum or get rid of it. The core of the problem is a neighbour who occasionally has music on aggressively loud. I don't know why this effects me... View more

I've been dealing with this anxiety for the first time in my life and really struggling to keep it to a minimum or get rid of it. The core of the problem is a neighbour who occasionally has music on aggressively loud. I don't know why this effects me so much. The rest of my family don't care too much, but for some reason, I feel it's the end of the world.I've seen my gp and she's given me a script if it gets all too much. How does everyone deal with their anxiety. I can only talk myself out of it so much.

Haydennn My anxiety might be risking my access to support services
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I’m currently trying to coordinate access to inpatient care, but I haven’t had to do this on my own before. Ive been working with my GP, but realising I just don’t know all the questions I should be asking him or any other services I’m speaking with.... View more

I’m currently trying to coordinate access to inpatient care, but I haven’t had to do this on my own before. Ive been working with my GP, but realising I just don’t know all the questions I should be asking him or any other services I’m speaking with. I’ve also called intake coordinators at private facilities to try and understand why the process is delayed and what other options exist. Each time I call I was provided a tidbit of useful and new information, but also I noted that the humans on the end of the line were understandably struggling with my persistent calls. Today when I tried to call I recieved an automated message, which led me to believe I’m on a DNA list. I’ve been feeling really anxious about ensuring I coordinate this process to the best of my ability to access the care I need, but today I think I got a bit manic and risked my chances with my preferred provider. I have been respectful and courteous, and have not taken out my frustrations on those I’ve spoken to but still I feel like I was harassing them and felt a lot of shame for trying my best to get myself care. Has anyone else who’s had to do this type of thing alone felt/ experienced similar? Did it ultimately impact your service access? I’m scared I’ve ruined my chances, so have reached out to a pathways service to help me navigate from here moving forward.

Ranga-1 Anxiety about family
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Hello, everyone. For the past few years, my life has been incredibly stressful. My husband has had less than optimum health for a long time, but the past 18 months have been particularly difficult. He almost died about 18 months ago and since then it... View more

Hello, everyone. For the past few years, my life has been incredibly stressful. My husband has had less than optimum health for a long time, but the past 18 months have been particularly difficult. He almost died about 18 months ago and since then it's been one thing after the other (mainly stemming from the major medical episode). He can't work and this upsets him. I have to work and am finalising my degree (which I'm very happy about achieving). The main thing I'm worrying about at the moment is our 19yo son. He's resumed studies but has to attend the institution in another town two days a week, and it's difficult to motivate him. He does not drive owing to a medical condition and he had a minor medical episode a few weeks ago (he is now taking better care of himself, which is great). I worry for his mental health, too. I told him we support him on this journey and to talk to us if he needs to. He and I have a good relationship, so I'm grateful for that. We're in a rural town with no opportunity for what my son is interested in, so I'm helping him with getting ready to move to the 'Big Smoke', which I think will be good for him. I've ordered a book targeted towards young adults in their transition from living at home. I'm so worried all the time. I am a catastrophiser, which doesn't help me. I hate this fear and it's making it hard for me to concentrate on my studies. The stress has been ongoing for months. Has anyone else been through similar?

Natalie22 Embarrassed and uncomfortable.
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On Thursday after my lunch break I got called into the directors office and asked if I take any medications at work. I said no, but I have my ventolin if needed. He then said that it has been brought to his attention that I have been taking pills fro... View more

On Thursday after my lunch break I got called into the directors office and asked if I take any medications at work. I said no, but I have my ventolin if needed. He then said that it has been brought to his attention that I have been taking pills from a blue canister. I was confused. I told him that I am starting a new medication on the weekend and he told me that I needed to give him the nam and side effects. As I was about to leave I pulled out a blue tin from my bag and told him that I have a blue canister of mints. He said that he did not need to show him. But I felt I needed to as I had basically been accused of taking drugs. Spoke to him this morning (Friday) and he told me that I was being aggressive and that I had been aggressive to my co workers after the chat. My anxiety has increased as I am embarrassed that they would have such a low opinion of me, did not speak to me directly and ultimately I had to supply private medical information. I am to an aggressive person and I have clearly came across the wrong way as I was frustrated and upset.

Morganc Who try to use CBD.
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My doc advise me to buy CBD. Its really help?

My doc advise me to buy CBD. Its really help?

ruminator_ Mistake at work and rumination
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Hi everyone, I have struggled with anxiety my whole life. I have never been formally diagnosed or visited a psychologist (except for a one off visit when I was little) and strongly suspect I have ocd. I constantly ruminate and obsess over things that... View more

Hi everyone, I have struggled with anxiety my whole life. I have never been formally diagnosed or visited a psychologist (except for a one off visit when I was little) and strongly suspect I have ocd. I constantly ruminate and obsess over things that I’ve done in the past and doubt myself to the point where I could pretty much convince myself of anything. Yesterday I had a bad day at work and received a disgruntled parent phone call that could have been avoided if I had handled a situation a different way. At the time, I did as much as I could do but hindsight is 20/20 and there were other things I also could have tried to help the situation before resorting to other solutions. I just can’t believe I overlooked it! I know this all seems vague but I’m paranoid and have never sought personal advice online. It wasn’t the end of the world and I talked to my manager who I’m close to about it and she agreed that I could’ve done things differently but said not to worry about it. Except, I AM worrying about it! Last night I thought I had put it to rest but now I’ve woken up this morning and can’t stop obsessing over it. What if this and what if that, what’s going to happen now, is this going to keep getting brought up etc. I am a perfectionist and have a huge fear of making mistakes. I don’t tend to usually and have become quite confident in my role and always try to remember to not become complacent because that’s when things can go wrong. I don’t think I was being complacent with this particular situation but now I’m thinking I must’ve to have overlooked something so simple.I’m really beating myself up over it. While I know the world didn’t end, I keep going over everything the parent scolded me about and can’t stop thinking about how I handled the situation leading up to the call. This parent isn’t the most rational so I feel like it’s going to come up again which also worries me. I just don’t know how to move on from it and stop my intrusive, obsessive thoughts from taking over. I try to be present and in the moment but I feel like I can’t enjoy my weekend now because I have to sort it out in my head first and rationalise my actions. I usually find comfort in learning about mistakes other people have made at work and knowing that they would have handled the situation the same way. A coworker said she has done and would’ve done the same thing as me but it still isn’t helping me get over it.Sorry for the rambling, my thoughts are all over the place! I know it doesn’t seem like what happened was a big deal because I haven’t explained what exactly occurred in great detail but it’s probably one of the biggest oversights I have made at work in a long time. Any guidance or help would be much appreciated!!