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I have a trauma therapist who I believe in, and who is a similar age to me, but as usual, I find incredibly hard to open up to. This goes for the very few doctors/therapists I have ever seen. I sometimes think if we were having a chat and coffee in s... View more
I have a trauma therapist who I believe in, and who is a similar age to me, but as usual, I find incredibly hard to open up to. This goes for the very few doctors/therapists I have ever seen. I sometimes think if we were having a chat and coffee in some cafe (like friends do) I would be able to tell her a whole lot more about whats going on. It all seems too overwhelming in her rooms. So, inevitably this will run its course. I will get more and more scared of disappointing her, because I cant say anything, and/or making her mad at me, of thinking that maybe she only cares because I pay her to, and then I'll miss a few appointments and just leave. Of course I would hope I'd never abandon my friends like that. Maybe I could just pretend she is my friend when I'm in her office, and see if that makes a difference. Why is this therapist being a friend thing so unethical? Can you see my dilemma here????