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BeyondBlue Hi! Check out this post if you're not sure how to start
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Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are... View more

Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are really interested in what you might want to add to these conversations. We get it, having anxiety makes it hard to share in a public place. Remember, this is anonymous and the Beyond Blue team are here to help if you need it This section is for people who are experiencing anxiety in some form in their lives. This might be in social settings, at work, or just in the day to day. You don’t need a diagnosis to post here. If it feels like the right spot for your post, go right ahead! We know that feeling anxious can make it hard to reach out so we want you to know that getting this far is amazing and a great start. A few tips for getting the most out of this section: Get involved when you can! Posting and replying is the heartbeat of this community and you DO have something worthwhile to share (when you’re ready ) Every experience is different. There is no competition here. We know how challenging anxiety can be and how it comes in all shapes and sizes. What you are experiencing will be respected and supported here. Trust yourself! You are the expert in your experience. This community works because people like you share what has worked for you. Thank you for getting involved and taking a look. We can’t wait to hear from you! Beyond Blue

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ciclista Living with Anxiety and Depression - caring about everything and nothing at the same time
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Howdy team, sharing my experience with living with mental health issues. Living with Anxiety and associated depression for some 40 years now. Been very, very good at hiding my illness to my own detriment, putting on a brave face and "coping" through ... View more

Howdy team, sharing my experience with living with mental health issues. Living with Anxiety and associated depression for some 40 years now. Been very, very good at hiding my illness to my own detriment, putting on a brave face and "coping" through various life challenges along the way. Ranging from avoiding social outings as a child, to working myself up to the extent of physical illness prior to sporting events, to not wanting to get out of bed and close off to the world, to going that flat out at work to please all and sundry around me that when works finished for the day I fall in a screaming heap and find it difficult to cope on the subsequent days. Has spanned such a long period of time that it has become the norm to deal with it on a daily basis, however, recent Australia wide changes and restructures by my employer have ramped up the anxiety and associated depression back up to 11/10 and find it hard to stop the " noise" at work and overflows into home life. Recently opened up to close friends and family including wife and young children about my struggles and also started my own little Home charity to fix and donate old bikes to kids to get them exercising in the hope to not have to go through what I do. Have finally also started seeing a psychiatrist to get some help with regards to controlling the all encompassing anxiety which has been more prevalent since work changes. What helps me, well, definitely my sport, Cycling, surfing and also my family, my wife and my two young kids. Just starting to challenge my thoughts and it will be a long road to practice techniques to live a happier/healthier mindful life. Thanks for listening. Cheers

Munro Afraid to sleep
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Hi. Im new here. Ive recently started getting tingling on one side of my face and after 2 doctors not having a clue it was decided i have nerve pain and i would just have to deal with it. I googled this condition and it scared the hell out of me. Ive... View more

Hi. Im new here. Ive recently started getting tingling on one side of my face and after 2 doctors not having a clue it was decided i have nerve pain and i would just have to deal with it. I googled this condition and it scared the hell out of me. Ive now noted waking up with a dreadful headache. Now im too afraid to go to sleep because i dont want to wake up with these headaches. I saw a new doctor today and he suggested i was suffering from anxiety and he is going to send me for mental health assessment. In the mean time i am terrified to sleep. Any ideas please? I am desperate.

Axel33 Teacher Anxiety
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Hello, I am a newly graduated secondary teacher. I love teaching and have always wanted to be a teacher, however my anxiety is ruining it for me. I am fine when I am in the classroom however it is the lead up and aftermath to teaching that makes it u... View more

Hello, I am a newly graduated secondary teacher. I love teaching and have always wanted to be a teacher, however my anxiety is ruining it for me. I am fine when I am in the classroom however it is the lead up and aftermath to teaching that makes it unbearable. I desperately want this to work out but I don't want to work in a job where i feel like this for the rest of my life! Does anyone have any tips? What are the odds of me becoming desensitised to it as I teach more? Thanks

Miss_moo90 Workplace break down
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I have been in my current job since June 2017 and since I have been here it has been one attack after another and I do not know who I am anymore. I feel like I am constantly being personally attacked (This is how I feel but I am sensitive) and I am u... View more

I have been in my current job since June 2017 and since I have been here it has been one attack after another and I do not know who I am anymore. I feel like I am constantly being personally attacked (This is how I feel but I am sensitive) and I am under pressure. Friday I had a massive attack where I pulled my hair out and was in tears - Does anyone know how to get over this and does this mean I am never going to be able to hold down a full time position? Tips and help of any kind welcomed

Anixety1988 New meds werid feelings want help :(
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Hi i started taking medication last monday and sunday just gone i had a panic attack and ever since ive had overwhelming anixety tryed taking some other medication to hopfully get some sleep but my heart is racing and im to afraid to call the afterho... View more

Hi i started taking medication last monday and sunday just gone i had a panic attack and ever since ive had overwhelming anixety tryed taking some other medication to hopfully get some sleep but my heart is racing and im to afraid to call the afterhours doctor really was trying to find someone to talk to

Elvira_kate Depersonalisation
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Hi everyone, I like many have lived with anxiety my whole life but it is only on reflection that I realise this! I had my first panic attack 20 months ago and was thrown into anxieties spotlight! following the panic attack I had an intense 6 weeks of... View more

Hi everyone, I like many have lived with anxiety my whole life but it is only on reflection that I realise this! I had my first panic attack 20 months ago and was thrown into anxieties spotlight! following the panic attack I had an intense 6 weeks of depersonalisation. Where I felt like I was watching myself through the lens of someone else! Since cbt, medication and lots of running I feel like I am making positive progress however i still experience mild depersonalition every afternoon until the sun goes down! I am hoping To learn some new ways in which other people deal with this strange side effect of anxiety! thanks!

Maggie S Relapse of physical anxiety symptoms
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Would love some feedback and help. I suffered what I term an acute anxiety period (I suppose in old terms “nervous breakdown”) 6 weeks ago, with severe physical symptoms and panic attacks. Having suffered PND with anxiety 13 years ago, I recognised s... View more

Would love some feedback and help. I suffered what I term an acute anxiety period (I suppose in old terms “nervous breakdown”) 6 weeks ago, with severe physical symptoms and panic attacks. Having suffered PND with anxiety 13 years ago, I recognised some of the symptoms and enacted GP, Psychology and other support immediately. Have been on medication for 5 weeks, and having fortnightly psychology sessions. Lots of family support in place, gradually returned to work. Have been quite good for a couple of weeks, feeling in control, then have in the last 24 hours lapsed back into the physical anxiety symptoms again (sweaty palms, nausea, detachment, upset tummy, feeling of doom, jittery etc). Unable to work today and no appetite. Is this something that anyone else has experienced? A lapse in improvement? It’s very upsetting along with feeling horrible. I’m hoping it’s a short lived bump in the road? Would be great to hear from anyone else who has experienced this.

anita24 I don’t want to go back
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I have work this week and I’m too anxious to talk to my employer. I’ve not shown up to jobs before but I don’t want to do this anymore but I feel it’s happening again. Any one have advice on what to do

I have work this week and I’m too anxious to talk to my employer. I’ve not shown up to jobs before but I don’t want to do this anymore but I feel it’s happening again. Any one have advice on what to do

Indi_Heart Fear of dying since having children
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Hi all, First time posting.... Since having children ( 9,4,2 &1yrs) I have had a fear of dying caused by something going wrong in my health. Something so simple to others like a skin check sends me into a anxious mess. I have had to have several mole... View more

Hi all, First time posting.... Since having children ( 9,4,2 &1yrs) I have had a fear of dying caused by something going wrong in my health. Something so simple to others like a skin check sends me into a anxious mess. I have had to have several moles removed due to changes in them (they all have come back normal) but waiting the week it takes for the results is torture. It is the only thing I can think of and so challenging to continue with every day life. Once ive done one check up the fear turns to something else, with the key feature being that I dont want to die. I want to be around to see my children grow up and make sure that they are ok..... Has anyone ever experienced this? I feel like im the only one and with a skin check tomorrow I feel helpless

Scotty2013 Extreme Dental phobia
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I hate my teeth always sensitive, cracked grinding etc. I'm grateful we have a public system, but boy i find it excruciating going in, sweat heart racing fidgety crying etc. My worse fear of course is an extraction, had one decade ago and ended up ha... View more

I hate my teeth always sensitive, cracked grinding etc. I'm grateful we have a public system, but boy i find it excruciating going in, sweat heart racing fidgety crying etc. My worse fear of course is an extraction, had one decade ago and ended up having to stop and get up, I felt sick... I think I'm heading towards a few perhaps and the thought sends me near breakdown. What ifs... Pain related mostly id rather be put under but not like that could happen. Anybody else fear it as bad, how do you deal?. Medication hardly worked I needed 10 lol... Thanks

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