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BeyondBlue Hi! Check out this post if you're not sure how to start
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Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are... View more

Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are really interested in what you might want to add to these conversations. We get it, having anxiety makes it hard to share in a public place. Remember, this is anonymous and the Beyond Blue team are here to help if you need it This section is for people who are experiencing anxiety in some form in their lives. This might be in social settings, at work, or just in the day to day. You don’t need a diagnosis to post here. If it feels like the right spot for your post, go right ahead! We know that feeling anxious can make it hard to reach out so we want you to know that getting this far is amazing and a great start. A few tips for getting the most out of this section: Get involved when you can! Posting and replying is the heartbeat of this community and you DO have something worthwhile to share (when you’re ready ) Every experience is different. There is no competition here. We know how challenging anxiety can be and how it comes in all shapes and sizes. What you are experiencing will be respected and supported here. Trust yourself! You are the expert in your experience. This community works because people like you share what has worked for you. Thank you for getting involved and taking a look. We can’t wait to hear from you! Beyond Blue

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Von is lost Burnout
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I’ve called in sick to work the last two days. I’ve had a sore throat but also just so tired and burnt out. I’ve realised I’ve taken one sick day per month since I started the job, is this bad? But if I’m burnt out there’s obviously a pattern here me... View more

I’ve called in sick to work the last two days. I’ve had a sore throat but also just so tired and burnt out. I’ve realised I’ve taken one sick day per month since I started the job, is this bad? But if I’m burnt out there’s obviously a pattern here meaning I’m not coping. Everyone at work has been fine with me not coming in but my mum has made me feel guilty. She has subtly suggested that maybe I’m not that sick/being lazy. She doesn’t understand that I’m so tired just from going to work. I’m on the hunt for a new job that will be better conditions and less stressful hopefully, but in the meantime I’m dealing with a job where I have to at least stay back an hour everyday to get everything done. On top of everything, I feel like I have ADHD and am keen to investigate this and whether this is contributing to my struggles at work.

Getmeoutofhere Business anxiety
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Hello. I am finding it really difficult to function atm. I have had anxiety like this for 2 years. My husband and i own our own automotive workshop, which I wanted to sell 9 years ago. So doing something I don't want to has been a stress. Then his me... View more

Hello. I am finding it really difficult to function atm. I have had anxiety like this for 2 years. My husband and i own our own automotive workshop, which I wanted to sell 9 years ago. So doing something I don't want to has been a stress. Then his mental health and health problems added to that. 2 years ago I hit a wall as one of our employees was thinking of leaving, and I lost all thought and function. I rely on him alot and panicked, but a week later with mods and some belt tightening he stayed. Have had a few really good years and in a better position then ever, then last year things slowed down and it flared up again, the panic of going back to juggling everything, but all came good. No it's happening again and this time it feels worse. I can't bring myself to do my work and I just don't want to be here. It's been almost a week but this is the 3rd day like this. I just want the panic to go away. I can handle things without the panic. I don't know what I want from this but I am trapped. BTW the business is on the market and has been for 2.5 years. Good business just no one has the cash. Thanks for reading if you made it this far.

Guest_77905965 Anxiety
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Hi, right now I’m living in Australia. But back in home I’m from India I had an incident back in my country i had carbon monoxide poisoning which lead me all down. this is around in year 2021 january when I open my eyes in hospital I realise that Why... View more

Hi, right now I’m living in Australia. But back in home I’m from India I had an incident back in my country i had carbon monoxide poisoning which lead me all down. this is around in year 2021 january when I open my eyes in hospital I realise that Why I’m in hospital all my family members are around and crying and saying are you Ok. after that I start realising that I had memory issue I started forgetting things even dates, days and minute before things. I had my medicine from that after this in 2023 I came in Australia and here You know so much of struggle stress It makes my life worse . I cry, forget things and some time make mistakes in my work place I even forget the things so I started writing on my calendar That this day I had my this work and that work. please let me know the solution. thank you

Guest_48003732 Work Anxiety and Medication
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When I think about it, I've always had anxiety. But this year it has spiked and made working very difficult. I am a teacher, and feel like there is no space for mental health conditions. You can't just leave your students for a quick break. You need ... View more

When I think about it, I've always had anxiety. But this year it has spiked and made working very difficult. I am a teacher, and feel like there is no space for mental health conditions. You can't just leave your students for a quick break. You need to show up and put on a facade. Every. Single. Day. Last year I found teaching and my general life very easy and fulfilling. But this year, every day is so hard. I bought a house at the end of last year and am struggling to make ends meet. I've had a lot of sick leave without pay and can't keep doing this. I started taking antidepressants at the beginning of the year and don't feel like they are helping. I am experiencing depression and suicidal thoughts, which I've never had before. I used to love life. Part of me wants to run away, sell my house and live out of the car. But I don't know how I can come back from that. Has anyone else had a similar experience with antidepressants? How do you keep pushing through the discomfort and go to work every day when it makes you physically sick? I can't keep doing this for the rest of my working life.

Chris o Self help group or psychologist
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Hi everyone, For the last month I have been suffering from panic attacks (maybe anxiety). It is all very new to me and troubling. I have tried breathing techniques ‘smiling minds’ and Dr prescription medication, which is helping. Next step was a psyc... View more

Hi everyone, For the last month I have been suffering from panic attacks (maybe anxiety). It is all very new to me and troubling. I have tried breathing techniques ‘smiling minds’ and Dr prescription medication, which is helping. Next step was a psychologist but none are available right now. So I tried a self help group in my area. It was a very rewarding time and would recommend it. My question, is a self help group a good substitute for a psychologist?

K_Ley Struggling
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Hi, well what a few months it has been. Last Friday was the first anniversary of my sisters passing and although it was difficult, it was nice to be surrounded by family. It did bring up a lot of feelings and emotions though. lots of sadness, anger w... View more

Hi, well what a few months it has been. Last Friday was the first anniversary of my sisters passing and although it was difficult, it was nice to be surrounded by family. It did bring up a lot of feelings and emotions though. lots of sadness, anger why it had to happen at all and I miss her dearly. On top of that work is getting worse by the day, the constant behaviour management all day every day, the copious amounts of reports, data collection and emails, the phone calls to parents, and writing behaviour records. Then there is the everyday prep work to be ready for lessons. It is never ending and it is nothing for me to complete another 4+ hours of work at home each night. So how is my mental health in all of this?? Not great. I feel like I am slowly drowning - the water level is lapping at my chin and soon I won't be able to breathe. I am attending therapy once a week and whilst it helps, its the days in between that are difficult. Some days I just want to stand on a mountain somewhere and just yell and scream until I feel better. And other days I just want to crawl up in a ball and cry my eyes out and wait for the world to pass on by. I am in two minds about returning to my doctor and going back on anti-depressants. I stopped taking them about 6 months ago. Anyway, I should probably try and get some sleep......

Guest_55233920 Worrying at night and cannot sleep
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Hi allMy first time doing this but wanted help with dealing with night time worries which I cannot switch off and then means I cannot sleep. Any ideas will be welcome.I have a fair amount on my plate like a lot of people including being a carer for 2... View more

Hi allMy first time doing this but wanted help with dealing with night time worries which I cannot switch off and then means I cannot sleep. Any ideas will be welcome.I have a fair amount on my plate like a lot of people including being a carer for 2 family members both of whom I live with and love very much.But still find it all a lot at times and I need to deal with the NDIS which is an ongoing burden which I cannot say is easy.I Have also retired recently after a fulfilling 42 year career so finding that a bit difficult as well.Any how I hope someone can make a helpful comment or idea. Look forward to the discussions.thankyouPat

Guest_36134434 Anxiety
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my child is having anxiety going School and very emotional,feeling dumb about task assessments.I tried everything but refusing to talk.And I'm on edge all the time overthrowing what's happening to my kid.

my child is having anxiety going School and very emotional,feeling dumb about task assessments.I tried everything but refusing to talk.And I'm on edge all the time overthrowing what's happening to my kid.

Fiatlux Why do some people go out of their way to cause stress and anxiety?
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Hello to everyone this beautiful Sunday, I have woken up with a stress headache once again, caused by one person who has been vile to deal with. (He is a customer not family) All of last week he was deliberately complaining about absolutely nothing, ... View more

Hello to everyone this beautiful Sunday, I have woken up with a stress headache once again, caused by one person who has been vile to deal with. (He is a customer not family) All of last week he was deliberately complaining about absolutely nothing, being abusive towards me and my staff. He was deliberately causing confusion and mixing up orders to test me and my staff. To test our service. Calling late at night and becoming an absolute nuisance of himself. I mean calling at 10pm on Friday to complain. I was already in bed trying to recover from the harassment I had been subjected to all week. Yesterday I was having an anxiety attack because of not sleeping and this morning, Sunday, Mother’s Day, he started again. The phone calls from different numbers, the messages and videos and voice messages, he sent emails at 11:30pm to stress me out about nothing. A error of his own making. And again calling staff this morning to place an order and then call 30 minutes later to cancel it. Just to create unnecessary work. Why are some people like this? I want to scream every expletive I can think of at him but I have to bite my tongue as he’s threatening to post nasty poor reviews of my service online. Tomorrow, I will be telling him that I can no longer provide with any service as he’s threatening to cancel his account anyway. I want to tell him that I don’t need his business. What is wrong with someone like that? I haven’t cried yet, but I feel like punching a pillow and just imagining it’s his face. I want him to know how much stress he’s caused me to a point of breaking down today. I’m exhausted. Thank you everyone for listening to my rant. Fiatlux 🫶

sb9803 health anxiety and panic attacks
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Hi! Just putting this all out here to see if anyone can relate because I’m quite stuck and really struggling and nobody close to me understands what I’m going through. I developed health anxiety November last year (7 months ago), I’ve always been sca... View more

Hi! Just putting this all out here to see if anyone can relate because I’m quite stuck and really struggling and nobody close to me understands what I’m going through. I developed health anxiety November last year (7 months ago), I’ve always been scared of death but this is a whole new extreme, i started having panic attacks daily that eventually turned into a 24/7 panic attack that lasted 8 weeks, my mum had a brain aneurysm when i was 6 that burst, i was meant to get a brain scan at 18 because they can be hereditary but i put it off until November and I’m now 20. As soon as i had the scan done is when the panic started, I convinced myself I was about to have a brain aneurysm burst, I wouldn’t leave my room, didn’t sleep, couldn’t eat, could not function for 8 weeks and was stuck in a constant panic. I went to emergency multiple times and had 7 doctors tell me the scan was clear and still I wouldn’t believe them. About a week after I accepted the fact my brain was okay a relative passed from a heart attack, he was in his early 30s (has had major health issues his whole life) this then made me convinced that I was going to have a heart attack, still to this day and it is so debilitating cause once again i can’t sleep or do anything, i don’t go out anymore, i won’t go further than 10mins from my house and won’t even go into shops. It has gotten a lot better than at the start, once again multiple trips to emergency, multiple ECGs and been told countless amounts of times my heart is fine and healthy and i’m also very young still. Now one of my friends went into anaphylaxis from almonds randomly with no previous allergies, now i’m to scared to eat and when i do eat my anxiety convinces me im going into anaphylactic shock I just really need some support or advice because this has gotten so out of control and I just want it to stop