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BeyondBlue Hi! Check out this post if you're not sure how to start
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Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are... View more

Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are really interested in what you might want to add to these conversations. We get it, having anxiety makes it hard to share in a public place. Remember, this is anonymous and the Beyond Blue team are here to help if you need it This section is for people who are experiencing anxiety in some form in their lives. This might be in social settings, at work, or just in the day to day. You don’t need a diagnosis to post here. If it feels like the right spot for your post, go right ahead! We know that feeling anxious can make it hard to reach out so we want you to know that getting this far is amazing and a great start. A few tips for getting the most out of this section: Get involved when you can! Posting and replying is the heartbeat of this community and you DO have something worthwhile to share (when you’re ready ) Every experience is different. There is no competition here. We know how challenging anxiety can be and how it comes in all shapes and sizes. What you are experiencing will be respected and supported here. Trust yourself! You are the expert in your experience. This community works because people like you share what has worked for you. Thank you for getting involved and taking a look. We can’t wait to hear from you! Beyond Blue

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Shazi Night mares moods and depression
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Hello 勺 I have been smoking weed now for about 20years. The last 10years very heavily.I quit one month ago, I am really struggling with moods, depression and nightmares. My brain just isn't coping during the day from the nights. I think im getting en... View more

Hello 🩷 I have been smoking weed now for about 20years. The last 10years very heavily.I quit one month ago, I am really struggling with moods, depression and nightmares. My brain just isn't coping during the day from the nights. I think im getting enough sleep , but if given the chance I crash out during the day. I'm constantly tired and sad. Does anyone have any inspiration stories of similar to help me keep moving forward and staying off the weed. I have past experiences with anti anxiety and anti depression tablets but I seem to be worse. I have seen my gp but unfortunately the help offered isn't working.I suffer very bad anxiety and depression which is worsening since quitting. I have no motivation and feel like life isn't worth living anymore. I have had thoughts of ending my life due to the anxiety and not coping with the feeling I get. My family means alot to me so leaving them behind in this world seems far to selfish. I don't like living like this. I am healthy, I am in a wonderful relationship with a beautiful 12yr old step daughter but I'm always worrying about things I don't need too. I try and stay busy in hope this helps, but its worsens. I work about 2 hrs a day on a very casual schedule as I work for myself. I walk, I exercise etc but lately all I want to do is sleep. My head hurts maybe my its my brain from the nightmares. I'm hoping someone can shead on light on this and let me know it'll all ease up soon. I've always been a believer that weed wouldnt have withdrawal symptoms. I feel so stressed and sad. I have not felt happy in a very long time almost years. Weed wasn't making me happy anymore and I feel smoking it has created my panic attacks and anxiety.Thank you for this opportunity of hope 🩷

FrenchHorn Ongoing concerns
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I've struggled on and off with anxiety for 11 years, and I'm currently going through another tough time. I see a psychologist every 6 weeks, but she's away at the moment, and I won't see her until late November. I'm scared I won't cope for that long:... View more

I've struggled on and off with anxiety for 11 years, and I'm currently going through another tough time. I see a psychologist every 6 weeks, but she's away at the moment, and I won't see her until late November. I'm scared I won't cope for that long: I'm not eating, I'm so very tired, and I'm not motivated.I think I understand what has triggered my current episode, and I believe what I'm experiencing is processing the feelings from my recent trigger. It's been almost two weeks now and these feelings aren't going away. I've just upped my medication and hoping the change will kick in soon.Does anyone else experience long bouts of depression after anxiety? Is this normal?Does anyone have any tips for getting through this next few weeks? I'm fortunate to be on leave at the moment but have to return to work next week, and I'm so worried I'm not going to cope.Thank you.

Helencatlover Stess
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I am feeling very stressed right now 

I am feeling very stressed right now 

Guest_65617110 Help
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I feel so ashamed and embarrassed. I had a baby 10 months ago and I think I have severe anxiety. I have nearly destroyed my relationship, by constant worry that my partner is cheating, saying that he doesn’t love me, and by pretty much being a horrib... View more

I feel so ashamed and embarrassed. I had a baby 10 months ago and I think I have severe anxiety. I have nearly destroyed my relationship, by constant worry that my partner is cheating, saying that he doesn’t love me, and by pretty much being a horrible person. I feel like a failure, I don’t know where to start to get help. I’ve tried all the online advice, meditation, exercise self care. But continue to get worse. I literally had to beg my partner for one last chance. What do I do. I’m so ashamed and feel like such a failure. Please help

Merricat Trusting myself
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When I have to make a decision or ask a question I get very confused. Because I have had mental health issues since I was a little girl, I have never trusted in myself to make the right decisions or say the right words. I still feel like that same li... View more

When I have to make a decision or ask a question I get very confused. Because I have had mental health issues since I was a little girl, I have never trusted in myself to make the right decisions or say the right words. I still feel like that same little girl who never spoke up or made a decision. I'm scared my mental health issues are influencing what I say or do, and that what I say or do may not be normal. Most recent example was a few weeks ago on this forum, I read a reply to the original poster and I was so upset by what they said. I remembered thinking I should report it but was worried that I may have misinterpreted it so I did nothing. I found the post again a few weeks later, as I had decided to report it to the moderators, only to find the offensive reply had already been removed. I hate myself for not actioning it at the time as I know it hurt this young woman. I can't seem to trust myself with anything. Sorry if this post doesn't make sense.

Guest_57782726 Anxiety or Depression?
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Greetings to everyone reading me. I am here to find out if anyone sometimes feel the way i feel, I sometimes feel like i am depressed, other times it is anxiety, then the mixed feelings of the two. So my question is, How do you manage the mixed situa... View more

Greetings to everyone reading me. I am here to find out if anyone sometimes feel the way i feel, I sometimes feel like i am depressed, other times it is anxiety, then the mixed feelings of the two. So my question is, How do you manage the mixed situation? I will be waiting for comments.

Bee40 Overrwhlemed
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Hi all . Today I feel overwhelmed and upset . My finance is overwhelming me as a single mum . My jobs been making feel stressed as I work in childcare n a child atm is kicking trying to bite n swear at me n other staff. Cause of this my pateience is ... View more

Hi all . Today I feel overwhelmed and upset . My finance is overwhelming me as a single mum . My jobs been making feel stressed as I work in childcare n a child atm is kicking trying to bite n swear at me n other staff. Cause of this my pateience is wearing think at work and at home with my kids . I’m trying to call Centrelink but just call them I feel I will be yelled at for telling of late change of address and be fined n then I will be back to feeling like a weak mum unorganized

Annoymous12 Anxiety
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Hi,I suffer from social anxiety and being in different social settings. I am trying to get feedback and a better understanding of anxiety, and how it affects people differently if anyone is willing to share their personal struggle with anxiety, how l... View more

Hi,I suffer from social anxiety and being in different social settings. I am trying to get feedback and a better understanding of anxiety, and how it affects people differently if anyone is willing to share their personal struggle with anxiety, how long you have suffered, what coping mechanisms you use to help your anxiety and what it is like for you everyday living with anxiety.Thankyou.

Sam1 Health anxiety
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glandular fever I hope everyone here are well. I’m writing to discuss something that has been on my mind regarding my health and well-being. About five years ago, I was diagnosed with glandular fever but never have any symptoms Recently, I’ve come ac... View more

glandular fever I hope everyone here are well. I’m writing to discuss something that has been on my mind regarding my health and well-being. About five years ago, I was diagnosed with glandular fever but never have any symptoms Recently, I’ve come across some information suggesting that reinfection i like this can potentially lead to long-term effects or difficulties later in life. I have been through google and some reliable website as they mentioned ebv the virus that cause mono can lead so many dangerous conditions.Since reading this, I’ve found myself feeling increasingly anxious about how my experience with glandular fever might be affecting me now. I’d appreciate your guidance on whether there are any lingering impacts I should be aware of or things I can do to manage this concern. If there are any recommended steps, screenings, or referrals that could ease my anxiety, I’d be grateful for your advice.

anna630 My mum moved away and my depression is getting worse
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My mum moved away earlier this year for a job and because she met someone there. for the most part i’m happy for her but my depression has been getting worse as of a result of her moving. i just turn 20 and im living alone with my 15 year old brother... View more

My mum moved away earlier this year for a job and because she met someone there. for the most part i’m happy for her but my depression has been getting worse as of a result of her moving. i just turn 20 and im living alone with my 15 year old brother as she’s gone for 2 or maybe more years. I have seen people say call every day or plan visits to see her but she has told me she didn’t want me to call her every day and she’s in a place that isn’t that easy to visit whenever (she’s regional) and i also have work. i’m not sure what to do anymore my depression is getting worse. i’m constantly upset and it has resulted in a few self harm incidents. i feel like im losing myself. she was my best friend and it’s hard to lose someone who was always there for you and then isn’t anymore and it hurts because i know she doesn’t feel the same way and me getting worse has only made our relationship suffer. i have been told to see a doctor but im scared ill be medicated and my mum has told me the side effect do make your symptoms of depression and anxiety worse for a while and i don’t trust myself to not do something stupid if my depression gets worse and i have no one at home. i have been trying to work on myself taking walks, listening to self help videos but i only get upset back where i started after a while.