Mum acting to me like everything is my fault

[Terminator_chick]

So this has been going on and off for a few days now, I've had 4 marjor brain surgeries it affects my life a lot, my mum gave up her career to look after me and sometimes she says I gave up my career for you she says it like it's my fault, she's been calling me a bitch for no reason, she's been very mad at me for no reason it's just her behaviour, when she has an argument with me she always finds a way to win and finds ways to put me down a lot. This is getting to a point now where I'm just gonna lose it and just run away, she's been treating me like shit lately and I don't know what's going on in her life but I hate it when she takes it out on me. I feel like such a burden to her :,(

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Thanks will do 🙂

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It's gotten worse and I don't know what to do now I tried arguing back and saying it's all her but nothing's working :,(

[quirkywords]

Chick,

I am so sorry that you are feeling uncomfortable. Can you go to a friend's place or your aunts place just to have some time out.?

The stress is not good for you as you know. I don't think arguing back will help but you need to be relaxed and supported.

Do you have a friend you can call? Does your Doctor know how stressed you are?

Quirky

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I have gone to a few relatives on the weekend but I need an escape like moving out in getting a lot of money soon for a claim for a car crash I was in hopefully I can move into an apartment or something I'll try writing a letter to my mum telling her how I feel I tried in person and she threatened to ground me and not go to my year 10 high school dance.

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TC

It is good to hear from you. How is your health?

I am sorry you are still having trouble with communicating with your mum. I am wondering at some level does she blame herself for your health issues. As mentioned before she is probably so overwhelmed by everything that she is finding it hard to understand it.

Is there anyway you can stay with your relatives for a longer period of time than a weekend.?

Thanks again for letting us know how you are going.

I saw another thread of yours, and was touched how you are concerned for your friend. I hope you have friends who are supporting you as well.

Quirky

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Hey me and mum mum are all ok now I havent been online in a long time im ok now my friend is ok now unfortunately she's no thanks my friends anymore she was nasty to me but she's ok still I'm ok friends come and go

[quirkywords]

Thanks so much for your updated post. So glad that everything is all right.

I wish you all the best. I am sorry about your friend.

Quirky