I am happily married to my wife both mid 40's and loving life with no
financial stress, good holidays and reasonable social life. In early
December this ended with my wife being committed to hospital with acute
psychosis and depression both of which ...
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I am happily married to my wife both mid 40's and loving life with no
financial stress, good holidays and reasonable social life. In early
December this ended with my wife being committed to hospital with acute
psychosis and depression both of which had never been experienced
before. I have some questions 1, day one depression was diagnosed
however treatment only started after week 4, is this normal? 2, the anti
pschycotic drug was taken orally initially then a depot was then
injected. Her oral dose at full strength continued and last week side
effects started. The oral dose stopped however she is left with the
depot which has a 4-6 week lifespan and can not be stopped. This is
scary for my wife and she is given a drug to stop the shaking ie a drug
to counter the side effects of a drug. Has anybody had similar
experiences of this? 3, The ward is a communal ward and I believe my
wife has become institutionalized. We are a couple, no children etc so
she will be returning to a quiet home. Any ideas to overcome the
community to at home with just me factor? 4, Does behavior change or is
the paranoia an ongoing issue? 5, She has refused to open up fully only
providing a drip drip of information to her team any tips? 6, I have
never had anybody sit down with me and explain what to expect, what to
look out for and how to live with her condition from this point onwards.
7, Communication has been terrible, I have to threaten formal complaints
to receive calls back and for nurses to remove her phone etc as other
patients have conned her into ordering food into the ward. 8, Fellow
patients have become friends. How have others dealt with the patients
becoming friends problem? 9, I am trusting in her medical team however
after discussing her present position after 6 1/2 weeks I have doubts.
To date little has been achieved, still showing signs of psychosis,
depression, lack of memory etc, the only positives we know she cant have
one form of medication she is speaking to me a little more...only a
little! Obviously this is testing of our relationship on top of my busy
professional life. Friends have been great and YES I have been in
regular contact with my GP however sometimes I feel very alone and
fighting the system. Final question do people believe some of the above
issues could be resolved by taking her out of the public system and
moving her to private? This becomes a possibility in a couple of weeks.
Thank you and any advice is very gratefully received.