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BeyondBlue Hi! Check out this post if you're not sure how to start
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Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are... View more

Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are really interested in what you might want to add to these conversations. We get it, having anxiety makes it hard to share in a public place. Remember, this is anonymous and the Beyond Blue team are here to help if you need it This section is for people who are experiencing anxiety in some form in their lives. This might be in social settings, at work, or just in the day to day. You don’t need a diagnosis to post here. If it feels like the right spot for your post, go right ahead! We know that feeling anxious can make it hard to reach out so we want you to know that getting this far is amazing and a great start. A few tips for getting the most out of this section: Get involved when you can! Posting and replying is the heartbeat of this community and you DO have something worthwhile to share (when you’re ready ) Every experience is different. There is no competition here. We know how challenging anxiety can be and how it comes in all shapes and sizes. What you are experiencing will be respected and supported here. Trust yourself! You are the expert in your experience. This community works because people like you share what has worked for you. Thank you for getting involved and taking a look. We can’t wait to hear from you! Beyond Blue

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CMF Dear Anxiety
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At times I tell my anxiety to stop, go away, leave me alone. I thought it might be good to put it into a post. Feel free to write your own letter. Dear anxiety,I've has enough of you & you need to leave. I am a strong, confident, positive person & yo... View more

At times I tell my anxiety to stop, go away, leave me alone. I thought it might be good to put it into a post. Feel free to write your own letter. Dear anxiety,I've has enough of you & you need to leave. I am a strong, confident, positive person & you come in & try to take it away. You always pounce when I'm a little vulnerable & you just keep pick, pick, picking at me until my thoughts go round in circles. Well, you won't win. I know your game & I'm not playing.Go back into your little hole, you won't get the better of me Cmf

Guest_76474857 Can’t take it anymore
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Can’t take it anymore I’m on anti depressants every day and I’m on some medication that I’m meant to take when having a panic attack but somehow I still seem to have them and I have them bad and I can’t take it anymore I’m so tired physically and men... View more

Can’t take it anymore I’m on anti depressants every day and I’m on some medication that I’m meant to take when having a panic attack but somehow I still seem to have them and I have them bad and I can’t take it anymore I’m so tired physically and mentally they make me so sick

Sunshine188 Anxious nurse with nothing left to give
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Hi All, this is my first ever post here. I’m almost 29 and have been nursing for 7 years - my area of speciality is cancer and palliative care. I was really young when I first started and being a very empathetic person (and being exposed to really sa... View more

Hi All, this is my first ever post here. I’m almost 29 and have been nursing for 7 years - my area of speciality is cancer and palliative care. I was really young when I first started and being a very empathetic person (and being exposed to really sad/traumatic situations) I got really burnt out. I made some changes a few years ago - worked in a Telehealth role for about 2 years but I was still burnt out and I felt like I was losing my empathy and compassion for patients, as well as my own family and friends. I felt like I had been drained of all of my emotion and like I had nothing left to give. On top of this I began to experience crippling anxiety. i started a new job 2 months ago working in clinical trials. I thought I would feel less burnt out and anxious in this area but it’s worse. I wasn’t given much training or support when I first started in this role, have spoken to my boss about my concerns and not much has changed. My anxiety is awful and I am experiencing panic attacks on a regular basis. I dread work every day and I feel stressed about work on the weekends. I have been looking elsewhere for another job as I feel so unhappy. It’s really hard to explain to my family and friends how I feel. They don’t understand what constant anxiety feels like...I am exhausted from pretending like everything is ok when on the inside I feel so broken. Part of me is so angry that when I was younger I didn’t look after myself well enough, and I almost wish I never became a nurse. I ultimately feel like I need to step away from health care in general but I seem to have such an issue doing this. It’s hard because I identify as a nurse but I am ready to move on to something else. has anyone ever had a similar situation working within health care? thank you for taking the time to read my post

partyallthetime like what it is this? why am i this way, pls?
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i don't understand why i react the way i do. i don't understand why i act and hurt other people the way i do. i’m not particularly suicidal; i just need advice, help and hope please. i didn't see the sun today.i sat inside all saturday, watching flea... View more

i don't understand why i react the way i do. i don't understand why i act and hurt other people the way i do. i’m not particularly suicidal; i just need advice, help and hope please. i didn't see the sun today.i sat inside all saturday, watching fleabag and new girl.i'd like to change someone's life, to really pinpoint meaning into somebody else's life, to be a pillar of change.but i don't know how to do that, and i don't know how to change. i feel like everything else is beautiful in its way, and i think maybe i should get a penpal, in prison or something, and be grateful for all that i have.even when i'm trying to be grateful, i feel selfish, comparing my life to somebody else. i feel this weird mixture of extreme loneliness, but extreme gratitude for all the love i'm recieving in this mess.gratitude is all i have to give i could go to this party next weekfull of people that i'm scared of, that i think hate meand the boy that i'm on at the moment, that i kinda likebut i'm kind of scared of i'm scared because i don't know anythingi never know how people really feeland i had a dream that he told me that he was angry at me, because we did something really vulnerable, and then i kept hiding from speaking about it i heard he likes me, and i validated that physically, before i knew he liked mebut i don't know how i feel about him my two best friends, at school, last week cut me off.they didnt really.one called me to talk about the issues we'd been havingand then i sent things in a similar direction with the other,that we're just not that similar anymore, or that good for eachother.and then i walked away from everyone and sat alone.because that felt like the only choice i hadeven though i have a million choicesi shape my reality. i box myself into this silence everyday.where do i go from here?when i think everybody already dislikes me,and i'm so anxious i cant speak,and i'm now alonewhere do i go from here?

Guest_05915216 i don’t know
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i can’t sleep because i keep worrying and it makes me shake which causes me to be nauseous and eventually i vomit or pass out from exhaustion. i’m basically fine all day until i go to bed then my anxiety really hits me and i don’t really know why. if... View more

i can’t sleep because i keep worrying and it makes me shake which causes me to be nauseous and eventually i vomit or pass out from exhaustion. i’m basically fine all day until i go to bed then my anxiety really hits me and i don’t really know why. if anyone experiences this and has tips please lmk

lhr- Leadership Anxiety
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Hey there,I have inadvertently become the spokesperson for my entire student body, and I'm deathly afraid of the outcome. I launched a small scale investigation on some of the discrepancies occurring throughout leadership at my school, had a meeting ... View more

Hey there,I have inadvertently become the spokesperson for my entire student body, and I'm deathly afraid of the outcome. I launched a small scale investigation on some of the discrepancies occurring throughout leadership at my school, had a meeting with the principal to discuss my thoughts and findings, and found myself dissatisfied with the outcome. They deflected, shifted blame onto me, and overall did not answer any of my questions nor make any effort to take any action. I was livid and then found out more upsetting news which ended up snapping my final straw. I decided I wanted peaceful protest, and started planning for a walkout. I now have dozens of kids come up to me asking questions I don't have answers for, and it seems in the short amount of time it's been decided for, the news is spreading must faster than I intended. Most of them are on board, but the planned date is not for a while, and I know things will spread more. These people trust me to speak on behalf of them, to lead our cause, but I can't lie, I'm terrified. I don't mind being reprimanded for doing what I'm doing, but I am so worried others are going to get in trouble for something they didn't plan. I am sought out for guidance, answers and comfort, and I have to sit there and say words I don't believe. I know what I'm doing is right. I know what I'm doing will create the voice needed to cause the admin to take action, but damn it I'm terrified and have no idea how to manage it all. How do I manage all the stress? It has to happen I can't avoid it, but I'm so afraid of all the "what if's" in such an unusual situation.

Mario_Sonic My Ongoing Fear
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Hey guys, Liam here. I just wanted to talk about something that has deeply affected me for a long time now and that something...is my fear of losing my family...Basically, from when I was born to when I was 13, I was a youthful, happy person...but wh... View more

Hey guys, Liam here. I just wanted to talk about something that has deeply affected me for a long time now and that something...is my fear of losing my family...Basically, from when I was born to when I was 13, I was a youthful, happy person...but when I was 14, so this was in September 2019, my Nan had a fall and broke her arm. This was something I didn't see, but I was there when it happened...I had my two cousins with me at the time, boy and girl and my girl cousin actually witnessed Nan fall which deeply traumatized her...anyways...point is, after this incident, in 2020, I lost my Grandpa and my Nan's best friend five months apart from each other so in the months of July and Februrary...then in 2021, as a couple of you may know, my dear friend was murdered in September of that year...these three deaths all mean something to me because they've given me this belief that I'm going to lose my family and if I do lose them, the only option I'll have left is to end my life because I can't live without my family...especially my Nan and Pop...they're not just a part of my life, they are my life and they're a part of me...I love my Nan and Pop and all the rest of my family dearly...my fear has gotten so bad that I've started having nightmares about losing them all, seeing them all dead, me being beaten up by my enemies, and me being killed in an electric chair ever since Nan's fall...I guess that's why I feel like I need a girl I can talk to so I'll never be alone... *Crying* -Liam

Guest_10367 Perimenopause HELP
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Hi I was diagnosed with peri about 6 months ago because I started feeling tingling in my legs…. I have some irregular periods and ringing in my ears… my hormones were checked and showed peri. I lead a pretty healthy life and I workout 5 days per week... View more

Hi I was diagnosed with peri about 6 months ago because I started feeling tingling in my legs…. I have some irregular periods and ringing in my ears… my hormones were checked and showed peri. I lead a pretty healthy life and I workout 5 days per week doing CrossFit and so my strength is quite good however recently My muscles are getting quite sore and legs are heavy and hot at night and it seems to be my worst symptom …. My left leg is just bad and i am feeling quite panicked about it because I can’t see many people saying this happened for them and when I google it it says MS …. Am I going crazy? like is this normal !?i would love any reassurance from anyone experiencing this …. As I just feel likeim mental right nowhelp !!

Nice Loneliness
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My whole life changed 2.5 years ago. I went from a full house of people, plenty to do to the exact opposite. First time ever on my own and feeling very lonely. I have family and friends but the quiet of my home is deafening and I feel so alone and lo... View more

My whole life changed 2.5 years ago. I went from a full house of people, plenty to do to the exact opposite. First time ever on my own and feeling very lonely. I have family and friends but the quiet of my home is deafening and I feel so alone and lonely. I’m very much a people person

Aneeta-Karan Worried About My Cat’s Health
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It’s been two weeks since we brought home a new kitten to join our family. Our older cat, our world, still hasn’t fully accepted her, and, it’s been a tough time. The cat has stopped eating and barely drinks water now. I’m worried because she’s getti... View more

It’s been two weeks since we brought home a new kitten to join our family. Our older cat, our world, still hasn’t fully accepted her, and, it’s been a tough time. The cat has stopped eating and barely drinks water now. I’m worried because she’s getting weak,,, and I’m not sure what to do. We love her so much, but seeing her like this is breaking my heart. Please anyone suggest me some healthy cat food options that might help bring back her energy and appetite. Maybe something soft, nutritious, or homemade that your cats have liked?