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struggling with special needs children

Matchy69
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Does anyone else have children with special needs.I am struggling with mine.My youngest cant use a toilet when their at the age they should be.I am getting tired of changing them,does that make me a bad parent?The constant hyperepisodes are taking their strain especially that i am going through other personal stuff in my life
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Hanna3
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Hi Mark

I wonder why they are cutting down on teachers, did they give a reason? I hope it's not the teacher's side. Years ago I spent a couple of days (I wish I'd had more!) helping out at a school for special needs kids in Canberra and the teacher's aides were indispensable.

The class teacher was so busy with assessments and the aides not only helped the teacher but kept the kids occupied and happy. Some of them were like a second mum to some of the kids & gave them heaps of love.

At that school they took a minibus full of kids from the local women's refuge. Those poor kids had been in homes with terrible violence and what shocked me was not only how many of these poor kids there were, but how angry at life they were. They broke my heart! They were so terribly unhappy and older than their years. So sad.

I had a little girl there who had some kind of severe learning disorder. I had to assess her ability to catch a ball, which she missed every single time no matter how carefully I tried to pass it to her, but she thought it was marvellous fun and giggled and laughed with delight every time. I kept wishing I could take her home with me! What a gorgeous little girl.

Good luck with centrelink tomorrow! Let us know how you go. 🙂👍

Matchy69
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Hi Hanna I am not sure what staff they are cutting down on at the school and it is to make it more safer with covid.Two of the teachers aids have been their when my daughter started 14 years ago and have been amazing helpers at the school.

I am not real keen going into the big town today as I heard on the news yesterday their is 20 cases in the hospital there so probably more community transmissions out there.Hopefully I can get in an out of Centrelink quick.

Guest_1643
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Hi Mark, that is hard they are cutting down staff, hoping it's not the teachers aide.

Matchy69
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It took ages at Centrelink.Asked if she wasn't successful with the DSP if she will be out on a youth allowance and they said you can apply for the youth allowance now so that took ages to apply for that.

Matchy69
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Good news my daughter's laptop got approved by NDIS

Hanna3
Community Member

Hi Matchy

That's great! I bet she will love that! Great news.🙂

Matchy69
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Hanna it is so good we found something worthwhile to use the NDIS money on.We are going to look at it for driving lessons .It won't hurt to ask.

Hanna3
Community Member

Hi Matchy,

I think that's a great idea as if your daughter could drive she'd have more independence and confidence and it could be a real help when she finds suitable work as well.

I bet she'd feel great getting her driver's licence, it's an important step towards being adult and an important skill for her to have.

Go for it! Hope the NDIS will help. 🙂👍

Matchy69
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My son's favourite chicken passed on.My son will be ok.

Guest_1643
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Hi Mark, hope Ur son is OK. I wander what he liked about the chicken...I once babysat a boy who had ducks and he was so cute telling me about his connection to the ducks....how is Ur son doing? That must be sad for him.