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beyondblue's clinically-trained moderators often work offline (invisible to you) on issues relating to suicide or self-harm. At the same time, general supportive comments from the community are encouraged. If you have concerns around suicide or self-harm, please phone our support service on 1300 22 4636.
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Thanks Geoff your such a sweety & yes you are right but I feel so lost in away I can't explain, I won't chat anymore because I'm drunk & won't make sense or think rationally but thank you for your kindness...Rayha x
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Hi Rayha, Violet Eyes,
Congratulations on your courage and determination to help yourself. Going into Rehab may be just what you need at the moment, you will be able to concentrate on yourself and not have the added pressure of feeling like the family are not helping you as much as you need right now.
I hope the staff assist you in all ways to help you understand, accept, recognise and appreciate the person you have become today, and they are able to help you let go of your past hurts.
I'm wishing you a positive new beginning where you can embrace who you are and you can move on with confidence and self esteem.
The road may be a little rocky at times, just put on your heavy duty footwear so to speak and walk over the obstacles that come your way.
For myself I have managed to return to a weekly volunteer group I am involved in, once I was there it felt so good to be a part of the group again! I had not attended for months, so I am going to try hard to get there every week now.
Thinking of you and wishing you well, cheerio for now from Mrs. Dools
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dear Rayha, thanks so much for getting back to us, because it seems to be an enormous hurdle to overcome, but please don't see it as that at the moment, as all of us will help you through this.
You know there have been so many people who are just so desperate for help, to find a way out of the mess that has been caused by others, so it just enhances their problems to a degree that is unbearable, but the help that we offer to them means that they have been able to see the light once again, because that's our job and what we endeavour to do.
There has always been talk about people talking while they are drunk, and yes I have been no different, we know that alcohol is a depressive, however back in the mind of the person does lay some truth in what they have to say, sure it maybe exaggerated and go a bit overboard, but for some reason if you can decipher all the exaggeration there does lay their problem.
Rayha, it means nothing on how you feel sexually, it doesn't bother us at all, what does matter is that you have been rejected, and rejection leads to depression, and hell we all know what depression can do to us, it destroys our life, it alienates us and makes us do something that we wouldn't normally do, such as drink or perhaps go further and consider ending our life.
You now have a list of people who are right beside you, because all of us want to help you, you need support and understanding, so we're here and please we are your friends. Geoff.
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Hi Rahya, Violet Eyes,
Just want to let you know I am thinking of you and hoping you are okay.
Kindest regards, from Mrs. Dools
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Hi Rahya,
It has been some time since you have posted anything. I do so hope you are okay. Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and hoping you are safe.
From Mrs. Dools
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