What to do if a narcissistic ex has lied on her affidavit to the South Aus police

[mickl4420]

I already asked a heap of questions, but looks like this site is the same the police ,courts and government. yoiu look at a notification and you lose half a hours typing. well I give up 

[white knight]

Hi Mickl

I've been here nearly a decade. Up until 3 days ago we had the old forum which had major restrictions. We've all waited a long time for this new forum to come and the long hours and effort needed mid this week has been enormous for management.  However there has been teething issues along with us all needing to become familiar with the new format.

I'm sorry you lost content. That fact worries us as we pride ourselves as volunteers to give a response and support.

If you'd like to mention your problem again please do so.

TonyWK 

[Croix]

Dear Micki4420~

I"m sorry your post did not get though, it is frustrating.

It also means I have to guess as to the problem . My apologies if I've gone off on the wrong track or told you what you know already, or suggested matters that are beyond your financial means.

I am not a lawyer and do not have experience in SA. My overriding suggestion is to seek qualified legal advice before doing anything.

One common problem is a false allegation to police to obtain an Intervention Order

Basically an Intervention order does involve a court hearing to see if it is justified. With proper legal assistance and suitable evidence that can be contested

Another path available in some states is to use legal assistance to gain access ot the children via mediation.

Which way (if the latter is in fact possible in your state) to go may itself involve a decision based on advice as either way may be expensive.

If however this is a matter of abuse I'd suggest you ring 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732)  who do not offer legal advice but may be also to help in other ways and may know of facilities or organizations that might aid in your area.

This is an extremely stressful time for you and trying to deal with it in isolation is very hard indeed. May I ask if you do have personal support?  Family or freinds perhaps who may be either able ot lend practical assistance or just be there for you and listen.

Please let me know more so we can give you a more appropriate answer, as it is I'm simply trying to  demonstrate we do care and will try to answer when we are better acquainted with the facts

Croix

[tranzcrybe]

Your questions may have a been a little too specific and not passed by scrutineers given the public nature of the forum.

But as a general response, if you have evidence that corroborates your story then you could present that to the relevant authority to have the affidavit quashed leading to charges for vexatious claims.

[geoff]

Hello mickl4420, if you have clicked email me notifications then your post might be in your email, I don't know and what is not allowed you may be told why.

Much work has been done to these new forums, however, there is much that has to be altered in due time.

All of this was long in the making, I just wish a model was shown to those who post often on the forums.

Geoff.  

[Denham123]

You need evidence to support your claim.

my husband is a narcissist as well so I understand where you coming from. In this country, no evidence then it never happened.