This is prob a stupid thing to write, but I wish that I mattered.
My wife works part time at a retail store and I spend hours listening to her work and the struggles she has. I work from home mostly so, I collect our son from the bus, get him ready for school do the homework and work a full day from home.
But no matter what I've achieved during the day, there is always a comment about an improvement or something i could do better. She doesn't kiss me now, She doesn't even let me finish my sentences. The only time she does what i suggest is because she's grumpy and wants to be able to yell at me later and blame being hungry.
I'm tired of feeling defensive every time we talk. I don't want to be angry, I don't want her to be angry with me.
I read the sticky post and have taken a breath. I just feel undervalued. But if i say that apparently I'm calling her horrible.
Obviously, you are only getting my side of the story, and I'm sure there might be things that I'm doing that legitimately annoys her, but we can never get to it because we are always defensive of the other... sorry I know its a blurt.
