Do you think the way l'm living is ok for now?

[Guest_1584]

Hi BB.

l feel like this is another dumb question from rx , but ah well.ln times of uncertainties we might ask some of those right.

We sep' and divorced 5yrs ago , threw life into a spin. Together 19yrs before. l've stayed in the area to be close to my d, 16now, and finally got another house of my own 15mths ago.

l was with someone new nearly 2yrs but it hasn't worked out unfortunately but being long distance 70% of the time, there was lots of days and nights spent at home in our little private bubble world of messaging and skyping .

So now that we've split, l still haven't built any sort of a new life really. Got this hosue because loved the spot and the house itslef and great views and it's only 20mins form my d's town. lhoped l'd like it here , maybe even make a new life. But ldon't really fit in this town and so it's beena lot more time at home, l work at home too.

Nit sure if l'll stay here , but l do love the house and spot and views and in spare time can easily just hang out around the house days on end , basically alone, bt l dunno, it's just and old renovator but just really comfy to hang out in, live.

If l'm working l always try to get out most days, pick up spares or spin over to one of the other towns for a change of scenery , or some lunch, whatever.Or locally up to the shops even , groceries whatever , anything just to get out for awhile.

lately l've sort of developed a bit of a pattern in spare time. love hanging out around the house a day , 2 or 3, but then l make myslef go see some, a drink with my brother, or another mate l know, or up to the main town , see my daughter some days, or beach , go for a hike, or something. No pubbing or night life.

Same with wkends, l try to get out somewhere one day, hang out at home the other.

But that's pretty well life has been since split with gf. Mostly alone , andl enjoy lately just hanging out around this house , maybe way way too much , not sure. music or some reno's or movies , internet. It's just big and roomy and airy , views , and comfy. l often get claustrophobic but never in this house,

Do you think what l'm doing atm is ok , l really worry l'm alone too much or taht l'll slip into hermitizing too much, l dunno.

Any thoughts welcome.

rx.

[CMF]

Hey rx,

Remember me??? Hehehe. Great new about NG, I'm hearing you my friend and i get it. Isn't it refreshing? Best of luck to your daughter with exams, my son also just finished and getting ready for yr 12.

How the years fly eh?

cmf x

[Guest_1584]

Hi to one and all and yeppa cm sure do. Wondered how things were going so it was real nice hearing about M on you thread and hell yeah it sure is isn't it.

Hope your son did ok , we can't believe my d , ha 2 yrs ago she was expelled for not even going , but now this turn around, it's freaking us out haha butttt eh, so proud of her/

Hope things are rolling along for ya.

rx

[blondguy]

Hey RX

You should be proud of what a great dad you have been....Congratulations especially to your daughter for achieving the excellent results she has (thumbs up!) This is great stuff RX 🙂

I am rapt that you and Ng are together....I know you wrote this on the 13th....and my apologies for the mega late response to you...oops. You are a serious legend for having such a healthy outlook where you life and well being is concerned

I really liked what you mentioned....." life is so bloody strange isn't it , never know just whats around the next bend"

Absolutely RX and very well said too 🙂 Always a bonus to have you on the forums

my best always RX

Paul

[Guest_1584]

Hey paul , ahh no worries and thanks a million for everything mate , really.

Yeah we're proud as punch for our daughter , still worries me though like wth has happened haha, where did my daughter go.

And also for the ng stuff , really appreciated mate.

All the best and l hope things are traveling ok for you.

Cheers. rx

[blondguy]

Hey RX

you deserve some happiness RX and good on you for having some too!

Thankyou for the kind post and asking about how I am traveling.....not too bad...maybe a tad worn out and looking forward to having a break 🙂

Thanks heaps for being a part of the Beyond Blue family RX (thumbs up)

You rock!

Paul

[blondguy]

Hey RX

We are here for you mate...no problem at all. If you wish to change your thread topic just email our super nice moderators on....

modsupport@beyondblue.org.au

Just bumping up your original thread if thats okay

be gentle to yourself mate....I hope you can post back when its okay for you!

Paul

[Guest_1584]

Eh Paul how you doing, and thanks very much mate for the kind thoughts and support and in helping people to feel so welcome.

Yeah l'd def' like to get back when l feel l can actually explain things right now , bit of a challenge right there haha.

Hope you've been enjoying the summer mate and everyone else to that comes pops in and out. Been absolutely beautiful up here and we've been doin some serious chilling well over due. Went for a great canoe today to with my daughter but the sun Gods tomatoe'd me while l wasn't looking too and tonight l'm about as red as one now. Great day though.

Best to all

rx

[blondguy]

Hey RX

Im not too bad and thanks heaps for asking mate 🙂 You know these forums and how they work RX. There are no expectations here so if you choose to talk about anything....thats your call. You are a solid part of the Beyond Blue forums and always great to have you on the air with us (thumbs up!)

Thanks heaps for posting back RX...always a bonus to hear from you.....even if its about the new weather forecast for Melbourne this Friday.....43C.....ugh...doh!

my best for you and your great daughter too RX

Paul