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Hello, I am Steve

Steve22
Community Member
Hey everyone,  My name's Steve, I'm new to the Beyond Blue forum haha.  Allow me to introduce myself.. Like many, I too suffer from depression and anxiety. My time in primary and secondary schooling, was well.. The polar opposite of positive. Most of my time in school was shrouded in misery, depression, unrelenting bullying and the list goes on. Despite my best efforts, I've been really struggling to deal with depression (due to unemployment) recently. In order to try and deter depression, I regularly hit the gym (3 times a week) for lengthy sessions at a time. While regularly attending gym is a good thing, it still does not fix the underlining problem of unemployment. After working out rigorously, I often find myself with too much time on my hands. I do enjoy maintaining a very clean car, but you can't be washing it daily lol. I do enjoy hitting the beach, but given that it is winter here in Melbourne, the cold ocean breeze does detract from the overall enjoyment of the beach haha. So why don't I go get a job?.. Ahh yes, easier said than done. When your someone like me, who gets discriminated from applying for jobs due to your heritage (despite having the essential licence), it makes applying for and being accepted for a job.. Impossible. I myself am not one to judge people, I am very accepting of all people, all shapes/sizes, heritage, religion etc. I never judge people on those particular things, but it seems that others judge me purely on my heritage. Maybe employers are scared that a young man with dark brown hair & eyes and olive/tanned skin wants to become a truck driver?, the possibilities are endless. If you must know, I am of Italian heritage. I can't understand why being of that heritage is disliked by employers, it's just ridiculous. I've found that by paying attention, listening and offering advice and tips to many other people in our community, it helps me too. I understand that there are many people who are suffering from depression for different reasons compared to me, It's something that i want to help people with. Having suffered from depression for many years, I'm definitely no stranger to it. I can well and truly relate to it and understand what many are going through. That's why I want to help people, to let them know their experiences are understandable. That's my brief introduction (not really brief, but you know what I mean), I look forward to speaking to and offering advice to many on this forum. Thank you for reading my thread!
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white knight
Community Champion
Community Champion

Hi Steve, welcome

I don't agree with your "heritage" issue. I think it is more isolated than that. Keep trying and don't give in.

Otherwise keep on with your chosen career path. Once you gat that one big break you might not look back. However!

Hard working people can also be discriminated against. I had it at several workplaces. Work hard and you inadvertently show up others for not working hard enough. You not only get off side with your colleagues but after a while your supervisor will throw all the work at you....clever eh?

Years ago I worked in a customer service area where calls would come in. But the workload was never monitored. I caught one lady opposite me doing her nails and every time a call came in she'd act like she was answering it then wait that extra second for me to do so...then go back to her nails. It really makes me angry this laziness. But these are the sorts of challenges your boss might not realise.

You might be a truck driver and from Melbourne to Perth set a good legal time for the trip. Then you might be expected to do it all the time at that rapid pace. So my advice to you and others is to do your job well but not too well. Fit in with other workers pace but not to the point where you become one of them. When the worker complains to you about working too hard tell them to lift their game themselves as you don't want to lose your job.

Take care and rise above discrimination when ever it happens.

Tony WK

Chris_B
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Hey everyone, this post is a double so I'm locking this thread - you can continue your conversation in the original here.