Grief

[Deeoz]

Do you have grief counselling service. ? 

I have become incapacitated by grief. I don't know what to do or how to go on. Everything is a mess. It's beyond me fixing it anymore. I can't do it anymore. I would rather not be here.

Do you think grief counselling would help sort me out or should I go into the mentally ill ward at orange.

[geoff]

Hello Deeoz, and a warm welcome to the forums, and for what has happened I'm very sorry as it's causing you much grief.

If you can 'Download the Grief and loss fact sheet' which is on the Beyond Blue site and hopefully this will be highlighted or your benefit.

When you are able to indicate why this is happening maybe of benefit to us and so sorry this has taken place.

If you are able to get back to us at any time that suits you.

Take care.

Geoff.

[Sophie_M]

Hey Deeoz, welcome to our friendly online community, we are so glad you decided to join us here. It sounds things a really challenging for you at the moment and we are sorry to hear of your grief. If you would like some help finding mental health support, we would recommend that you get in contact with the Beyond Blue Support Service. They are available 24/7 by phone on 1300 22 4636 or on Webchat 3pm-12am AEST on our website: www.beyondblue.org.au/getsupport  One of our friendly counsellors will be able to talk through these feelings with you and can offer support, advice and referrals. We know it can be hard to write the first post, so thank you for having the courage. We're sure that a lot of our community members will relate to this experience you mention and hopefully some of them will pop by to offer you extra words of wisdom and kindness. We have also sent you a private email with further information.
 

[quirkywords]

Deeoz

welcome to the forum. I am so sorry you are feeling so overwhelmed. Grief is experienced differently by everyone and it can take you by surprise by its strength.

geoff and Sophie have given you helpful suggestions.

below is a grief helpline

GriefLine Community & Family
Services Inc
Griefline listens, cares and supports people experiencing loss and grief at any stage in life. They manage Australia’s only dedicated loss and grief national telephone counselling service. They provide support and specialist counselling services to individuals and families. They also have a free online email service which is available 24 hours per day every day of the year.
Call: 1300 845 745
Email: enquiries@griefline.org.au Website: griefline.org.au

You are not alone and there is support here.
it seems like things won’t change but talking to someone who understands can help.