Hello Tweet-Heart, I think when our psychologist connects with us and we know that they understand exactly what we have been through and often 'take words out of our mouth' then a trust is established, so we look forward to the next appointment for 2 reasons, 1- we know that we can tell them anything (except for that very dark secret which no one knows) and we like them.
What happens when they go on holidays, we become anxious, so we try to email them or perhaps ring them, eventually, this will become too much for them, so if this is happening just be careful.
You don't have to explain any intricacies to them if you are embarrassed, they will get the general idea, and remember one person has a different way of looking at your situation than another person, and they normally don't want to be influenced by someone else, they need to make up their own mind.
If too much feeling between the two of you is mutual, professionally they are obligated to find someone else who can help you, this will only make you take a step backwards, because that's not what you want, and secondly you will have to start all over again.
Try and avoid this.
Geoff.
