My wife is currently going through the period with a psychiatrist where the potential outcomes will either be a diagnosis of BPD or Bi-Polar currently they aren't sure.
We have been married nearly 2 years and she has a really traumatic past having lost her mum to suicide when she was 8, suffered abuse at the hands of her grandparents and been in several broken relationships and has 4 children with 3 failed relationahips.
None of this bothered me at the time and I fell madly in love with her.
Since then her behaviour has changed, she has a big problem with physical intimacy on any level, seems to be down all the time apart from very rare really outrageous high's
I am really struggling to cope and looking to connect with people in similar situations. I want to support her unconditionally but without anything at all in return it is so difficult, It makes you feel unloved , is it worth it, will things ever change.
Anyone in a similar situation that is either going through similar or has been through similar. I love her to bits and really need some support with how to cope.
