Need help and confused

[Not_sure]

Hi there thanks for reading this 

i was dating this happy go lucky lady moved out with her got a dog grew a bond with her son we where living the dream we where happy I couldn't do enough for her and she couldn't do enough for me. 

One day she started stating in bed in the dark tired all the time just did what she had to never wanted to talk really distanced her self from me in all ways communicating to not wanting to cuddle joke just wanted her and her son. 

One day she woke up and said I can't see is going anywhere that was it but before that we where happy everyone could see it in us that we where meant to be together she looked at engagement rings said she will have a child we have a little family going now it's exciting where a great team our future she's looking forward to it. I know her last partner wasn't the nicest person. I have tried to help her by messaging calling but now she has fully blocked all calls her sister told me to move on her mum won't talk to me. My ex did say at one stage u don't want me in your life I'm no good not ready for all this but all I want to do is be there any advice or anything I love this girl so much I really want to date her again and marry her I know we moved fast in this relationship but if it was right we wouldn't have done and move so quick I have lost her and I know this isn't her but everyone I speak to keeps telling me she's fine when she's with her family and friends why should she do this to me as all I want to do is hell 

[WooHoo]

Hi Not sure

Thats hard. Its a bugger when you think you have the same plan / picture, then one day, for obviously a reason unknown to you,  feelings changed.

It would be easier to move on, if you knew why something changed in your partner. Sometimes it is best not to know, as the reason will - most likely seem incorrect or unfounded to you. Whether it is correct or not will not help in my opinion.  Once someone starts feeling a certain way, it is imo virtually impossible to cause them see the error of thier ways by using logic on them.  People as we know are complicated things.

I would advise, to get on to other things. You sound like a very nice person, I can assure you good things happen to good people