What would you want to do that would make you happy if money or time were not a factor?

[V17]

I believe - more so now, especially now; that there is/has to be a purpose why I am on this earth. Before the pain; before the torment, the hurts and fears I've faced and am overcoming, there was a time - no mater how long ago it it was; I smiled. Not that smile you sow on your face to placate or appease but the heartfelt smile. My psych asked me this question the other day, "What would you want to do that would make you happy if money or time where not a factor".
So I said, "Even if it takes 10 years?." She countered, "Even if it took 20." Okay.
"What - like a job?"
"A job, a pastime - anything that you need to work towards to achieve it."
Shit. Okay. Alright.
"I would write a book." Nod. Yeah.
"What's stopping you?", she replied.
Some where in the distance a dog barked. (hehe, sorry - had to)

This has been a pivotal moment for me. Without going too much into detail other than to say I fired back many 'buts' at her, the question remained the same. This question and the dialogue that followed has been one of many beginnings to the journey I am now willing, not so much happy to - more determined - to undertake. No, it's not going to be easy - how can it be? - but, jeez; I love to write.

So, may I ask you who is reading this - if not to post a reply, then to ask yourself.. what would you want to do that would make you happy if money or time were not a factor?

I wish you the BEST of days.
V.

[Lonelydan]

Hmmm where to begin.. it may be provocative but let's go for it. I would use my trillions of $$$ to buy an island big enough to land my jet I'm calling it happy fun fun island anyone with a diagnosis of mental illnesses is welcome to stay at one of my palatial luxury 6star villas for free for as long you bloody want. All expenses will be paid for all outstanding mortgages, credit cards, debts will be paid by happy fun fun island so you can enjoy your time and utilise the island full facilities and resources why not try our team of Swiss doctors who only specialise mental health who will stop at nothing to make sure you're feeling your absolute best. like it never happened is there motto, why not pop in and see our rejuvenation clinic all our surgeons offer pain free plastic surgery scar free. it's all on the the island folks. Then I would establish conveniently located medical centres around the world filled with only mental health doctors, psychiatrist, psychologist, counsellors, nurses and a restaurant all dedicated to your care.

[V17]

Hey Dottie, really nice to meet you.

Cheers for the encouragement, it made me smile to know your day was a little brighter. It's this kinda thing that keeps me moving forward. Every inch of made ground is worth the effort.

Btw how do you do those little winking or smile emotes on here?

So travel huh? Cool. Any particular place or country? How do reckon you'd get there? Sea? Plane? I've seen a fair bit of Australia but I'm not an avid jetsetter - I'll leave that to you and Radiojammer! Great goal Dottie, from the travel I've done, the people I've met and experiences resulting from it - I'm glad I did it.

I hope you've had a good day today.

V.

[blondguy]

Hey V17

Just sending an apology for the mega slow response on your other thread. It slipped through but has a response now 😉

Go Ford!

my kind thoughts

Paul

[Guest_322]

Hi V.,

Now I'm smiling that my post made you smile; I'm loving the upbeat vibes 😊

True, baby steps, right? Just keep movin'

Plane (I suffer from terrible sea sickness so avoid ships like the plague). I would like to travel the world but would particularly love Japan, LA, New Orleans, Scandinavian Europe, New York, London...many more...plus I always appreciate the really creative hubs around the world.

I'm glad you've travelled around Australia. It is a beautiful country indeed.

Ha, ha one of the few small luxuries that I can afford is my iPhone. I know there are much cheaper handsets out there but my precious iPhone is one of the few things where I haven't scrimped on 😉

So I just type my posts on my phone and I can select from a range of emoticons on it. If you have an iPad, you should be able to do the same (I don't have an iPad so I'm not 100% sure- I do have a laptop though).

Thanks, you take care too!

Dottie x

[V17]

Good morning Radiojammer - thanks for taking the time to reply, sorry though, I couldn't respond earlier. I hear you about work - thankless jobs don't help when you are already suffering. Have you considered looking for another?
A shop huh? Cool! - how wonderful to be your own boss. What type of shop?
You are right - it's not cheap travelling on your own! My dog and I were living off of tin vegies, rice and gravy and apples for a little while. hehe. We were camping in this magical spot though - Mataranka Springs - if it wasn't for serious budgeting.. we got through it.

Good morning Lonelydan - Your post cracked me up! Only because I could relate (it was so good to hear there was someone out there who thought similarly to me). You see there is this amazing property - 895 hectares - with 3.5km's beach front, 4WD tracks, orchids, wetlands; just AMAZING. I said to my folks the other day more or less the same thing you said. It's 15mill. hehe. People DO win lotto huh.

Good morning Paul, I enjoy seeing your posts, they allow me to see a different perspective. Thanks for that. I think I sing the praises of these forums many times a day; I wouldn't be where I am without the input of people posting (like yourself and so many others) and my crackerjack (loved that) psych.
Btw - when I think FORD, I think Cobra Jet! 🙂

Good morning Dottie - Bummerz! I don't have an ipad or iphone. I'm a samsung girl who doesn't like using her mobile very much. I googled 'creative hubs in the world' WOW! I can see why you appreciate them. Incredible. It was so good to see there are places in the world that allow the opportunity for their fellow countrymen to shine. Japan has the most stunning gardens. Lovely places Dottie to go; rife with culture - just beautiful.

Thanks for sharing guys 🙂

[Just Sara]

That's easy V...

I'd look like my profile pic...to match my inner strength.

Hope springs eternal...Sara xo

[V17]

Beautifully said Sara. How remarkable you must be! Love it! Inspiring 🙂 V. x

[Just Sara]

Thanks V!

I'm do'in the doing, spreadin' the love, mirror gazing and making it happen. I may have an issue with the long brunette hair though...short (store brought) blonde curls - ahhhh...

Hope springs 75% lol

Sara xo