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Three things to be thankful for today

Doolhof
Champion Alumni
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Some days it is really hard to find anything to be thankful for when we feel overcome by the darkness and fog of depression. If I look hard enough, I can find something to be thankful for.

I would like to encourage others to write down three things they are thankful for, and to realise there is a sense of hope available to us all. Sometimes it is just a little hard to find!

So my three things for today are:

1: The lovely singing of birds in the morning as they welcome in the new day

2: The ability to read and write

3: A lovely hot shower.

Wishing all the "family" in BB Land a day full of noticing the nice things in life. Kind regards to you all, from Dools.

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Hi Peeps,

Shout out to you too Sleepy, I think we have a similar attitude to life 🙂

Mb20lover, sorry you feel like that. When all the big things in life seem to have turned to poo, I try to look for tiny things that make my life better. Do you have a pet? Or perhaps you have a favourite food that can give you some pleasure. Sometimes just blocking out the entire world and focusing on eating a single square of my favourite chocolate really slowly gives me a few moments of sensory joy, even though my mind is mud.

Today I am thankful for:

1) 8 hours of sleep in 1 night (yay!!) It has been 2 months since I slept that long

2) lemon & ginger tea, it makes my mouth feel alive

3) my new hot brush. I can make myself presentable to leave the house with less time invested now. Anything that reduces time spent on chores is a huge win for me.

yeah i have a pet. it's just hard to find anything when i'm feeling this terrible lately. normally i can find at least one thing even if it's small.

I am going to be struggling here..

1. Brother in law who is supportive of me

2. Cousin rang to see how I am and seemed to actually listen..felt free to be open honest with him.

3. Plenty of movies to watch when /if I choose to

Hey mb20lover,

I quite understand. I have those days too, it's great you're still trying though. Be kind to yourself 🙂

PamelaR
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

One is never too old to learn new tricks Mr Walrus 🙂

Thankful that -

  • the weather is beautiful. Love these autumn days.
  • soothing ABC music playing in the background.
  • my aches and pains have diminished (can't explain why - maybe because I've got back into doing palates and stretching).

Thankful for

you moon being able to find 3 things admist your struggles

You Pamela and seeing you back on the forum.

being able to share grandchild’s birthday party.

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Today I'm thankful for;

M's sister not being home

Lovely day with family at a 1st bday party

A lovely partner, even though I feel on a road to nowhere

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey Boudaica, what is a hot brush??

we do seem to have similar values!

i can understand a square of chocolate being, enough.

I'm grateful for:

- my new blinds look so nice

- i had a few mooments peace today and got some rest

green beans are so easy to cook and good for u. easy dinner for me 🙂

PamelaR
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Awww, that's nice Quirky. Great to hear you had time with your grandchild!

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

today i am grateful for chocolte - lindt 70 perecent is nice enough

i'm grateful for having a tv of my own - first purchase i made after being unwell and in hospital, felt guilty, and am now grateful i can watch everything i need online and my friends lend me their netflix and stan

- having a nice neighbour